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  1. V

    Truth From Solomon

    The game changes when you start looking old. I have a young face, but I'm bald and have greys in my beard. I can't pull college chicks like I once could. It's a sobering reality. Doesn't scare me, though. I'm not attracted to young women the way I used to be. I honestly prefer older women...
  2. Jesse Pinkman

    Your thoughts on men hitting their stride with women and being f*ckboys after 30.

    You got it although I will say looks are not that important. You will see relatively average looking dudes getting girls when they are in their teens. The circumstances you grow up in dictate 95% of your success with women before 22. In fact, I would say before 18 but you are still under the...
  3. B

    Do you think city center populations are declining because men giving up on dating don't feel the need to rent expensive downtown housing?

    Stop blaming everyone and everything except the person who has no ambition. People who want to make it in life almost always do.
  4. SW15

    Do you think city center populations are declining because men giving up on dating don't feel the need to rent expensive downtown housing?

    Good book. I have also read it. It was originally published in 2013 and is holding up well. In most USA cities, someone needs to live near the city center to position themselves well in the mating marketplace. There are certain neighborhoods that offer an advantage. Looks are still #1 but...
  5. Hamurabimbi

    article: Gen Z’s Romance Gap: Why Nearly Half of Young Men Aren’t Dating

    I get what you’re saying. I agree. If one hasn’t gotten female interest by, say, 22. one will have a tough road to hoe.
  6. MatureDJ

    article: Gen Z’s Romance Gap: Why Nearly Half of Young Men Aren’t Dating

    It's not the breaking of the V-card that is the make-or-break - it's that being able to get women at that age is a correlatative attribute with being able to get women after that, and so obviously, being an incel-tier man in later life correlates with having been incel-tier in the teenage years...
  7. G

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    High school sports teams don't guarantee success with the ladies. College sports teams (a super popular sport like football or basketball), on the other hand? Absolutely panty soakers (from my observations in college) A less popular college sport like baseball (despite the MLB being super...
  8. TheGambino

    Facebook "Are we dating the same guy" groups

    soldier. I was arrester about 35 times before I was 21. All for fighting on the streets, last time I broke someones nose and got 14 days locked up. After that I went to university and build my life up. That was 12 years ago. Being locked up saved my life, its such a nightmare that you cant leave...
  9. G

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    Fascinating article about men and autism. Even when only counting documented cases, autism is way more common in guys than broads. I suppose it's too late to go back to 2010 and ask that football player I had a class with what he did to succeed. What works for a college football player isn't...
  10. B

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    More than a handful of us (Yours truly included)lost our V Cards after being pulled into bed BEFORE the age of 13 by a much older, predatory woman, who was obtuse to our consent. I bring this up to point out to you, GM: We've all got obstacles to outmaneuver in the realm of dating and mating...
  11. G

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    It's true, as the other poster said, there are obviously sexually active 13 year old males too (hell, I went to school with a guy who lost his v-card to his 13 year old girlfriend at 12). I also went to college (and had a class) with a football player who would boast to anyone who would listen...
  12. G

    At what point were tech methods easiest for a guy?

    Yeah, the fact I still had a flip phone at the time put me in the solid minority. I finally switched to a smartphone in 2016.
  13. BeExcellent

    Girl deleted my profile after date.

    To respond to @SW15: Venue is important because it does some pre-selection for you. If you are at a gallery opening at an art gallery (for example) you are going to meet people who value art and are going, typically, to be more sophisticated, cultured, and higher net worth. These people also...
  14. SW15

    At what point were tech methods easiest for a guy?

    In 2015, having a flip phone was dating suicide. Around 2010 is when bougie White women expected men to have smartphones on in-person approaches. I have tended to run in circles over time with bougie White women. If you were doing in-person approaches around then and pulled out a flip phone in...
  15. SW15

    Girl deleted my profile after date.

    Most of the newer LTRs have formed online (swipe apps & social media). It is now the primary way couples form. Far fewer couples are now starting their interactions through a social circle facilitation, through a bar approach, through a non-bar approach (including through college campus...
  16. B

    Shy good girls?

    Women don't make sense. I had a girl in college who I hung out with who said she didn't want to move too fast because she liked me. When I told her I didn't want anything serious right now she just went "oh ok, then let's fu**". If you're 33 and this girl hasn't been sexual with you after 3...
  17. Clockwerk50

    baggy pants on a woman

    (5) Why does some fashion repeat while others fad? | LinkedIn I wear straight jeans and prefer them to slim fit. The point is, that’s what’s in style for the younger generation. Trends like septum piercings and broccoli hair are popular, and for many young people, it’s all about “when in...
  18. G

    my struggles with the ladies go way beyond mere social awkwardness

    Yep. I certainly don't strive to be the guy with a different college girl in his bed every night. I admit that would be an unrealistic expectation.
  19. SW15

    America lowers men's self esteem

    Both of these are great posts. In early life, women's looks are extremely valuable in the sexual marketplace. The appeal of youthfulness and possible fertility have more value than a man's looks have to a woman. While male looks are valuable, it's not the same as female looks. With the...
  20. G

    baggy pants on a woman

    Yeah, I've noticed Gen Z young men wearing baggy pants too. I don't even like to wear baggy pants as a guy. I once wore baggy pants (they were in style, for a guy at least, in my younger days). By the time I was halfway through high school, however, tighter pants came into style. My pants then...
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