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Right Move!! Howdy: I think you are doing the right thing!! I haven't spoke with my X in pretty much a year. It is tough to do, but everytime I think about it. I realize this statement!! "She just wants to use you as her emotional tampon!!!" Then you can move on!!! I have been...

Yeah... I just need to hear it repetitively... Move on... Drop it!! She just hit me hard telling my friends things that would get back to me.. I let her go completely... and she is still out to get me!! Consequently... The girls number I got this week, wasn't actually her's, it was...

What do you guys do about LTR's after you start moving on? I feel like an immature jerk for completely cutting off the LTR. It was a very long LTR 5+yrs... And we have been apart since Nov '04' by her choice,"Find herself/New guys, obviously!" Told my friends(Probably knowing I would...

I don't know if you want to hear from a "NewGuy to the board! I'm still working out the AFC!" A few months ago, I went through the "Break-up with an very LTR 5+ and living with." 1. She is pressing your buttons on purpose!! If you check, she will be very dressed up when she goes out...

(From previous post) Her description was :"I need to find myself." I am pretty much the only guy she has seriously dated.. Hence 5+yrs and one living together... I am not 100% sure that she was not interested in another guy at the end, but she is looking at other guys now. We have kept...

I think I will probably go with the not responding... However, she will keep coming... at least I imagine. Then what?? I imagine calls... She knows where I live.. She could stop by... Or does that email sound like a last ditch effort, basically trying to twist my arm into being...

Dinner with X-Girlfriend(LTR- 5+yrs, full description in previous thread)... http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=66675 I had Originally posted a question about 2weeks ago under that thread above... It was the EX wanting to go to Lunch after being apart for a couple...

I think I'm on the right track for now!! "Newman" you got me thinking right off the bat! And "Catch" thanks for showing me the flipside of what I would deal with... Games and Reverse Psychology!(Someday maybe, but not this weekend!!) She needs to realize that I am not there... At ALL...

Thanks for the posts!!(Some were just too good!) I mulled it over for the most part... I am going to be too busy for lunch this time... Some work has come up. However, I will eventually have to go because of a lot of mutual friends involved... She will not expect me to put her off...

I will probably roll this one over in my head since I don't have to make up my mind until tomorrow... Part of me says, "Don't go!" Part of me says, "Go, so you can say hello when we run into each other among friends..." Part of me says," Tell her I'm not ready to meet her yet."

Great Post! I agreed to go before posting this... BUT I agree its all about her like you said!! (Sucks!) Also, Yes wanting her back is part of that!(Slowly that is going away!! Sometimes!) Shouldn't she see what she is missing?!? I also know that since I haven't seen or talked to...

24yrs and I'm 29yrs...

Ok, we broke up... Yes... her description is :"I need to find myself." I am pretty much the only guy she has seriously dated.. Hence 5+yrs and one living together... I am not 100% sure that she was not interested in another guy at the end, but she is looking at other guys now. We have...

I'm a man of my word... Also, our friends are intertwined and it will happen regardless... I want to be the better person in this situation... I need something other than don't go!! I understand it will suck!

Well let's just say we dated 5+yrs.. We have been split for 2months or so... She wants to have lunch to talk and be friends... I know she has all ready started to be single again(Looking/hooking up with guys! UHG!!)... Any advice on what to say? How to act? Also, what do you think she is...