Broke No Contact After 9 1/2 Months (RESULTS)

[sosuave213]

Was with this chick for four and a half years. Her and her family supported me through a lot of chit. We grew a lot together, traveling to five-star Mexican resorts, chilling in Denver (literally) and we lived together for years.

I broke up with her because I felt at the time, we were arguing too much. Dates were not enjoyable. I dreaded seeing her. I even cheated on her at the resort we went to because I was drunk, and because I simply wanted to. It was wicked, felonious and incomprehensible.

I also was Ubermaxxing, as you may all remember. On one fateful night I picked up a chick from the airport. She was here for Art Basel and asked me out. No fking chit, when I saw her walking away I did not even believe such a big booty was possible on such a slim and slender white chick. Therefore I bit the bullet, dumped my gf on new years and spent it with this chick.

She ended things 4 months later because it was getting serious and she thought I gave her herpes.

My ex of 4 1/2 years texted, called and itched to see me for one long month after our breakup. I declined to see her and gave one-word responses...love was gone on my end. However, I re-read the conversations because I'm lonely. I just saw this and felt guilty.

I contacted her an hour ago through Whatsapp. The phone trilled three times, then it said the call was declined. Twenty minutes later, I check Whatsapp and see that she has blocked me.

Cliffs-

Op feels good af despite being blocked by ex. I know she's moved on and I no longer feel too guilty about not contacting her for 9 1/2 months.

 

[soulforge]

Was with this chick for four and a half years. Her and her family supported me through a lot of chit. We grew a lot together, traveling to five-star Mexican resorts, chilling in Denver (literally) and we lived together for years.

I broke up with her because I felt at the time, we were arguing too much. Dates were not enjoyable. I dreaded seeing her. I even cheated on her at the resort we went to because I was drunk, and because I simply wanted to. It was wicked, felonious and incomprehensible.

I also was Ubermaxxing, as you may all remember. On one fateful night I picked up a chick from the airport. She was here for Art Basel and asked me out. No fking chit, when I saw her walking away I did not even believe such a big booty was possible on such a slim and slender white chick. Therefore I bit the bullet, dumped my gf on new years and spent it with this chick.

She ended things 4 months later because it was getting serious and she thought I gave her herpes.

My ex of 4 1/2 years texted, called and itched to see me for one long month after our breakup. I declined to see her and gave one-word responses...love was gone on my end. However, I re-read the conversations because I'm lonely. I just saw this and felt guilty.

I contacted her an hour ago through Whatsapp. The phone trilled three times, then it said the call was declined. Twenty minutes later, I check Whatsapp and see that she has blocked me.

Cliffs-

Op feels good af despite being blocked by ex. I know she's moved on and I no longer feel too guilty about not contacting her for 9 1/2 months.

Makes sense why she blocked you, you treated her rather poorly.

 

[sosuave213]

Makes sense why she blocked you, you treated her rather poorly.

I dumped her so she can be happy. I don't give a phuck.

 

[Murk]

She "thought" you gave her herpes, which means you did, or she was cheating on you.

I don't really get the point of this thread.

As an aside, I was in Miami for Art Basel in 2021 - good times - it was like kids playing grown-up. You don't really do sophistication (or House/Techno) like London.

 

[sosuave213]

She "thought" you gave her herpes, which means you did, or she was cheating on you.

I don't really get the point of this thread.

As an aside, I was in Miami for Art Basel in 2021 - good times - it was like kids playing grown-up. You don't really do sophistication (or House/Techno) like London.

I like DnB, perhaps I will travel here next.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I dumped her so she can be happy. I don't give a phuck.

Clearly you do otherwise you wouldnt be posting this. Working OT to convince others but you are simply lying to yourself.

 

[Stanley]

I don't understand the purpose of this post or what you seek to gain in creating it?

Sounds like you care on some level (which is fine, you spent years together and expressed feeling guilt), but to say You
"don't give a phuck " exemplifies cognitive dissonance as you make this thread and re-engaged with her showing us (and yourself) that on some level you care.

It sounds like you were simply incompatible and fell out of love with one another, no harm no foul there, but stepping out on her and then reaching back out after ignoring her is weak behavior. Let her move on, accept your part in the ending of the relationship, learn from it and move on as well. You likely felt guilty because you compromised your moral code somewhere and paired with loneliness you felt an urge to open things again and felt dejected in turn.

It's okay to care man, hiding behind false bravado and giving no F***'s isn't going to help. Hopefully, this rejection is received as a rare gracious gift of closure. Or not and you just don't care ... Whatever helps you sleep at night

 

[sosuave213]

I really don't care. I'm dating someone else now. Not sure why you guys are extrapolating my claim but OK...

 

[Solomon]

So you smashed the big booty white chick but she thought you gave her an STD? i'm confused

 

[SargeMaximus]

The drama in this place girlfriends

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Let’s start a “broke NC” thread where everyone can tell their NC violation and its results…