Anyone else believe men put far too much focus on muscles?
In my opinion, as long as you're not fat, you're good. So why not spend less time trying to get muscles and more time developing social skills?
I believe these are the most important factors (for pulling women at bars):
1.) Social Energy / Fun / Charisma
2.) Height
3.) Looks
4.) Money
5.) Muscles
In other words, I believe being tall and funny / high energy and charismatic will always outpull anything in a social environment.
Money doesn't matter as no one can really tell how rich you are at a bar, unless you're doing cheesy stuff like flashing brand name sh*t.
Muscles are nice but the ROI just doesn't seem to be there.
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I'd trade an inch off my d*ck, a zero from my net worth, and 2 points from my looks to be the tall high energy funny guy.
(When I say tall I mean like 6'2"+ )
Although in some ways “all women are like that,” there are differences amongst them and not all put priority or are turned by the same things. And I believe trying to figure them all out is a cope. Men who attract women or have women do not speak as if they have all of them figured out.
For the most part, women do not give a damn about huge muscles, physically fit men do have an advantage with a portion of women.
The same goes for money. Not all women have a stipulation that their suitors be high-earning, but some do, and will not give a broke man the time or day.
And the same goes for being a tall clown, as you mentioned here. Some women have stipulations for height and for the ability “makes them laugh”. Others do not.
I actually think I would have attracted more women in my younger years if I had clown game (no, I’m not joking). My wife and other women who know me think I’m funny, though I don’t try to be. But that’s likely from my innate, unintentionally animated, tell-it-like-it-is, quirky personality.
Being a clown is more effective in attraction for a chunk of the female population in the current day, as are other things that have no utility.
