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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    So to continue with the letter. It's a 3 page long letter. "I didn't think I would miss you this much when you're gone, I didn't realise how hard it would be to let go." I was so close to breaking contact tonight. I was so close to calling him and tell him to shove his olive branch up his ass...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    DAY 13 NC!! I've been on a road trip in the last week and it did wonders for my mind!! Ex wrote me a letter in the first week of NC and dropped it off at my friend's for me. I just read it today. He also emailed me last week about changing the internet account into my name, nothing...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Depends on why break up happened. If it was cheating and lying then probably no...... I think issues other than cheating and lying can all be fixed. I had issues with my ex that certainly caused me to want to break up with him, even though I still love him very much. I would get back in...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    SOOOO COMPLETELY AGREE WITH YOU!! guys just don't talk about their feelings and makes it hard for us women to know where we stand. When I feel I have something "figured out" it's just going by past behaviour. This time I don't know because he has never broken up with me. The one time he tried...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    DAY 5 NC To be honest, I do think he will contact me again, maybe not come back but he will most definitely try to open up communication. I know this because he is still in contact with all of his exes that he was in a long term relationship with. I know he even tried to contact his first...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    It hurts a great deal to know he will never return. He has moved out and established his new life without me. How are you on day 40?? that's amazing! I'm on day 4 and all I can think he is why hasn't he contacted me?! Did I mean nothing to him?! I clearly don't sit here thinking "oh yes he'll...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    DAY 4 NC It is now day 4 and still no words from him. Had a depressive crying moment this morning. I keep writing out messages of how much I miss him and then delete them. So at least I'm still not contacting him. I heard from a friend that his fb is littered with photos of him and her. Clearly...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    hahaha yeah....didn't think that name through........but i am a woman......for real. Still going at DAY 3 NC. This sucks. big time. Plus I ran into the 2 faced slut today at the grocery store. She didn't see me. But I definitely saw her assface. I know she's not living in the area, which...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Very true. I'm a girl and would definitely agree with this. However, one problem. How are you suggesting to suss out the intentions? Girls needing an ego boost from an ex either means 1) she's having problems with her current and is feeling unsecured, and thus wanting some male attention to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    DAY 3 NC only 6am but on track nonetheless. I bought a soup maker. It's the start of a wonderfully delicious relationship!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Yes i am a woman. I care because I love him. Nothing I can do to change how I feel. I am working on accepting the fact that he needs space for himself, and as do I. For the most of our relationship he has been chasing me, and I never really believed he loved me or that I love him. But I got to...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    DAY 2 NC So it's been a long day. Trying to keep myself busy and not thinking about him. It's his birthday today. FML. I haven't sent him a birthday message. Been thinking about it ALL DAY! I even stayed up so late last night so I can sleep in and be unconscious for the most of the day. We've...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Still DAY 1 Mauser96 thanks for replying, it's pretty comforting to know someone is reading my issues. So I'm still on day 1. I finally got out of the house today and sorted out some stuff. Removed him from my car insurance policy and dropped of release forms at the real estate office. I found...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 1 DAY 1 I am so glad to have found this thread with MEN! Most of the break up threads out there are from women. I am a women that just been dumped by ex bf of 2.5 years. We have been living together for 1.5 of those years. We've been fighting a lot and spending less and less time...
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