DreamyChick
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What do you think?
I have this guy friend. We have been friends forever it seems and I have never had to worry that he was putting the moves on me because he told me it would never happen because he was only interested as a friend, but now I am wondering if he tried to pull something over on me this past weekend. He invited me over, and not long after I got there, He told me I looked good. He never comments on how I look so I was somewhat surprised. At this point he's just working on typing up some stuff for his grandmother and chatting with me. Not long after he gets bored and puts the stuff away. He's drinking beer and I noticed when I came in he picked up my favorite beer and soda. I am amazed that he remembers ect. I took a 6 months hiatus from him because I liked him more than I wanted to and we had some other issues. When I asked him why he contacted me again He said he realized that us not being friends was stupid and he missed me and knew I missed him. But anyway all the talk doesn't really matter.
Then later he leads the conversation to talk about sex and how far I have gone with a guy. I repeatedly tell him that I am uncomfortable doing so and hes like it's alright by the end of the night you will and true to his word he keeps trying. So finally, I am like I have no interest in sex and don't plan on having it and his eyes got big. Of course I was fibbing but I wanted him to drop the subject. This only futher intrigued him. My innocence always has. He told me I was lying but half believed me so he set out to test me which I totally didn't see coming. He jumps up from his side of the couch and sits next to me puts one hand on the back of my neck and the the other hand on my thigh sort of moving it up a little as a tease.
I was in shock so I couldnt say anything. I immediately felt nervous and he was looking at me. Then I was like see I am not reacting meaning I am not asking him for more and hes like oh but you are. I was trying to play it cool so then he stops and he starts again. This time he put his leg on my leg that he was rubbing and kept rubbing my neck looking at me I blushed. So he was like okay this is my conclusion you got excited your heart rate and breathing increased.
So insisted it was bc I was freaked out that I was in flight response mode and he said well you didn't say anything true at first and then I did and he was like no it excited you. I said but I didn't react. So basically I half way was still able to convince he I wasn't ever going to be interested in having sex with anyone. He kept saying I was in denial and I wanted a romatic relationship and I do but I was trying to get him off the topic and telling him to stop talking about it wasnt getting me anywhere. But guys he was right. I just didn't want him to know how he was getting to me.
But then get this made the mistake of asking for a message and he gave me one two actually before we called it a night.
He didn't kiss me or anything or touch me inappropriately but I get the feeling that if I would have even hinted that I wanted to test our boundaries he would have been up for it. I dont know maybe I am overreacting but when he gave me the massage he was pretty through rubbing me everywhere down my back right to where my waistband was and a little below, no touching on my butt but on my outer hips and inner thighs at one point and somehow I felt like we were still playing with fire. at one point he pulled my shirt up so he could have contact with my skin on my back and said it was so I could get the full effect. But he made it sound very innocent said he gave massages all the time. he gave me another massage before I went home as well. Before I left he hugged me and that was that.
Was this all innocent?
I have this guy friend. We have been friends forever it seems and I have never had to worry that he was putting the moves on me because he told me it would never happen because he was only interested as a friend, but now I am wondering if he tried to pull something over on me this past weekend. He invited me over, and not long after I got there, He told me I looked good. He never comments on how I look so I was somewhat surprised. At this point he's just working on typing up some stuff for his grandmother and chatting with me. Not long after he gets bored and puts the stuff away. He's drinking beer and I noticed when I came in he picked up my favorite beer and soda. I am amazed that he remembers ect. I took a 6 months hiatus from him because I liked him more than I wanted to and we had some other issues. When I asked him why he contacted me again He said he realized that us not being friends was stupid and he missed me and knew I missed him. But anyway all the talk doesn't really matter.
Then later he leads the conversation to talk about sex and how far I have gone with a guy. I repeatedly tell him that I am uncomfortable doing so and hes like it's alright by the end of the night you will and true to his word he keeps trying. So finally, I am like I have no interest in sex and don't plan on having it and his eyes got big. Of course I was fibbing but I wanted him to drop the subject. This only futher intrigued him. My innocence always has. He told me I was lying but half believed me so he set out to test me which I totally didn't see coming. He jumps up from his side of the couch and sits next to me puts one hand on the back of my neck and the the other hand on my thigh sort of moving it up a little as a tease.
I was in shock so I couldnt say anything. I immediately felt nervous and he was looking at me. Then I was like see I am not reacting meaning I am not asking him for more and hes like oh but you are. I was trying to play it cool so then he stops and he starts again. This time he put his leg on my leg that he was rubbing and kept rubbing my neck looking at me I blushed. So he was like okay this is my conclusion you got excited your heart rate and breathing increased.
So insisted it was bc I was freaked out that I was in flight response mode and he said well you didn't say anything true at first and then I did and he was like no it excited you. I said but I didn't react. So basically I half way was still able to convince he I wasn't ever going to be interested in having sex with anyone. He kept saying I was in denial and I wanted a romatic relationship and I do but I was trying to get him off the topic and telling him to stop talking about it wasnt getting me anywhere. But guys he was right. I just didn't want him to know how he was getting to me.
But then get this made the mistake of asking for a message and he gave me one two actually before we called it a night.
He didn't kiss me or anything or touch me inappropriately but I get the feeling that if I would have even hinted that I wanted to test our boundaries he would have been up for it. I dont know maybe I am overreacting but when he gave me the massage he was pretty through rubbing me everywhere down my back right to where my waistband was and a little below, no touching on my butt but on my outer hips and inner thighs at one point and somehow I felt like we were still playing with fire. at one point he pulled my shirt up so he could have contact with my skin on my back and said it was so I could get the full effect. But he made it sound very innocent said he gave massages all the time. he gave me another massage before I went home as well. Before I left he hugged me and that was that.
Was this all innocent?
