Second date logistics?

[sosuave213]

New chick i made out with many times, i tried to mention that we should go cook dinner but she doesnt bring guys back to her place on first dates.

We had a great night and things got hot and heavy but she stopped me short of third base. She wouldnt get off me though...She said at the end of the date "see you again?" To which i replied "mhm".

I should have set the date in retrospect as it was her idea and she mentioned that "we should go to this place next time" on three different occasions (for three different places) during the date.

I want to wait to call her, however, to gauge her interest a few days from now.

Plan is to call her on Thursday for the second date on Tuesday, but I'll ask her when shes free before setting the day. If she says "Friday, Saturday or Sunday", should I decline since weekend dates are off-limits in the beginning?

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Well she seems like she’s high level interested, and she shown initiative in mentioning meeting again several times.

I think you should contact her sooner rather than later, women are fickle you need to strike while the iron is hot.

If she is 7+ she lives in a target rich environment, waiting assures nothing except her becoming interested in another guy.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Nice, sounds very positive, I would stick with the plan, wait until Thursday. No weekends for her right now. Doing the two above steps make you look busy, that you have options and have a life. Hopefully it’s true.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Well she seems like she’s high level interested, and she shown initiative in mentioning meeting again several times.

I think you should contact her sooner rather than later, women are fickle you need to strike while the iron is hot.

It needs to be her job to make his iron hot, so to speak. She should be constantly demonstrating reasons for him to keep the interaction going. This stuff can get expensive quick, believe me!

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

It needs to be her job to make his iron hot, so to speak. She should be constantly demonstrating reasons for him to keep the interaction going. This stuff can get expensive quick, believe me!

Dates need not be expensive.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Dates need not be expensive.

Mmhmmm

 

[sosuave213]

@Pierce.Manhammer and @Divorced w 3 I followed both of your advices.

I read https://bookofpook.com/15-lessons-for-young-men-trust-your-gut-lesson-5/ and everything just became so obvious. She was showing undeniable interest, so I called her just now...(besides, my gut was actually telling me to do it.)

And she picked up! So after one minute of talking about how our days went I asked her when she was free. She went over her days this week and mentioned Thursday she was free.

So I let her know I was picking her up at 7. She asked what are we gonna do, which I replied "it's a surprise." She agreed!

Any date ideas we should do? Logistics of sex for the second date? It's been a while since I've been on a second date, especially after many unremarkable first dates. Thinking about ice skating and bowling.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Dates need not be expensive.

Cheap dates are pre 2020.

 

[Divorced w 3]

@Pierce.Manhammer and @Divorced w 3 I followed both of your advices.

I read https://bookofpook.com/15-lessons-for-young-men-trust-your-gut-lesson-5/ and everything just became so obvious. She was showing undeniable interest, so I called her just now...(besides, my gut was actually telling me to do it.)

And she picked up! So after one minute of talking about how our days went I asked her when she was free. She went over her days this week and mentioned Thursday she was free.

So I let her know I was picking her up at 7. She asked what are we gonna do, which I replied "it's a surprise." She agreed!

Any date ideas we should do? Logistics of sex for the second date? It's been a while since I've been on a second date, especially after many unremarkable first dates. Thinking about ice skating and bowling.

Bowling is always good!