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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    Update: At this point I am fairly convinced this girl genuinely likes me, and that all these other things were designed to get me jealous. Pretty sure she had no interest in that dude who was in our room for a bit. So, just the other day somehow this prior question about "what if something...
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    No oneitis. Was just trying to provide enough info for the full picture. Not sure how I got to orbiter when she initiates all convo and i often barely respond but... Possible.
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    Ive always thought that if a girl wanted you she would make time. I generally only do stuff spur of the moment - almost never plan.
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    Very possible, but she does the same to me. She just stopped when he came and he had a better view cause he was sitting closer - better lighting. Unless he made a move quick and I didnt. Turns out she missed that day cause someone ran into her car. He was here and went home cause he was sick...
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    Its not paralysis. It is she gave extreme (for work) indications she wanted to hang. I offered she hard rejected. Then she ramped up the IOIs even more to the point of calling my work desk phone one night. This week she is pulling back a bit except for that strange question of her thinking about...
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    She said, I've been tired all day - she never gave any indication of being tired - not a single yawn or complaint. Not until we were almost to the door then started forcing yawns, which about 5-10 exaggerated yawns took place over the period of 2 minutes. She was either nervous cause she...
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    I'm not 43 but whatever. The question isn't phuck or pass. The question is what does this whirlwind of random crap she is throwing at me mean, why is she doing it, what is she up to, and how should I manage it?
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    I was the one who made the joke about her being wanted. She replied to that by saying, "yeah, I would say I am wanted." I said, "like in the good way - not dead or alive?" Then she agreed and laughed.
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    Wow. Thats crazy. When you say damage control, do you think any damage has been done? Right now we are cool. I just dont want her thinking of me as her work bestie or something where she starts losing respect for me. I dont understand why she is giving all these signals of interest but doesnt...
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    The phone calls I find a bit on the obsessive side if she likes me, danger side if she is trying to play games with me. How long before she starts going further? So what happened in your situation in addition to what you stated above? Elaborate a bit or can I find a post?
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    I'm not necessarily trying to bang - I try the business only stuff and she keeps chipping away going to extremes to bring me back in. I sit 8 feet away from her in an isolated room just me and her. She isn't going to allow us to talk business only unless I create an awkward situation in there or...
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    Haha - I had to look up Mills and boone. Peeople usually complaining cause not enough details. I could have shortened it lol but then full picture wouldn't emerge. WTF calling my work phone at 12 AM though?
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    Kinda Crazy Situation with Female Coworker - Not sure how to handle

    So, it is just me a female coworker in a room at work. For perspective, she has cute smile, very feminine qualities and an athletic lean body, but not necessarily looks I would make much note of unless she was in some revealing outfit - I'd walk right passed her without much of a thought. I am...
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