Hey DJ!
how does this sound:
"Hey babe! I've felt you a bit distant and I figured it's back to my communication and non-responsiveness to you over the past days. I fell asleep on Tuesday night and had a wacky wednesday in meeting with BTIA and officially tendering my resignation and that took a lot from me. It was nothing personal with you, just needed my man cave for a bit. Miss you!"
does this work to?
However, I'm now really starting to wonder if this girl is seeing me because I do most of the spending (sometimes she doesn't spend at all) - and she's using weekends with me to save up on her end?