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    Quitting caffeine

    I have had some serious issues with anxiety in the past and still do today, but I am also a heavy caffeine drinker (2 red bulls a day). I have decreaed my intake before and found the anxiety is reduced. I want to quit completely though and I am hoping that this will make me feel more comfortable...
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    Paranoid about std's

    Ok, so there is this girl that I made out with years ago when I was actually with someone else. This girl really wanted to get with me back then and I guess she had a huge crush on me. I'm single now and we reconnected...she still really wants to get with me. We have been texting each other the...
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    26...never really been a player

    I have read "The Secret" have you ever read that? It basically say's your thoughts attract like things. Um I told my therapist about it and she has read the book as well. She said that me thinking the last two girls I approached had boyfriends actually attracted me to girls that have boyfriends...
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    26...never really been a player

    So throw myself into the fire even though I think I can't right now and eventually I will start to think I can?
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    26...never really been a player

    Lol I actually don't pay her.
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    Good body language

    So, I have heard that 93% communication is body language? What would be good body language to have?
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    Want to ask this girl out tomorrow possibly..

    Ah so I went in there today and it was awkward. I said hello how are you and she said good how are you. She saw my scrubs (I am a vet assistant) and asked me if I do surgerys. I said I help with them. Then I asked her what she liked to do when she wasn't working and she tells me she is an...
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    26...never really been a player

    Let me just say that I do go to a therapist and she said, "I think you will start to build confidence once you start getting out there , asking girls out, and seeing that you are not getting rejected." I then said, "I could get rejected." And she say's, "I doubt that's what will happen." WHy...
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    Want to ask this girl out tomorrow possibly..

    Haha yes, I have that problem of thinknig way too much. I haven't even gone in and done it yet. I am going to hopefully get a chance tomorrow. If not then on Friday on my day off.
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    What to say?

    Haha so that sounds good. So just hand her that...don't introduce myself or anything? I guess in this type of situation handing a piece of paper is an ok thing to do.
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    26...never really been a player

    I got laid at 21 but didn't have my first real girlfriend until I was 22...we just broke up 6 months ago at the age of 26. She completely broke my heart too...cheated on me and left me for some gothic guy. I think that maybe I am very attractive. I have been told so by many people but I see...
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    26...never really been a player

    Yeah, so I'm 26 and apparently I am quite good looking, but for most of my life I had low self esteem. ONly had one real girlfriend and that lasted for 4 years. So I feel kind of screwed to be really starting to "mack" on girls at age 26 lol. So far I've only approached two girls that were...
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    What to say?

    Or if I were to ask her for her number...just randomly say that without her even knowing my name? Her: "Anything else?" Me: "Your number" Her: Who knows...
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    What to say?

    I don't have a business card. SHould I just write it down on paper? Should I say something to her while I give it to her or jsut give it to her after she gives me my change, smile, and say goodbye? Yeah, it's very hard to run game in this kind of situation. I think.
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    What to say?

    OK, so there is this really cute girl that I have seen working at quiktrip atleast twice. She only waited on me once and I just said, "Hello" but she gave me those "I want you and think you're hot" look with her eyes. I could be deulsional I suppose..haha. Anyway, I have no idea how to...
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    The Laws Of Attraction

    That's funny I started watching that dvd last night. I have read the book before, too. I think I totally agree and yes no matter how much positive thinking you do...you will get rejected from time to time.
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    Want to ask this girl out tomorrow possibly..

    I don't think I'll even ask if she's single...I'll just ask if she wants to hang out?
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    Want to ask this girl out tomorrow possibly..

    How long do you think I should talk to her for? Should I still try to get her number if there is a line of customers behind me? lol
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    Want to ask this girl out tomorrow possibly..

    So about two weeks ago my job had me run up to Office Max to get a ink cartridge. There was this very cute girl working the cash register. She asked me about my job and I asked how she liked hers and it just seemed like there was something there. I went in again last week just to buy an item as...
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    Explain why 'no contact' works.

    I became friends with this girl on facebook and we would randomly hit the "Like" button on each other's pages for various updates. Well, when I put my new # up she randomly texts me saying, "Hey it's *******. Get a hold of me if you ever go out so I can meet your as*." That was like a few weeks...
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