Marriage relationship incident

[Dr.Suave]

Why do women post on men's boards?

My guess? Attention/validation and all the "Likes" from simps and White Knights Because they feel good helping us with their advice.



To be clear, Im just joking, No animosity. If someone "se pone el saco", that´s on them.

 

[Ricky]

My guess? Attention/validation and all the "Likes" from simps and White Knights Because they feel good helping us with their advice.



To be clear, Im just joking, No animosity. If someone "se pone el saco", that´s on them.

What does that expression mean?

 

[member162951]

OP, first off I think you both could have done better.

Secondly, I do NOT believe that disrespectful behavior justifies disrespectful behavior back at you. That is immature and a very poor way to resolve a conflict. It leads to nothing good or positive AT ALL.

For you, before you act, take a moment and try to understand her perspective. Her being pregnant, all the chores, etc.

When the dust settles, communicate and encourage her to do the same with you (try to understand your perspective).

For her, none of this storming off in a huff and bombarding you with disrespectful messages. That's wrong too.

She's a grown up, you're a grown up, you both need to begin acting as such.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I’ve been married 14 months. In my experience, calling your wife “lazy” or anything negative will go over like a lead balloon. Be kind to her at all times. If she acts up, you handle the disrespect by withdrawing the romance. Women can pick up on body language and shvt way quicker than us. Your wife knows immediately when she’s screwing up. Hope you married a woman that cares enough to fear losing you. If you did, you have a shot at a happy home.

 

[Dr.Suave]

What does that expression mean?

I think the english language has an equivalent but I cant recall it at the moment. For example, If someone would say: "Without naming names, someone in this thread is gay" and someone replies like "Hey, why are you talking about me?" or something, The person who replied "Solito se puso el saco"

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

I think the english language has an equivalent but I cant recall it at the moment. For example, If someone would say: "Without naming names, someone in this thread is gay" and someone replies like "Hey, why are you talking about me?" or something, The person who replied "Solito se puso el saco"

"When the shoe fits..." is the expression you're looking for.