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Getting easy IOI: Is This Common? Do You Experience This Too?

New_Journey

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As someone who's 5'5" in a world where 6'3" is the new standard
If you're a bad boy, that could explain why you're getting IOIs in spite of your 5'5" height.
Bad boys don't have The Little Man's Decease, like many men in here who like to whine about not being certain height. You can see those who make it by how they write in this forum.
 

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Her breathing pattern is the most reliable IOI, probably why they don't want you chest staring, the second your trying to figure out "Is this an IOI?" and she catches you doing it you would need to invoke a lot of interest to stay in the pocket, it's a measure of your hesitation

Mirroring
 

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Her breathing pattern is the most reliable IOI, probably why they don't want you chest staring, the second your trying to figure out "Is this an IOI?" and she catches you doing it you would need to invoke a lot of interest to stay in the pocket, it's a measure of your hesitation

Mirroring
You mean when they start to get short of breath in your presence.

I also notice it because at the same time they might get a little red in the face and their eyes take on a shape as if they were sick.
In fact it really seems like they are preparing for "fight or flight"
 

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Here are IOI’s I’m talking about. These all happened recently.

I was walking into a client facility. A girl came up to me and said: ‘Hi. How’s your day going?’

I was walking down a hallway in a medical office. A girl came up to me & said ; ‘Hi.’

Literally today. I finished a presentation at a client location. One of the attendees came up to me after and said ; ‘do you need any help putting your stuff away? I can hang out and help you if you want.’

I have a GF so I didn’t pursue, these might have just been friendly girls, not looking for anything. But. Seems positive.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Oh tell more about this! Do some example.. I am italian and I don't know if I am on the right meaning for it.

Currently, this is what I understood as my third LTR was interested in, in addition to the obvious ones.
One day, we were alone together for 30 minutes doing a little work on a poster.
At some point, she started saying, "My head is spinning, maybe a drop in blood pressure."
From there I started to understand that she was verbalizing.. She was always short of breath in my presence.

A girl came up to me and said: ‘Hi. How’s your day going?’
When I was at the dentist, his female assistant, when we were alone, started asking me personal questions, and sat on the chair to listen to me.. So I said "I have a girlfriend" and showed her the ring.
She started laughing. She was interested
 

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When I was at the dentist, his female assistant, when we were alone, started asking me personal questions, and sat on the chair to listen to me.. So I said "I have a girlfriend" and showed her the ring.
She started laughing. She was interested
1. It is called bedside manners.

2. Don’t be so lame.
 
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