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    cannot orgasm during sex

    So you think masturbation is the problem? I've been told so long that masturbation is 100% consequence-free that I didn't even think of it. I'm not sure how I can train myself to come...sex feels like NOTHING. And the novelty of thinking "oh i just had sex...awesome" wore off after like the...
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    cannot orgasm during sex

    hey guys, I posted before on a completely unrelated topic and got good responses, so I thought I'd ask another (and more sensitive and serious) question. I'm almost 21, and I've never had an orgasm during sex, despite having been sexually active for 3 years now. A little history: In the...
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    Another issue for me is...

    Most of us are fed unrealistic expectations of relationships, friendships, and even our own self-worth and abilities--by media, parents, teachers, even ourselves. And while I think it's good that you're asking questions (and you're even being critical of the questions you ask, which is...
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    What is Intelligence?

    I'd say what we call intelligence is basically one's reasoning ability, with respect to both quantity and quality. Quantity being how many operations or whatever you can perform in a given time, and quality being how efficient or effective those operations are. A computer can think incredibly...
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    Got her facebook, now what?

    if she doesn't respond (she prob will...it's just facebook), you can just message her again in a few days and be like "okay okay your reply is a few days overdue, but I GUESS I can give you an extension on it this one time, since I'm feeling the holiday spirit. how did the tree decorating go?"
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    Am I throwing away opportunities?

    Thanks guys--I think you're right. In retrospect, rethinking my career options for girls seems pretty desperate and pathetic anyway
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    Got her facebook, now what?

    i think "listening" to what a girl says applies even in facebook messages, and I think she gave you a few conversational clues in her reply to you that you could have picked up on. For example, you could have asked about her friend, or why she took the photography class in the first place, or...
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    Ex Girlfriend Cliche

    The exact thing happened to me. Dated beginning of spring sem, broke up at the end, little contact over summer, grew closer again fall (to where she was sleeping over...), then she wanted to date but not be exclusive (to which I refused for the same reasons you did), and then she flirted a lot...
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    Am I throwing away opportunities?

    Hey guys, I'm new. I've been reading the site for the past few years, and a lot of the advice really works. Anyway, I'll be graduating undergrad next year, and I want to go to graduate school to get my Ph.D., which is a notoriously poor and lonely five or six years. Meanwhile, my friends are...
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