Everything you need to know about Daddy Issue's!

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I found this video on YouTube, absolutely a fascinating breakdown on girls with daddy issues/BPD & Narc traits.

This also describes my recent experience with a Damaged girl to an absolute T.

Would highly recommend you guys watch this video & save yourself from the chaos you will experience by getting entangled with this type of woman.

Thank me later lol

 

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Would highly recommend you guys watch this video & save yourself from the chaos you will experience by getting entangled with this type of woman.
Thank you, but who needs a forty minute explanation about daddy issues?

Just send those damaged girls my way.
 

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I found this video on YouTube, absolutely a fascinating breakdown on girls with daddy issues/BPD & Narc traits.

This also describes my recent experience with a Damaged girl to an absolute T.

Would highly recommend you guys watch this video & save yourself from the chaos you will experience by getting entangled with this type of woman.

Thank me later lol

“Daddy” issues does not necessarily also means that she is damaged goods

Maybe her father was older than her mother, maybe her father did not spend a lot of time with her but she knew that he loved her, maybe her father was an 1di1ot and she had a different role model ( an uncle for example ) , or her father did not show any affection, etc

Now, that neurotic women also come from families that are f8cked it is very true, but the family does not necessarily has to be f8cked up in order for a woman to like older men

Just as there are girls with daddy issues, so are guys with mommy issues

Till I was like 25 years old I always dated girls older than me ( a couple of years difference ). But then I realized that girls as they age become more and more f8cked up and also “cured” my mommy issues by then
 

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The second somebody offers you a "Consultation" before saying if they are accredited to offer said consultation is a big turn off for me, on that basis alone in good on the video

Only thing worse than a woman with daddy issues is a guy with financial issues lol
 

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IDK, I think the daddy issues thing is a bit overplayed.

BPD is just the female condition and narcissistic personality traits are closely tied to women's solipsism. BPD can also be dialed up by increasing alpha behaviors and not providing comfort. Literally think Depp v. Heard. Sometimes providing comfort (read: beta behavior) keeps a girl from cutting off your finger and sh*tting in your bed.

I quite seriously think you can train the daddy issues out of a girl, but it takes a much stronger man to do so.

"Women are water. They fill the shape of the man who holds them." - Rian Stone
I think it's a bit dangerous to downplay how much BDP can influence a girl's behavior and the risk you take on as a guy if you underestimate it.
 

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“Daddy” issues does not necessarily also means that she is damaged goods

Maybe her father was older than her mother, maybe her father did not spend a lot of time with her but she knew that he loved her, maybe her father was an 1di1ot and she had a different role model ( an uncle for example ) , or her father did not show any affection, etc

Now, that neurotic women also come from families that are f8cked it is very true, but the family does not necessarily has to be f8cked up in order for a woman to like older men

Just as there are girls with daddy issues, so are guys with mommy issues

Till I was like 25 years old I always dated girls older than me ( a couple of years difference ). But then I realized that girls as they age become more and more f8cked up and also “cured” my mommy issues by then
I don't think you can look at one thing, she doesn't have a daddy, therefore she has daddy issues.

Various other indicators & behaviours have to be taken into consideration.
 

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I think it's a bit dangerous to downplay how much BDP can influence a girl's behavior and the risk you take on as a guy if you underestimate it.
You make a good point. Fathers being absent is a huge problem in the West, so the chances of getting involved with a BPD/Daddy Issue's girl, are so much higher.

Like I said before, look at all her behaviours, not just, "oh she didn't have a father, she must have issues" not having a father alone does not mean she is crazeee.

Promiscuity
High alcohol use
Always dates much older toxic men like chad/fuk boys/NARCs/Losers
A string of failed relationships
Has a problem with boundaries & authority
Takes medication for mental health issues
Has childhood Trauma like Sex-ual abuse

If she is very young and always dates much older Alpha men, then you best bet she has been Alpha widowed several times.
 

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That is true. I guess I meant that all girls are BPD, just not necessarily to a severe degree. It's definitely not specific to girls with daddy issues, though it does tend to be more prevalent in those types.

BPD helps a girl into your frame, but it's also what makes her stab you while you're asleep because she had a dream that you cheated on her.

If a girl is pushing a 10 on the BPD Richter scale, maybe invest in some body armor and remove sharp objects from the home before bedding her.
This is spot on. You can't look at just one flag.. She doesn't have a father.

If you're seeing 2-3-4-5 different indicators, one of the biggest being childhood Trauma/sexual abuse, then yeh very likely you got crazy times coming your way.
 

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This is spot on. You can't look at just one flag.. She doesn't have a father.

If you're seeing 2-3-4-5 different indicators, one of the biggest being childhood Trauma/sexual abuse, then yeh very likely you got crazy times coming your way.
I”ve see more f8cked up girls coming from good families ( where the father was strict )

And then hoeing is just a way to get back at him
 

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I”ve see more f8cked up girls coming from good families ( where the father was strict )

And then hoeing is just a way to get back at him
These are likely acceptions to the rule, the outliers.

Girls from broken families, single mom upbringing, no father figure to guide her or protect her.. These girls will look for a masculine figure in other ways, mostly by notching up the body count.
 

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These are likely acceptions to the rule, the outliers.

Girls from broken families, single mom upbringing, no father figure to guide her or protect her.. These girls will look for a masculine figure in other ways, mostly by notching up the body count.
Another thing I have seen is the occurrence of the "man-child" as a father. Girls with fathers who spent their time off of work playing videogames or barhopping would often see their father as an older brother rather than a dad. I always looked 5 to 10 years older than my actual age, so I would often attract women around my age with the "man-child" father by simply acting in a mundane adult manner and often have them obsessed with me as a result. I would simply say responsible adult statements like "Don't do that, that's dangerous." and they would practically melt as a result.
 

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"Good girl."
 
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