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It is called an example, it is up to you as a man to figure out what it is you want out of life and to go get it.

On that note, you can buy a yacht for less than 100k
It is much easier for a college aged kid to just get bartending/food service job then finance/purchase a yacht lol. Again, this is just the cheat code approach to meeting the hottest women ASAP. Would I do it? No, but some guys do not care and this topic is for them.
 

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Getting laid is not the key to happiness.

Work on exactly what you need to work on, be selfish with a long term outlook and strive to be effective in all of your important endeavors (Be in good shape, be a good communicator, do well in your career, etc). You'll be happy, and then get a quality woman or women.
 

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It is much easier for a college aged kid to just get bartending/food service job then finance/purchase a yacht lol. Again, this is just the cheat code approach to meeting the hottest women ASAP. Would I do it? No, but some guys do not care and this topic is for them.
Well the topic is BS because of you get that job because you need it, you're competing with men like me who are way more fun because we have yachts, cars, airplanes etc.

If you're in that situation your time is better served building a life for yourself.
 

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Getting laid is not the key to happiness.

Work on exactly what you need to work on, be selfish with a long term outlook and strive to be effective in all of your important endeavors (Be in good shape, be a good communicator, do well in your career, etc). You'll be happy, and then get a quality woman or women.
Exactly this!

And btw Afuera!
 

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Being a bouncer is the easiest way to pull. We have had conversations and he admitted to me when he does online dating he doesn't pull the same tail he does working security as a bouncer.
I highly recommend becoming a bouncer as a method of pulling hotties.

Bouncers are often having sex with strippers and hot female bartenders.

Many bouncers are 6'0"+ men with fit/muscular physiques.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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There's plenty of back crew members banging the servers, hostesses, and getting invited to parties. If you make yourself approachable and cool to be around, then you should be fine lol. These places tend to have a high turnover, so fvcking your coworkers isn't as taboo as a more stable white-collar setting.
You say the goal is to have a high count. That's not going to happen if you're just banging your co-workers, which by the way, go can go bad very quickly.

I worked with a server that was in a situationship with one of the hostesses. It took a 180 and they went from lovey dovey to being hostile and bitter. So if you want to take that risk, with one let alone a few more servers, be my guest but you will not get a high "lay count" this way.

You have a lot more room to work as a bartender or a bouncer. That's where it's at.

Parties don't happen with co-workers as often as you'd think. It's normally just the guys going out to the club or a bar. Results would hardly differ from doing it with any other group
 

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Well the topic is BS because of you get that job because you need it, you're competing with men like me who are way more fun because we have yachts, cars, airplanes etc.

If you're in that situation your time is better served building a life for yourself.
Once again, this topic is for guys that care more about pvssy than self-development lol. If you want to get laid as much as possible to hot women, then this is your best option.

You say the goal is to have a high count. That's not going to happen if you're just banging your co-workers, which by the way, go can go bad very quickly.

I worked with a server that was in a situationship with one of the hostesses. It took a 180 and they went from lovey dovey to being hostile and bitter. So if you want to take that risk, with one let alone a few more servers, be my guest but you will not get a high "lay count" this way.

You have a lot more room to work as a bartender or a bouncer. That's where it's at.

Parties don't happen with co-workers as often as you'd think. It's normally just the guys going out to the club or a bar. Results would hardly differ from doing it with any other group
Why shvtting where you work doesn't matter here because A). There's a high turnover in jobs in these industries, so the girl you banged could be gone the next day and B). You are expected to be horny degenerates in these industries. There's no social contract or expectations for a server, dishwasher, and bartender at a sushi restaurant. Last, parties do happen lol, but you just were not invited to them or hung around the wrong crowd.
 

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Once again, this topic is for guys that care more about pvssy than self-development lol. If you want to get laid as much as possible to hot women, then this is your best option.



Why shvtting where you work doesn't matter here because A). There's a high turnover in jobs in these industries, so the girl you banged could be gone the next day and B). You are expected to be horny degenerates in these industries. There's no social contract or expectations for a server, dishwasher, and bartender at a sushi restaurant. Last, parties do happen lol, but you just were not invited to them or hung around the wrong crowd.
I'm convinced you never worked as a server, let alone any of those roles now. What's your work history like in the restuarant industry?

It's not high turnover at a decent restuarant. You'll get high turnover at a Waffle House or a **** place. There's no reason to take that risk with decent clientele and good tips. You will not get a HIGH count as a server, period, unless you work at a club. And the only servers that work at clubs or hell even bars, are girls.

In regards to sex, the most action you'll get would come from sleeping with maybe few coworkers, or the customer writing their # on a receipt once in a blue moon

Tell us what your work history is. You seem to think girls will magically fall on your lap if you work at a restaurant.
 
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Once again, this topic is for guys that care more about pvssy than self-development lol. If you want to get laid as much as possible to hot women, then this is your best option.
No this is not.

Why shvtting where you work doesn't matter here because A). There's a high turnover in jobs in these industries, so the girl you banged could be gone the next day and B). You are expected to be horny degenerates in these industries. There's no social contract or expectations for a server, dishwasher, and bartender at a sushi restaurant. Last, parties do happen lol, but you just were not invited to them or hung around the wrong crowd.
So let me get this straight, you are saying the best option is to get women into a captive environment where she is forced to be in your presence because it is her place of employment, where she has to go in order to continue to pay her bills and make her life happen, then once there you are going to embrace being a "horny degenerate" which is really just being a leg humping weirdo so not only does she have to get hit on by the customers in the front of the house who don't get it but now you in the back.

