My 5 Weeks No Fap, Semen Retention, Zero P0rn Journey!

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So yeh, I decided I need some sex decipline in my life & I need to get far far away from the corrupting & addictive nature of P0rn.

It's been 5 weeks, maybe a little longer since I last nutted lol and P0rn has been completely cut out from my life altogether.

This is my experience of no fap, semen retention so far..

01. I feel more energetic, my workouts in the gym are more intense, without getting exhausted.

02. My face is glowing more & my skin is better, especially around the eyes.

03. I don't feel that, unbearable urge, to go out and fuk thots anymore who are usually toxic & bring chaos to your life
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04. I feel like I can choose/make wiser decisions on who I have sex with, as I don't have that P0rn like addiction for slvtty girls.

05. I don't have that embarrassing/shameful, feeling anymore, which you get from jacking off to P0rn.

06. I'm more determined to get actual sex, by being Fearless about approaching girls in the outside world. I literally don't fear any rejection right now. Gained heaps of confidence with cold approach.

07. This is a big one... I'm hoping this isn't just antedotal lol. I have noticed chicks are starring at me alot longer & making straight up eye contact.. I need to test this out a little more, but I have definitely noticed that on maybe 6-7 occasions now, maybe even more, getting much longer stares.

These are just some of the positives I have experienced so far, and straight up, the thought of jerking off now, doesn't even come to my mind.

That being said, I'm not planning on going without 'actual' sex.. I still intend to have sex with girls, however P0rn and fapping is out of the pictures completely
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Yeah. Point 02 and 07 happens to me as well. Usually around day 5.
It's crazy how girls notice these things. I had two girls on the train commute to work, give me stares and giggle amongst themselves in a flirty manner, repeatedly looking at me.

It was quite a surreal experience.
 

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It's crazy how girls notice these things. I had two girls on the train commute to work, give me stares and giggle amongst themselves in a flirty manner, repeatedly looking at me.

It was quite a surreal experience.
Yes, the strongest situation in this sense happened a few days ago.

I went to eat at a Hard Rock Cafe and the waitress simply stopped her work to chat about random subjects (the weather, for example). I guess it was on my day 07 of NoFap.

It was like something out of a movie. But it happens.
 

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I have made the effort to cut out p*rn and noticed positive effects.

It's hard to know where 7 comes from but I did have some women eyeing me up in my building's elevator recently.
 

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No porn and no masturbation is one of the best lifestyle practices.
 

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The first 5-7 days are the most difficult, but honestly it won't kill you if you don't jerk off lol.

Removing P0rn is 100% the best thing I did, as all I ever thought about was banging thots and girls with beautiful bodies & this kind of mindset often lead me to date a certain type of girl, the hyper sexual low quality girls with higher body counts.

Doesn't mean I don't want to smash hot chicks.. I do lol. I just have developed a better mindset for it and developed some decipline around it.

The best part is, I feel super confident about approaching girls and not giving a shyte about rejection.. I mean it's the only option now available to me, in order for me to bust a nut.
 

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Interesting how some people come out of the woodworks…not saying this is a troll effort, but a bit of thinking helps.

soulforge is an attention seeking h0, who knows if he actually bagged this gal half his age. And if he did, should be normal, right? Nope this dude lived nearly 5 decades to just go on and on n on….and on about this sh!t.

Some other people chime in like holiday as if we are part of some bodybuilder.com meme


A lot of you experienced dudes on here have to learn to stop feeding attention wh0res.

Keep crying son, keep jerking off to p0rn, probably sat there with your pants around your ankles right now, praying one day you might get to smash a younger girl.

Keep hoping and hating, while us real dudes improve and excel in life.. clown world haha

These basement dwellers always got something special to say. By the way in some languages the name Chowda is slang for puzzy.. it's an appropriate name.
 

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Whatever works for you. Porn can definitely be a crutch and a serious addiction if you're not careful.

No Fap never worked for me and had the opposite effect. I need to fap regularly whether I'm having sex or not and it actually helps me feel more focused (with chicks and in general).
 

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I have made the effort to cut out p*rn and noticed positive effects.

It's hard to know where 7 comes from but I did have some women eyeing me up in my building's elevator recently.
Have you tried it consistently or on/off pattern?
 

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Whatever works for you. Porn can definitely be a crutch and a serious addiction if you're not careful.

No Fap never worked for me and had the opposite effect. I need to fap regularly whether I'm having sex or not and it actually helps me feel more focused (with chicks and in general).
I kinda get this. It's a little too early to say how this will pan out for me in the long run.

I mean I can't imagine fapping without P0rn, that would feel odd as shyte to me.. but then I don't want to expose myself to p0rn either as it's highly addictive.

I feel less energetic about approaching chicks when I have P0rn available as a crutch. That being said I didn't do bad in getting actual sex, so obstaining from P0rn isn't a massive deal.
 

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I dont know if others (women) can notice you being high-strung while on nofap, however, I think everyone can identify an addict who faps like 5 times a day. A total flegma behavior.

But yeah, it definitely helps with everything you've mentioned. One of the areas i find it most impactful at is determination and willpower. If i'm on nofap, i've my goals set, serious ambition towards important things in life, fixing whatver is needed, etc. As soon as i bust one or two, i just want to play videogames and eat bad food.
 

