Why Are You Here?

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What is your purpose on this forum? You are here because you wanna learn about something and/or you wanna teach with examples from your day-to-day dating or LTRing?

I think most of us are mature enough to be posting things about dating or relationships. I think we should be more proactive in taking action and we should share notes, like iron sharpening iron, if you went to a date what happened. You should be posting field reports If you cold approach a girl and (did no) worked, for those in relationships if you had a fight with your LTR what did you do, what the outcome was and what would have you done differently; if you ended a relation ship; if a girl came back after rejecting you.

We rarely see post like those ones from mature members, and I think it will help the forum and new guys in general to point them with active forum members, I don't know to me it gives a sense of being special reading how we as a group of The New SoSuave members deal with things and more so with the shift in technology.

So tell me, why are you here?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Hamurabimbi

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Got on late ‘18 after my divorce. As, after over a decade of marriage, I was clueless as to how to date etc so I was looking for advice.

Everything worked out well.

Now I’m here due to inertia.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Serenity

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First I was here to learn as I was seriously struggling. I learned a lot from this forum, other sources and my own experiences until I understood. I then remained to help others.

Now I've been in a relationship for almost 10 years and don't really have any recent experience relevant to the stage most guys on this forum are at. Still, I'm absolutely confident I'd have an easy time getting women if I had to go back out there. I'm still attracting women simply being myself and occasionally have to reject them because I'm married (and have no interest in cheating).

Currently I guess I'm mostly just around to moderate, occasionally offering my thoughts on a thread if I feel like it.
 

Vanderdonck

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I've been around here since the late 90s. Lately just here to chime in once in a while til I finally get so bored that I leave forever.
 

plumber

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Arrived in crisis some years ago. Getting new (new to me) information helped to understand. The game never stops. It was very useful to me. Some of the topics are like a puzzle, with clear spots for the pieces. I certainly could not see that before.

I want to continue to learn/grow.

I can learn from others mistakes, and they can from mine. I have a lot of mistakes...

A man can not see himself without a mirror.

Biology is the mother of all religion.

Properly implemented RP is the way. Nobody implements it correctly, some closer than others.
 
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