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    The "just got dumped" guide as related to BPD/HPD

    You're terminated f*cker! They remind me of something........ I have plagarised this from The Terminator (u remember this?) That Terminator(BPD) is out there. It can't be bargained with. It can't be reasoned with. It doesn't feel pity, or remorse, (but FEAR rules it's life). And it...
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    The "just got dumped" guide as related to BPD/HPD

    Why are we stuck? Hi All. I know EXACTLY all of the thought processes you are all going through. I had all this happen to me 13 years ago and went back for another dose this year(doh!) after being text/phone/email friends with my exBPD for the last 12 years while i was busy being married. I...
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    Yep exactly as it happened Exiled. And this with a girl i THOUGHT i knew for a long, long time! You learn something new every day!
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    cheers Thanks again omnis. Yea, i'm moving on but i have to pump my balls up just in case she does try again. One moment of weakness and it's all back to square one!!!
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    I did take an educated guess! Thank you omnis for the condolences, it was a big loss. Thank you also for the great advice! Like you and many others, i have read so much about BPD already. I didn't want to cloud the replies to this thread with my amateur diagnosis though. I had trawled the...
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    Haha st, if i knew the answer to that question this thread would melt down with you guys looking at the answer. If i was a TV then this girl holds the remote. She knows all the buttons to change my channels instinctively. Don't forget we have been there before a long time ago and even after...
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    lol you read all that! cheers .... i'm astonished you actually read all of that!
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 5) The 2nd time i finished with Rose i told her about the plate spinning before we met back up again. Partly to p*ss her off and partly to prove that i didn't need to travel 500 mile round trip every week to get laid. She was...
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 4) So, to the final chapter ..... Sorry, just to backtrack a bit. Towards the end of my relationship with my wife, i wasn't getting any so decided to take the opportunities that came my way. I had so many plates spinning at that...
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 3) I had to see Rose at work for about 3 weeks after but she decided to leave and work elsewhere. That made it easier all round. 3 months later she called me and asked to meet me. I should have said no but the 'nice' bloke in me...
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 2) So, we go on the 'shopping' trip. Ended up in a hotel. I was frozen to the bed. Sh*ttin myself and she pulled me in and we jigged it. Cool, it was great! If i wasn't hooked before i was now! We followed this up with more hotel...
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    PD? Read, decide and give me your pearls of wisdom please! (Part 1)

    Hello All. This is my first post on here. I never thought i would have to, to be honest but hey, i need to vent this lot. Every part of this post (probably multiple posts) that i type will be relevant in one way or another so bear with me :) I'm 51 and i thought i had seen it all but i...
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