A guy from another forum posted:
Yeah, that's the problem
If I ask myself deeply why I posted this, it was as a way to help myself get validated and that sucks man. I totally see it the same way in my life, the people I give more validation / respect act and look like they didn't care...
I think the problem is that whenever I'm expecting (or fearing) to be treated as low status, I see everything as if ppl where doing exactly that.
I'll start a mental note to start looking for things ppl do that show I'm high status...
OK, I've been in the community for some long time, I just never posted on this forum.
My success has been getting much better since reading, I can usually # and k close when I go out but I have this huge sticking point that's been with me since I was a child.
I'm not sure why, but I feel...
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