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Ok, but what would have been the correct course of action? some guys proposed to text her and setup a date? otherw suggested to do nothing and let her reach out?

Yea i texted her and told her that it is better to not see each other anymore. Here is the exact text i sent: “hey it is my turn to send a long paragraph but luckily it is the only one i will send . i have told you in the beginning that certain behaviours of yours would only push me further...

For all of the 4 months I initiated contact 1 a week to with just some small talk to setup a date. When she complained I did not contact her more, I did aknowledge her feelings about it. I did not contact her for a week to see if her behaviour would change, I also don't want to be the only...

I also think that this is the cause. But how to avoid this in the future?

I would like to clarify that i in fact did not initiate more texts and just kept doing what i did before. 1 initiation a week to setup a date, nothing more. Yes, we also did a lot of fun stuff together, concerts, ice skating etc. Yes, i just told her that we shouldn't see each other any more...

Okay but lets say I have a plate that I want a relationship with, how would you handle it then? How to show her that you want a relationship without coming over as needy?

Thanks for the advice, but I did NOT text her MORE after she complained that she wanted me to initiate more and tell her more about how i feel about her. She told me that, i aknowledge her feelings, and just kept doing what i did before. I just kept texting her once a week to setup a date and...

okay, but what whould be the correct course of action right now? - initiate contact and keep dating until she cancels one and just bang her for now? - don't do anything and keep spinning my other plates? - just ask her why her behaviour has been of lately and just talk it out as 2 grown people...

So i have this plate that i have been seeing for 3 months. We see each other about 1 time a week and each time we have s3x and fun. In the beginning she would complain that i didn't contact her as much as she would like to. But i noticed that for the last 4 weeks i am the one initiating the...

How should i act then?

Date 1 time a week. Taking hours to text back, because i am busy with life. Acting warm and cold during dates.

Keep her for the long term rotation. She is fun and s is great, but no wifey material.

I just think it is a ****test and she wants me to persue her because she has been complaining that i act like i don't care. Her birthday was last sunday, so some ex could have texted '''happy birtday'' back into her life lol.

20-25 most of them. The one i talked about is 24

So i have noticed this pattern that between the 3th and 5th woman tend too pull back. All the dates useally go well and we end up in the bedroom, but they all suddenly decide after a couple of dates to take a bit of distance. How do you guys handle this pull back? Do nothing and let her text...