Harry Wilmington IDS's latest activity
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread You're not "Too Direct," She's just too sensitive.Got it, thanks!
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HHarry Wilmington IDS posted the thread You're not "Too Direct," She's just too sensitive in Don Juan Discussion.I was on another forum where I saw a guy posting about how his girlfriend got mad at him for pointing out that, as of late, she was...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread Oneitis. I understand it logically/rationally, but cant seem to shake it.And within the first line, you gave yourself your solution. At the point you actually start caring - i.e. giving a crap - about what she...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread Messed up... I think it might be over?.WOOOOOW, reading this situation reminds me of the kind of stuff I used to post on here 20 years ago when I was 23 and still trying to...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread The most confident way to ask a woman out via text.Yeeeeah no. Wording absolutely matters, especially to women. Women don’t make decisions in a vacuum—how you phrase your invite affects...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread The most confident way to ask a woman out via text.If this has worked for you, then by all means keep doing it. However, in all my years of dating and being in relationships (including...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread The most confident way to ask a woman out via text.This text was way too long, and framed in a way that put her in control. No bueno. Let's break it down: "So was (trip) all you had...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread The most confident way to ask a woman out via text.This thread is a few days old now - did you ever end up asking her out?? And yeah, like other said, you spent too much time texting...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread Dealing with a very confident girl.Sooooo what you're saying here is: you didn't pay her much attention, you didn't try to force yourself into meeting her, and the result...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread From "SoSuave Newbie" 20 yrs Ago to Dating Success - Ask Me Anything.The reality is, chasing women at ANY time is a waste, but not for the reasons you think. You could easily meet a woman in your 20s and...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread From "SoSuave Newbie" 20 yrs Ago to Dating Success - Ask Me Anything.It's been a few years since I did online dating, but I had a lot of success on Hinge. Their site is set up a bit classier than many of...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread Dealing with a very confident girl.And rightfully so - most women need 2 to 3 months to solidify their feelings for you. It gives them time to do their due diligence...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS posted the thread From "SoSuave Newbie" 20 yrs Ago to Dating Success - Ask Me Anything in Don Juan Discussion.Hey all! It's been a while since I've been on these boards (under a different name). I originally joined SoSuave back in 2005. At the...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread Dealing with a very confident girl.This is EXACTLY why I advise not to do it. Not to say that there aren't women out there whom will not be turned off if you ask directly...
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HHarry Wilmington IDS replied to the thread Dealing with a very confident girl.I think this woman means well... but don't do this. My experience, combined with the 20+ years I've been helping men with their dating...