When you take this approach is it any wonder that women these days are so angry?
 

Well I'm here to tell you there is such a magic wand. Something that will make you almost completely irresistible to any woman you "point it" at. Something guaranteed to fill your life with love, romance, and excitement.

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I'm convinced you never worked as a server, let alone any of those roles now. What's your work history like in the restuarant industry?

It's not high turnover at a decent restuarant. You'll get high turnover at a Waffle House or a **** place. There's no reason to take that risk with decent clientele and good tips. You will not get a HIGH count as a server, period, unless you work at a club. And the only servers that work at clubs or hell even bars, are girls.

In regards to sex, the most action you'll get would come from sleeping with maybe few coworkers, or the customer writing their # on a receipt once in a blue moon

Tell us what your work history is. You seem to think girls will magically fall on your lap if you work at a restaurant.
It sounds like you just have terrible game or just arguing to just to argue because it should not take a rocket scientist to get laid as a server. In a ripe environment, it is not hard at all. If you work on your appearance, presentation skills, and game and still fail as a server then you just need to resort to escorts & prostitutes my dude.

So let me get this straight, you are saying the best option is to get women into a captive environment where she is forced to be in your presence because it is her place of employment, where she has to go in order to continue to pay her bills and make her life happen, then once there you are going to embrace being a "horny degenerate" which is really just being a leg humping weirdo so not only does she have to get hit on by the customers in the front of the house who don't get it but now you in the back.
Says Mr. Ted Bundy over here talking about luring women into a boat or car and doing god knows what.
 

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Getting laid is not the key to happiness.

Work on exactly what you need to work on, be selfish with a long term outlook and strive to be effective in all of your important endeavors (Be in good shape, be a good communicator, do well in your career, etc). You'll be happy, and then get a quality woman or women.
I agree, this topic is for the guys that don't care lol.
 

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It sounds like you just have terrible game or just arguing to just to argue because it should not take a rocket scientist to get laid as a server. In a ripe environment, it is not hard at all. If you work on your appearance, presentation skills, and game and still fail as a server then you just need to resort to escorts & prostitutes my dude.



Says Mr. Ted Bundy over here talking about luring women into a boat or car and doing god knows what.
You never worked in a restaurant. Case closed. My game could never be as bad as a keyboard warrior's lol.
 

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Says Mr. Ted Bundy over here talking about luring women into a boat or car and doing god knows what.
See the difference between your way and my way is consent, when I invite a woman onto my boat, there is a choice she has to make, she is allowed to say no, she is allowed to be not comfortable without me being a **** face towards her and she can simply walk away no harm no foul, nothing forcing her to come back.

Despite your desperate attempt at blame and shame by invoking Ted Bundy's name, your advice is putting women into a situation they cannot walk away from and did not consent to...

Doing this makes you an actual bad guy.
 

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You never worked in a restaurant. Case closed. My game could never be as bad as a keyboard warrior's lol.
This is the same logic for dudes who think they can woo a woman with a **** pick because he thinks it works the same in reverse, he thinks by flipping the script a waiter is going to get hit on the way women do, failing to realize young hot women are often broke, don't go out and spend money on fancy restaurants unless they are in a group or with a date. Either way your chances of getting **** blocked.

The most action a waiter is going to see is going to be from single under ****ed older women who are eating out alone just to get out of the house.
 

Don't always be the one putting yourself out for her. Don't always be the one putting all the effort and work into the relationship. Let her, and expect her, to treat you as well as you treat her, and to improve the quality of your life.

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1 or 2 years? She'll be pregnant by the Alpha Dog by then.
 

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This is the same logic for dudes who think they can woo a woman with a **** pick because he thinks it works the same in reverse, he thinks by flipping the script a waiter is going to get hit on the way women do, failing to realize young hot women are often broke, don't go out and spend money on fancy restaurants unless they are in a group or with a date. Either way your chances of getting **** blocked.

The most action a waiter is going to see is going to be from single under ****ed older women who are eating out alone just to get out of the house.
Even then, it mostly has to do with job security. I can't just take care of my tables and at some point say, hey wanna go out some time? You know how foolish that would be

On the other hand, I worked as a valet at a hotel and we were stationed outside. That meant pedestrians would pass by, including hot girls, and I would shoot my shot because they weren't guests staying at the hotel.

i never had any complaints doing that and I actually managed to take a girl out that way. And the only time I ever asked out a guest was when the chemistry was undeniable, and she ended up saying yes.

This idiot thinks that I could manage to ask out customers that are there to eat, while juggling a bunch of things, and get away with it. He made this post having never even worked in a restaurant LOL
 

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See the difference between your way and my way is consent, when I invite a woman onto my boat, there is a choice she has to make, she is allowed to say no, she is allowed to be not comfortable without me being a **** face towards her and she can simply walk away no harm no foul, nothing forcing her to come back.

Despite your desperate attempt at blame and shame by invoking Ted Bundy's name, your advice is putting women into a situation they cannot walk away from and did not consent to...

Doing this makes you an actual bad guy.
I’m convinced you and oatmeal are fake troll accounts. Have a good day Mr. Bundy.
 
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