Is Waitress/Bar Work A Red Flag?

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I recently watched "Looking for Mr. Goodbar" about a young woman who teaches deaf children during the day and cruises singles bars and clubs at night. She indulges in increasingly dangerous encounters, putting her life at risk.

I suggest we not judge a book (person) by its cover (profession). There are women with noble professions like a school teacher (no reference to Dw3's girl) or nurse who are some of the biggest sloots out there. And waitresses, flight attendants who make great loyal girlfriends and wives.

Re flight attendants, these women typically quit this profession once they get married and start a family.

I agree traveling, being away from kids and family doesn't bode well for a stable home life and family; however, like Dw3 posted, not everyone wants kids and family and may prefer a bit of distance in their relationship or even marriage. I've seen it!

A woman (or man) does NOT need to be placed in an environment conducive to cheating to cheat!

If one is inclined to cheat, if that's his/her character, then they're gonna cheat no matter where they are. On the other hand, if they have integrity and a strong character, they won't.

At the end of the day, it's about what you as an individual want and need in a relationship/marriage and how much you trust her (trust each other), in general.

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Depends on the guy. For a white collar professional, yes that’s a red flag. For a college student or guy working low skilled labor, absolutely not.

Flight Attendants ehhhh I’d avoid for both.
 

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I have to admit I looked her up. For 46 she looks good.
 

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Depends what you want in the relationship right? Not everyone wants kids, some people live well on the distance.
Thats true, i think someone told me that pilots tend to have better marriages sometimes. Maybe time away helps alot.
 
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