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Day #20 and feeling really great. I went out last night and ran into my ex's previous BF who had warned me about a year ago that she would end up breaking my heart. Last night we both kind of had this knowing look. Realized that her behavior will never change and that I was just another number...

Day 15.

10 days and feeling great.

Well she texted me tonight to let me Breading Bad was on ( we watched together). Asked how I was doing andsaid well anthat I missed her. Not sure why she is texting me now? Any thoughts?

Have made it a week. Mood waxes and wanes, but realize this is the best thing I've done for myself in a long time. Surrounding myself with supportive, positive people, as well as venting here is truly helping. Hope the days get easier and I'm able to continue to remove her from my heart and mind...

At the end of the day if we act with love and kindness in the face of such immature, hurtful behavior you will have truly given yourself and her a gift. Sometimes the best action is no action. Luis, sounds like your ex and mine are cut from a similar cloth. Let's just be the better men!

Now that things are really becoming tough for me I have tried turning to The Serenity Prayer and remember that I cannot control anyone but myself. Anyone else out there turned to this for relief. Just having a tough day and want the pain to go away.

Sosuave666, thanks for your advice. Somehow she has demonized me and turned everything around. Not sure if she actually believes this crap or not, but she has tried to destroy my heart. I am a good guy who happens to love someone who now wants to inflict pain. I am truly hurt and am trying to...

Day 5. Heading out of town to clear my head. I blocked her and anyone associated with her on FB, but people are telling me that she is putting things on there to just get a rise out of me. Wore a shirt that said "Its not me. Its you." and that was her new "life motto". Very trashy behavior. Im...

Mauser96 thanks for the advice. I know that complete scarcity is the only way to get my own sense of power back. I'm doing this to regain my own dignity and get my own power back in this. Regardless of whether she comes back (she truly doesnt deserve me at this point) I will feel better knowing...

15 month long relationship ended on 5/31/12. At the time it was a "break" she needed so we could reset the relationship. Thought we would get back together. I gave her space and 5 days later called and said she was miserable. I kept telling her that I was patient and loved her. A few weeks later...