She said "I love you"

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she said i love you for the first time in bed.

She said it twice (the second time was when we did it again later)

Does it mean anything?
When she says she loves you, she means RIGHT NOW in this moment on that conditions.

Tomorrow you can be the biggest ahole she ever knew.

If she says it, it means nothing. If you say it, she thinks shes got you bagged and acts accordingly to her imagined best interest.

Never say "i love you" unless you have to and then dont say it first and be vague like "me to".
 

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OP, this is Star Wars 101

When she says I love you, just reply "I know". Girls eat that up, especially in the unlikely chance that she actually is a Star wars fan.
 

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It could have been worse.

Once a girl who had a huge crush on me, asked me, after a marathon session:

"Was that love or lust?"

Me:

Um, I, uh....
 

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Once a girl who had a huge crush on me, asked me, after a marathon session: "Was that love or lust?"
Me: Um, I, uh....
that was 'raw passion'.
 

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Rather than going though her medicine cabinet you should just ask her outright which STDs and mental disorders she has.
Says the Brit? Have you looked around yourself recently? :)
 

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OP, this is Star Wars 101

When she says I love you, just reply "I know". Girls eat that up, especially in the unlikely chance that she actually is a Star wars fan.
Ok Han Solo. Harrison is that you????

Lol
 

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No it’s not that I disagree at all. The reference cracked me right up…..

I use “These are not the droids you’re looking for” from time to time.

Obtuse & somewhat geeky, and I’m Ok with that, :)
 

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Check for:

- any recording devices on her person or in the room.
- any witnesses around

If there are neither, you can say it back.
 

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Check for:

- any recording devices on her person or in the room.
- any witnesses around

If there are neither, you can say it back.
The best reply is: "Ya know, they say never to believe anything said in the throes of passion..." and check for her response, usually a giggle.
 

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she said i love you for the first time in bed.

She said it twice (the second time was when we did it again later)

Does it mean anything?
Yeah it means she felt like that in the moment.

Don't take it as a message that she will marry you next month.

Women say stuff like that at the moment. If she says it daily and constantly then she is attached. Well done.
 
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