The Essential Role of Men in sex

[RickTheToad]

Comprehensible.
Im in a 1 year LTR with a woman, and she send me those screenshot of things she read, and when she does, it's like dealing with a nymph. But I do suspect she use sex to control me, because I think she is "BPD" or "psycho". (so many shared characteristics btw).


I convey this. Not planned (for her), because you plan 10 minutes before what you'll do next.
How sex do usually last in this pattern?

10 - 15 minutes. Can be longer; it just depends.

 

[BaronOfHair]

Many young men, like myself, have limited experience with because of many LTR and not many

Work up the courage to invite a cute girl to accompany you out for a coffee or frozen yogurt, then instruct her to do the following

, before you all leave

Whether or not she complies is, for now, irrelevant. The purpose of carrying out a mission like this is to get you action-oriented, as opposed to getting lost in these weird thoughts of yours

 

[zekko]

I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Have you had any experiences with a woman who taught you everything? If so, how was that experience for you?

This is not about me, but a close friend. When he was about 14 I think, an older neighbor woman took him under her wing, and taught him how to please a woman. He was very tall at a young age, so this probably has something to do with why he was chosen. This is now considered a crime, but this was back in the '70s and probably wouldn't be considered quite so shocking with all the "free love" attitudes going around. I'm sure it was still technically a crime back then, but if it had been a 14 year old female, the guy probably would have been sent up the river for life. Anyway.

This experience made him very, very confident in his sexual skills and experience. After all, he had received a masterclass of sorts. He used to scoff at the kids in school, like the football players who bragged about their conquests. He thought he had the advantage over all of them. I've always said preparation leads to confidence. A basketball player is confident going on to the court because he knows he has put in the preparation - the practice and coaching. A musician is confident going onstage because he has put in the preparation - the practice and learning his instrument. I guess my point is that it appears this was a positive experience for him, whether it was a crime or not.

 

[BaronOfHair]

This is not about me, but a close friend. When he was about 14 I think, an older neighbor woman took him under her wing, and taught him how to please a woman. He was very tall at a young age, so this probably has something to do with why he was chosen

I take it he told you this story, and you've made little effort to no effort to verify it

 

[zekko]

I take it he told you this story, and you've made little effort to no effort to verify it

He is to this day a close and very trusted friend, and I don't recall him ever lying to me, this is not a mere acquaintance. I was in school and in the neighborhood with him at the time, I know of the neighbor of which he speaks, and I don't find it surprising. She had a reputation and there were some things going on around her house which people were aware of. It sounds consistent with other behaviors I've observed from her, and consistent with behaviors I've seen from him. And again remember, this happened in the '70s, when attitudes were much different. I don't doubt his story at all.