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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    letter funnily enough, i was thinking of doing the same thing. ive found previously that writing things down does ease the panic/anxiety/pain. i intend to treat it as an honest letter expressing gratitude for what we had, maybe describe my favourite memories etc.. so ive put a date in the...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    jariel, yes im conscious of boozing excessively - though great short term therapy and obvious way to meet chicks and forget about the emotional turmoil - also leaves you feeling low, needy and desperate.. and pretty ugly when you look in the mirror first thing! a necessary evil i guess.. we...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    sam this is part of the healing process.. the guilt, hopelessness, nightmares, constantly thinking of her and what shes doing and who shes with and this can escalate to a cruscendo of 'i dont have the strength to carry on'.. life isnt easy, even if you have to rebuild.. the knot will ease in...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    jariel youre a top bloke, wish you lived in sydney, i would pay for you as a psychologist!
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    jariel you bounced back from rock bottom 3 years back - use this experience to guide you back on track.. i understand you are grieving and your head is all over the place but you MUST go cold turkey from this bird.. otherwise you will find yourself in a loop of hope > lost hope > confusion...
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