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well its all been solved and resolved. i spoke with my GF about the whole thing and turns out that she was testing to see what that guy would type to me during that sex chat cos she lied to that guy about her being on line and said it was me instead! she was trying to see what that guy would...

hehe. well ill need to resolve this crap with her once and for all. im not gonna put up with this long term. its not good for me.

Ok put it this way, I will do this within the next few weeks. PS thanks for the offer to move her crap guys... but seriously Ill handle it. :)

Valid points. Its something that I will never know. Unless I ask that guy directly. I know his full name so I may add him on facebook down the track. What would be the best way to ask him if anything did happen? Seeing as though he knows im with his ex GF he may want to try and upset me in any...

She seems to like the validation from you. She broke up with you, calls you later on when she feels lonely and neglected and wants you to validate her, so she asks if you still love her. You say "yes", she gets her validation, suddnely her attention dies down for you, you act AFC and she is...

Great post and so true. With cheating, it gets easier the more you do it as with anything in life. The first time you cheat, you are schocked even at yourself... you think the whole world saw it happen. then as time goes on, you realise no body knows... so you cheat again. And again and...

What did she do after she gave u the keys? How did she get all her stuff? thats pretty tough considering she was ur wife.

Affect me for the next few years? How? Its not about that, the dignity went out the window when I cheated on her and when I found out that she cheated on me. It doesnt bother me anymore, this situation will have either of the 3 outcomes: 1. she confesses everything. begs for forgiveness. cuts...

haha that would be fun but I dont have the heart to do that or the funds atm.

Hi jgsf65. Your language is great, dont worry. This is the thing, if I was NOT living with her, if I only went out with her for a year or less, then I would not hesitate to end the relationship right there and then and shutting her out (especially if she had her folks here). But it a LOT...

Ok but where do I direct them to move her things? She has no one here but her friends, and I dont know where they live. Its a bit of a grey area, sure if she had her parents here Id dothat but she has no one but that dude and I dont know where he lives.

Ah bro I feel for you, not knowing where it all went wrong is the worst. Look, she knows I spy on her PC, she knows I check her email (she has one personal and one "public")... so if I show her the printed chats, she will not be surprised although she will be wondering how the heck I got...

Thanks bro. Any other public places? A romantic place like a mountain (not to throw her off there lol) is out of the question? I think it is cos itll be a long drive back in the same car. I will meet her in a public place, maybe say "Hey, lets go out for a drink tonight" and go to any local...

Yes it is heart wrenching... I had big plans with her and would never imagine in my worst nightmare her doing such a thing to me. Sure Ive been a prick to her a while back but I thought she forgave me and moved on. Its also a shame, we had such lovely time recently... I guess its better to end...

I agree buddy. I am just trying to piece some puzzles together. And you are right, she is like poison to me. Its affecting my sleep, my eating and I am becoming obsessed with sneaking around and trying to get as much info... Phuck I feel like some detective on Cheaters. Im gonna get her...

I was thinking that too. She is a uni student studying art and doesn't have much money. She quit working part time a while ago to concentrate on her degree. Its funny cos she has mentioned that that guy makes a crap load of money I guess she still does not see him as a provider though. So...

For the pill to work the best, take it on empty or near empty stomach, do not eat big meals prior popping it. Also you need sexual thoughts and stimulations for you to get hard and make Viagra work, you will not get hard by popping Viagra and then playing games on your PC. :)

Just an update: She is being quiet nice lately and I have been treating her well too just to see how she will act. I dont want to start treating her bad right now incase she picks anything up. Now I have a few questions for guys who are used to long term relationships. I have cheated on her...

I know. I just didnt see anything until she told me that that guy said he likes her... and at the time, I thought she was being honest and told me that hes after her. Meaning that she is not interested in him. So no use in confronting this guy right, or giving him the black eye? Kick...

Thanks guys for all the replies. I am not a newbie to the game... I have been with a lot of women, have had many longterm relationships... just chose to move in with her as it was convienient at the time... Anyway I agree, I will ask her to leave within the next week, two max. Ill print out...