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I mean I can't imagine fapping without P0rn, that would feel odd as shyte to me.. but then I don't want to expose myself to p0rn either as it's highly addictive.
Well it's more natural to use your imagination. But if you're trying to quit porn than a general fap strike is probably the way to go for now. Eventually you will feel like doing it (like just from seeing a sexily dressed woman IRL or on TV or your phone). Or you'll just have thoughts.

IME it's helped me seduce women IRL by fapping to them first, lol. They later told me they fapped to me too. So I guess sometimes it's self fulfillng. IME anything that doesn't affect my sex life (or life in general) negatively is fine.
 

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Well it's more natural to use your imagination. But if you're trying to quit porn than a general fap strike is probably the way to go for now. Eventually you will feel like doing it (like just from seeing a sexily dressed woman IRL or on TV or your phone). Or you'll just have thoughts.

IME it's helped me seduce women IRL by fapping to them first, lol. They later told me they fapped to me too. So I guess sometimes it's self fulfillng. IME anything that doesn't affect my sex life (or life in general) negatively is fine.
Yeh I'm already kind of experiencing this.. I'm using a couple of dating apps at the moment and yeh even profile pictures are somewhat of a turn on haha..

That being said, the temptation to fap has hugely decreased since P0rn has been taken out of the picture.

The next time I bust a nut, will be inside a chick, which will likely be this Saturday as got a date, if all goes well, she is about to drown in about 5 weeks worth of jizz haha.
 

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So yeh, I decided I need some sex decipline in my life & I need to get far far away from the corrupting & addictive nature of P0rn.

It's been 5 weeks, maybe a little longer since I last nutted lol and P0rn has been completely cut out from my life altogether.

This is my experience of no fap, semen retention so far..

01. I feel more energetic, my workouts in the gym are more intense, without getting exhausted.

02. My face is glowing more & my skin is better, especially around the eyes.

03. I don't feel that, unbearable urge, to go out and fuk thots anymore who are usually toxic & bring chaos to your life
.

04. I feel like I can choose/make wiser decisions on who I have sex with, as I don't have that P0rn like addiction for slvtty girls.

05. I don't have that embarrassing/shameful, feeling anymore, which you get from jacking off to P0rn.

06. I'm more determined to get actual sex, by being Fearless about approaching girls in the outside world. I literally don't fear any rejection right now. Gained heaps of confidence with cold approach.

07. This is a big one... I'm hoping this isn't just antedotal lol. I have noticed chicks are starring at me alot longer & making straight up eye contact.. I need to test this out a little more, but I have definitely noticed that on maybe 6-7 occasions now, maybe even more, getting much longer stares.

These are just some of the positives I have experienced so far, and straight up, the thought of jerking off now, doesn't even come to my mind.

That being said, I'm not planning on going without 'actual' sex.. I still intend to have sex with girls, however P0rn and fapping is out of the pictures completely
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Sometimes I feel like girls can sense retention on you because of the energy you put out when you walk. It's a proud self-determined energy that symbolizes health. So many men are so downtrodden and miserable that it leaks into their confidence. Men start feeling a loss of vitality early on and it turns them into zombies that repel women. I have been through this phase myself where I just feel like a total loser and weakling. Women can sense that. I even felt that way when I had a GF, I was going through some bad times with my purpose/direction and wasn't practicing the things that made me strong. I think thats usually the point when couples start feeding off eachothers weakness and start getting fat together. Luckily, I've been on 3 months of nofap myself and feel incredible.
 

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I like nutting. Right on her face.
The nofap stuff is just you trying to get addicted to NOT nutting as much as you were addicted to nutting. Lol

Has it ever occured to any of you that its only a problem because you chose to make it a problem?

This cycle is in everything. If it wasn't porn it would be something else.
The guilt from it is coming from something deeper like lack. Lack of something in you.
Its not from watching 2 ppl bang.

Dude you might feel good about sitting there with your pants around your ankles, trying to wipe the jizz off your fingers and off your phone screen after you whacked off to some degenracy.

Myself I don't feel good about that. I absolutely have no issues with busting nuts, however I will do that in actual sexual encounters.. Applying some discipline to ones life, can only be a positive in my books.
 

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Now you are projecting lmao
Wow very profound response. Clown World.

People like me post on here about self improvement, quitting P0rn which is highly addictive & destructive for men. Self discipline & improvement as a whole as men, is what we should be aiming for.

Hopefully dudes will notice the benefits of not jerking off to a screen all day long & you come back with some Chest Beating Alpha Shyte, child like response about how you fap on a girls face.

How old are you? Fvcking 12?

I'd bich slap some sense into you and force you to put the lube down & pull your trousers back up.
 

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The steroids are kickin’ in, calm down
I'm natural.. never touched steroids in my entire life.. just pure hard work, sacrifice and determination.. Think it over while you're jacking off to granny P0rn.
 

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The steroids are kickin’ in, calm down
Let's do a picture analysis.. post your picture and I will post my picture & we will determine who possibly is using Steroids?

Words are cheap.. Let's let the facts speak for themself.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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