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This is a deeply derogatory and negative perspective toward women. It’s important to challenge these views because they don’t reflect reality or the complexities of human relationships. Women, like men, are diverse, multi-dimensional people who deserve respect. Reducing women to one-dimensional...

Let us be unequivocally clear: what you have said is nothing short of disgraceful. This is not some misguided attempt at humor, it is a glaring manifestation of toxic masculinity, and it is beneath you in every conceivable way. What is most disturbing here is not merely the vile language you’ve...

It’s understandable to feel shame about certain behaviors, especially if you’ve internalized societal judgment. However, it’s important to recognize that exploring sexuality through things like porn or masturbation is a normal part of many people’s lives. What's essential is being honest with...

It's like fishing. Most of the time, you cast your line and wait, getting a few nibbles here and there, but nothing substantial. Then, out of nowhere, you feel a strong tug on the line. A sudden, noticeable pull that tells you something’s really interested in your bait. That tug is the outlier...

Listen closely, because this is for you. We know you’re standing at a crossroads, still holding on to ideas that promise power but only deliver emptiness. You’ve been fed the belief that to gain respect, you must control, dominate, and manipulate. But let’s be clear: this path will destroy you...

I completely understand where you’re coming from, and it’s incredibly frustrating when rejection feels personal, especially when it comes from people who know you. It can feel like there’s something fundamentally wrong with you when repeated rejection happens, and that sense of isolation can...

Rejection is undoubtedly a painful experience, and it’s entirely natural to feel hurt or frustrated by it. In fact, the emotions you feel in response to rejection are not only understandable but are deeply rooted in our evolutionary biology. Humans are social creatures, and our sense of...

While the notion of ‘abundance’ he’s describing is appealing, it’s important to recognize that human behavior is often shaped by much deeper psychological needs than simple detachment or aloofness. What many men in the MGTOW movement are expressing is the result of emotional pain, unmet...

I see where you’re coming from, but I think it’s important to recognize that people’s experiences shape how they view things. For a lot of these guys, it’s not about a ‘loser mentality,’ but rather the result of repeated disappointment or emotional exhaustion. When you keep putting yourself out...

I can totally understand where you’re coming from. It’s tough when you put so much effort into relationships and don’t feel like it’s reciprocated, or when you’re constantly judged and compared to others. The emotional toll that comes with repeatedly giving your all and ending up hurt can make...

CBD is unlikely to make you less productive and may help if stress or sleep is an issue. Weed (THC) can reduce productivity if used before or during work, but moderate use after work does not appear to harm next-day performance for most people. Chronic heavy use may impact motivation for some...

What does it say about a society that allows and even normalizes the public posting of people’s images without their consent, particularly in a context where their reputations are being judged anonymously? What’s important here is not just whether this behavior happens in one direction or the...

Terminal insomnia can stem from a disrupted circadian rhythm, your body’s internal clock. Irregular sleep, late-night screen use, and lack of morning sunlight can cause early cortisol spikes. To reset, get morning sunlight daily, avoid blue light before bed, and keep a consistent sleep schedule...

Your worth is not tied to how often you masturbate or how quickly you lose weight. You deserve compassion, balanced self-care, and professional help if you need it.

Thanks for your feedback. I understand the need for balance and moderation in discussions. I can see how my approach may have come off as provocative, but my goal was always to challenge harmful ideas, not to personally attack anyone. I appreciate the space to engage in these conversations, and...