After getting ghosted by an OLD beau, and oblivious to the fact that this is the standard treatment of men on OLD, single mommy lectures men about it

[MatureDJ]

(I have tagged this at the pertinent time-stamp.)

Men, you need to stop going on dating apps if you're actually wanting to date. I sent a text at like noon, asking when I would see him again, and he's like I'm busy, can we talk later ... we know it's coming. Eight hours later, I get the audio message, "you know I'm just don't know if I'm ready to date, you know, you're really super cool, and it's not you. "I know it's not me, I'm cool, I'm emotionally available, I'm hilarious, I'm a blast in a glass, and that glass can be full of water or whatever you want it to be, I am a fun time ... and you know it, and I know it, but why are you on a dating app? It's not me, it's 100% the men ... get off the dating apps ... and the crazy thing is, I actually like this one.

Joker then goes on to say how she had divorced her husband because they "were on different pages", even though they had 2 children together, and a month after filing, she was on the dating apps.

 

[SW15]

She has been riding the penis carousel. It is likely that many of these guys are good looking men who have sex with her on the first date and then bail on her because they don't want to commit to a single mom of 2. Plenty of men will have short term sex (maybe even one time sex) with a single mom and bail.

She likely was the one who made the decision to exit her marriage and not keep her marital vows.

She also likely has a long swipe queue filled with thirsty betas on the apps.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

She has been riding the penis carousel. It is likely that many of these guys are good looking men who have sex with her on the first date and then bail on her because they don't want to commit to a single mom of 2. Plenty of men will have short term sex (maybe even one time sex) with a single mom and bail.

She likely was the one who made the decision to exit her marriage and not keep her marital vows.

She also likely has a long swipe queue filled with thirsty betas on the apps.

For guys = one date, no sex, no second date (money and time lost)

For girls = many dates, much sex, not relationship and ghosted (mental health and body value lost)

 

[SW15]

For guys = one date, no sex, no second date (money and time lost)

This is a common experience for men. It is most common with men who arrange their first dates through swipe apps primarily, though it happens to a lesser extent with men who approach strangers in real life. It's difficult to arrange the same quantity of dates through approaching strangers in real life as compared to swiping endlessly. This happens because men are able to swipe through thousands of women at a time if they live in a big city. No man can approach thousands of women in a week. The quality of dates arranged through swiping is often lower than those arranged through a real life approach or a social circle connection or introduction.

For girls = many dates, much sex, not relationship and ghosted (mental health and body value lost)

This is somewhat accurate. Women can go on a lot of dates but they'll ghost most men (one date, no sex, no second date). Women have such abundance in the current era that they can still reject most men and end up with high body counts mainly from short term sex with top tier men who aren't committing to them. What's common is that a lot of women in the 4.5-7 range are having sex with men 8+, usually with a ~2 point difference in SMV. A 9 man would commit to a 9 woman but he's not going to commit to a woman who is a 6.

 

[Slowhandluke]

This is somewhat accurate. Women can go on a lot of dates but they'll ghost most men (one date, no sex, no second date). Women have such abundance in the current era that they can still reject most men and end up with high body counts mainly from short term sex with top tier men who aren't committing to them. What's common is that a lot of women in the 4.5-7 range are having sex with men 8+, usually with a ~2 point difference in SMV. A 9 man would commit to a 9 woman but he's not going to commit to a woman who is a 6.

When a man has a lot of sex with man y women, he has "abundance..."
When a woman has a single, committed relationship with a high value man while experiencing life's events together, she has abundance...

Situationships is not "abundance" for women. Like having a good job, being successful, being dominating, etc.. society/feminists may tell her this is good for her.. she is having "abundance".. but it is not.

If getting pumped and dumped by many men is having "abundance", hookers would be considered billionaires.

 

[SW15]

Situationships is not "abundance" for women. Like having a good job, being successful, being dominating, etc.. society/feminists may tell her this is good for her.. she is having "abundance".. but it is not.

If getting pumped and dumped by many men is having "abundance", hookers would be considered billionaires.

When it is said on this forum that women have abundance, it is meant that women have abundance in terms of the number of dating prospects that they have. A woman's number of prospects for a first date isn't the same time as her number of prospects for a longer term relationship or a longer term relationship with a higher value man.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Women HOES have such abundance in the current era that they can still reject most men and end up with high body counts mainly from short term sex with top tier men who aren't committing to them.

That's what sex workers do, indeed.

Meanwhile, most women don't feel that abundance. There's a definite scarcity in the dating 'market' as you like to call it. And that scarcity is that the men they desire are either not available or players. Women feel most comfortable in an LTR/marriage, but nobody worthwhile is offering.

Those players who do go on hookups through dating apps can have sex with lots of hoes, but there's hardly any LTR women available.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Joker then goes on to say how she had divorced her husband because they "were on different pages", even though they had 2 children together, and a month after filing, she was on the dating apps.

This content is like watching train wrecks when you want to become a machinist.

Really, you should stop watching this garbage and watch more worthwhile content that up your game.

 

[Slowhandluke]

When it is said on this forum that women have abundance, it is meant that women have abundance in terms of the number of dating prospects that they have. A woman's number of prospects for a first date isn't the same time as her number of prospects for a longer term relationship or a longer term relationship with a higher value man.

yeah, I understand where you are coming from. But this wasn't always the case. in the past when woman had many partners, our parents/grandparents did not say it was a good thing. Like she had "abundance". they looked down on her.. they didn't compare it to man who had many options as something positive.

Present society is saying women who have tons of dating options, who has the ability to go on many dates - society is making it seem like a good thing.. it's not. it's like a guy having many girls that friend zone him. "oh yeah, Bob has abundance because, did you see how many girls have friendzoned him??"

it's the same thing with women, it doesn't matter how many situationships, dates she gets, etc.. for most women, that's not her/their goal... just like Bob getting friendzone. that's not his goal. the only difference is that men and society are brutally honest to men by saying Bob with so many girls friendzoning him is basically a loser. however, society and men are not brutally honest about women who are forced to date arround. even if she has many opportunities to date, she is still a loser like Bob even if society doesn't tell her that. she inherently knows this even if she lies to herself. she can't find a ltr. society has normalized women dating arround and its not a good thing. this type of women is a loser. she has no abundance.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

This content is like watching train wrecks when you want to become a machinist.

Really, you should stop watching this garbage and watch more worthwhile content that up your game.

It's _ _ _ _ for OP

 

[BillyPilgrim]

The chick on the right in the preview who is getting accused of being 45 is actually only 22, but in her case I suspect it may be a vaccination issue. The skin coloration seems a little off.