Recent content by summersky

I have a small update: I called her and we had a good conversation. I suggested to meet each other but she told me she is not sure and doesn't know what to say. Is this thing done or is there any way to save this?

Thank you for the answers! I know it was a mistake to talk about that because I already knew that I want to keep it casual. May be true that her interest level is not high. Who knows, maybe she is also looking for something casual. Like I said I had a great time with her and there was a lot of...

Hi everyone, had already 6 dates with this 31 year old girl but no sex yet. She is an attractive, old fashioned kind of girl who wants to take it slow. Invited her to my place but she said that she isn't ready for that. The dates were really good, a lot of laughing, touching, light kissing. We...

Thank you for the replies, I read everything you wrote carefully and will work on myself, especially on my needyness. I am talking to other women but I would really like to see this woman again. I know it propably won't work out, but I want to try at least. Thought about texting her a short...

Thank you for the answer, I am always pursuing other women. Rarely I meet a woman as beautiful and intelligent as her. How to proceed?

Hello everyone, i approached this girl on the street and we had an instant date. She is 33 years old, a very beautiful ukrainian woman. We went to a bar and had a great time. I felt like the chemistry was there, talked about personal topics but somehow I fear that I did not enough to attract...

Hello everyone, i met this 24 year old girl online 2 months ago and we became really close, we text and talk every day and went out 5 times. We didn't slept with each other yet because she is saying she needs time to get to know me and she isn't "that kind of girl" who sleeps with guys fast...

Thank you very much for the responses and advices! I keep doing it and try to improve everything I can. So I had a good day this week, approached 7 girls and got 3 numbers. I am talking to one of this girls now. Second one didn't reply. With the third one we texted a bit, then she went ghost...

I am an average looking, 1,73 m tall guy and I am living in germany. I started approaching women during the day on the street. I used all kinds of openers, direct and indirect. I think my body language and my voice is ok and I am not nervous around women. I got into a few nice conversations with...

Inspired by my latest thread I really would like to know your opinions on this subject. By a girl you are getting to know I mean someone you texted or talked on the phone but never met. By favors I mean not a very small thing but something that requires a bit of work. In my case it was...

Thank you for the replies! I know I need more options. And yes my mindset is not where it should be. Like I said I didn't told her that it was weird or I didn't like it, I was just talking around the subject.

I didn't tell her that I find it weird, I was just talking around it.

Met this girl through online dating. We had a few conversations on the phone: Deep, long conversations about all kind of things. We were planing to go on a date and made up a day and time. Few days before the date she texted me and asked for help, she wanted me to translate a few things for her...

Thank you for the replies! I know that this story is over and I should move on but my AFC-thoughts are still hunting me: What if she was really just too tired for sex? (She said she was super tired and that she even has a bit of headache). But why did she made out with me then? There was a lot...

Thank you for the replies! Any other opinions?