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If a chick doesnt text you "Happy new years!!"

BillyPilgrim

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Yeah maybe if you're looking for wifey. That's a formal thing to do and casual girls might not gaf about what you're doing for the holiday.
 

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Bigger question, why isn’t she on her knees dropping your balls in her mouth on new years?
 
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Cause we just had our first date less than a week ago and she's spending time with family
Shouldn’t you be spinning like 5 more plates brah… jk, okay well how’s your conversation been since, are you guys in regular communication? What are you doing to keep her tingling?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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No, you should not next her. You don't know her and she doesn't know you and doesn't owe you ANYTHING right now. You are doing good if she doesn't just ghost you.
That's true. We didn't wish each other merry Christmas before our first date. In fact the thought never even crossed my mind.
 

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No, you should not next her. You don't know her and she doesn't know you and doesn't owe you ANYTHING right now. You are doing good if she doesn't just ghost you.
I had a plate that seems to have ghosted me. I think I might text her Happy New Year to give her a shot to unghost.
 

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That's true. We didn't wish each other merry Christmas before our first date. In fact the thought never even crossed my mind.
Why? Hey have a merry Christmas with a smile? You get points for character and charm. When is the last time you spoke?
 

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You are so relationship focused. Women should be taking care of the relationship. Men should just take care of getting them out and showing them a good time.

What about you just text her in like the middle of January to “touch base”? Ask her how her new years was? There is no point in getting your panties wet about not texting each other when she should be the one texting you.
 
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If you text her after midnight or even the next day it means you are lame, have nothing better to do and you didn't have a great new year's eve celebration. She should be left wondering how good was your party that you can't remember to text or use phone. At least go to bed at 11 pm, like i'm gonna do tonight, so you don't have to worry about it.
 
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