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    Weird experience last night...thoughts?

    Iron isn't hot though...iron felt cold
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    Weird experience last night...thoughts?

    Should I reach out to her? Or wait until she initiates? As in should I send a "Let's do it again ;)" text?
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    Weird experience last night...thoughts?

    Met up with a girl last night I met online who I'd been talking to for a few days. We went out for a few drinks and had a great conversation. However, she wasn't giving me great body language (avoiding eye contact, etc.), and so I was surprised when she invited me back to her place to "stay the...
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    Canceled second date, advice?

    Thanks guys...phenomenal advice as usual. I can already feel the improvements. So we pinned a firm date for next Wednesday. I sent her the time and place, and she agreed to the meeting. However, something that bothered me is she also said "I'm feeling sick and I'm ok to work today...but I just...
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    Canceled second date, advice?

    Alright thanks guys, there's always room for improvement and I'm trying to get better. I shouldn't have asked for the second date, I realize - We had five drinks together so I was just enjoying the time and that was what I was genuinely feeling, but I see the mistake. Having said that, she...
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    Canceled second date, advice?

    Also, regarding the Friday thing, I don't live in the US and here Friday nights are considered more "chill" nights. A Tuesday night here would be like a Friday night in the US.
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    Canceled second date, advice?

    Her passion is photography, so maybe I could suggest a fun photography date in our city or something along those lines. But advice taken. I'll start lining up other dates/options. Maybe I did come off as too available, but in the moment it was difficult not to ask for the second date.
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    Canceled second date, advice?

    But do you think that this initial cancellation is a bad sign? or could it be that she truly is sick?
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    Canceled second date, advice?

    Met with a girl for drinks yesterday, and it went well I thought...we had a great conversation, etc. I asked her for a second date and she seemed excited about it. I suggested Friday for dinner, but she said she was busy (sister visiting for the weekend) and suggested Wednesday. After the date...
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    I just left my girlfriend of 3 years, for business. Am I a selfish prick?

    I am with you brother...just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years (I'm 23)...but we are young, my feeling is 20 or even 23 is too young to accept that it's the right person for the rest of your life unless it feels absolutely perfect. which in your case (and mine), it doesn't.
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    Just broke up with GF of 3 years...not sure what to feel

    Because I'm not sure if that's the right thing to do. We'd been together for three years, and she was hinting at wanting to be engaged. The thought of marrying her made me more hesitant than excited, so I just don't see the point of getting back into a relationship where I don't enjoy someone's...
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    Just broke up with GF of 3 years...not sure what to feel

    I came to this forum under a different username three and a half years ago when I was struggling. I was a scrawny, anti-social kid in college who had no self confidence. The people here helped me so much, and I remember this place specifically whenever I think about the dramatic (and positive)...
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