Cold Approach (Mode X) Field Report

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Yeah man, I will be checking in (probably weekly) with the latest on my Cold Approach/Mode X journey.

Basically, I will be..

1. Approaching as many women I find attractive.

2. Attempting to give her my #.

3. If I get number, go Mode X via text message (or if I can, go Mode X in person).

Got it?

The woman has to match the criteria of...

A. Big titties
B: Cute face
C. Both

Cute face with small titties; maybe.

Unattractive face with big titties; YES.

When I go Mode X, I will let the woman know within the first 3 messages that I want to suck her titties :p :p :p

That is how I get down.

And I live with the results.

I would love to secretly record the interactions, but I have a punk azz Android and I am unable to find a decent camera app that will allow me to record with the screen off.

If you have any recommendations, let me know..

I will report everything here, sharing screenshots of conversations.

Stay tuned.
 

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I have a punk azz Android
Have you ever gotten any negative feedback from women over your Android ownership?

Bougie, White women with bachelor's degrees or higher who are usually 6+ in looks tend to have iPhones and often look down at men who have Androids.

Hispanic and African-American women are less concerned with whole iPhone vs. Android thing.

There are some good Android models out there. Samsung has made quality phones for many years.
 

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Have you ever gotten any negative feedback from women over your Android ownership?

Bougie, White women with bachelor's degrees or higher who are usually 6+ in looks tend to have iPhones and often look down at men who have Androids.
I'm trying to suck some titties, not discuss who has what kind of phone.

Hispanic and African-American women are less concerned with whole iPhone vs. Android thing.
As they shouldn't be.

There are some good Android models out there.
There are also some good quality White women out there who isn't concerned about phone brands.

Samsung has made quality phones for many years.
Wilt Chamberlain once scored 100 points on a game.
 

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Venom if you're ever having to meet these women in public first, do what I do and find a venue with a large parking lot (strip malls are good) and deliberately park at the other end of the lot from the venue on some pretense.

This way, you can get a ride back to your car after you walk her to hers. Perfect for some in-car titty action.

Been running this game for years.

I haven't had a meet in years where I haven't at least gotten some titty grabbing action. (ok, one time 3 years ago but that was an exception).
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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@SW15

4 things happened here..

1. Ultimately, I was rejected.

however..

2. I let her know what I wanted, and quickly.

3. As vulgar and direct as I was, she did not take offense. She kindly let me know that she wasn't interested in that kind of relationship.

4. I was able to get her to tell me where I stood, without wasting any time or money.

I met this chick at the gym. She has to be in her mid 40's or early 50's.

About 5'10, and is what we can call a slim-thick body frame.

She wore a tight black tank top which really showed her chest definition.

I had to get at her.

I approached her..

Me: Miss, are you single?

Her: Yes.

Me: Can I give you my number?

Her: I'm really not looking for anyone right now, but you know what, you can give me your number. What is your name?

Me: My name is _____

Her: Hi _____. I'm Kim.

I gave her my number.

Me: Text me. There is something I want to talk to you about later.

Her: Ok. I just texted you...

And later..

Kim 1.png Kim 2.png

I've been Mode X on 3 different occasions, and neither time did I get an adverse (cussed out) reaction.

Let's see what the following week will bring.
 

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Venom if you're ever having to meet these women in public first, do what I do and find a venue with a large parking lot (strip malls are good) and deliberately park at the other end of the lot from the venue on some pretense.

This way, you can get a ride back to your car after you walk her to hers. Perfect for some in-car titty action.

Been running this game for years.

I haven't had a meet in years where I haven't at least gotten some titty grabbing action. (ok, one time 3 years ago but that was an exception).
Bro, I agree 100%.

My best place to titty hunt and cold approach in general is Walmart...and I frequent various Planet Fitnesses.

Both places are usually within a strip mall/plaza with large parking lots.

Like you say, perfect for some titty action.

Hell, the Planet Fitness on 35th Ave & Southern is across the street from a Walmart.

Two birds with one stone.

I don't have a car right now..motorcycle was stolen and I am saving up for a new one.

Public transportation is excellent for eye candy and cold approaching.

Btw, I ain't forget about the titty thread.
 

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For those of you who give a fuk (which ain't many)..

:lol:

As of 9-7..

Target goal: At least 35%

Current success percentage: 42%

3/7

This is data based upon women of whom..

1. I found attractive
2. I approached.
3. She identified as single.
4. She accepted my number (or gave me hers).
5. We had at least one meaningful conversation after we initially parted ways.
.....

My last 6 month stretch for cold approaching, I was gunning for a success rate of at least 30% (of both getting the number and getting physical contact with woman).

I accomplished that for both.

Now, I raised the bar...increasing it by 5%.

So far, so good...at least in one of the two.
.....

Now, just working on closing the deal (physical contact).

So far, I am 0-3.

But that might change tomorrow. :cool:
 

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So, as of recent..

About 2 days ago, I was at work.

I work receiving at a grocery store...in the backroom.

Occasionally, I have to walk through the store for any given reason, and that gives me an opportunity to catch any eye candy that may be shopping in the store.

It was about a half hour before my shift was over, and as I am walking through the store, I see this semi-tall, older (senior) Black woman walking through the store with shopping cart.

We crossed paths and said hello.

I can tell immediately by the way she said hello that she was approachable. She said it in a noticably kind manner which gave me the impression that she was easy going.

And that's not all.

Another thing I noticed was; she had/got some BIG ASS TITTIES :p:p:p.

Under normal circumstances, I would have approached her there on the spot.

However, since I was at work and still on the clock, I left and went back to my area in the backroom.

My shift ended in about a half hour, and I was HOPING that this woman would still be inside when I got off.

Lucky for me, she was..

....

When I walked towards the front to punch out, the senior woman was at the counter purchasing her items.

One of my work acquaintances (black, female lesbian) was at the self checkout making a purchase.

I walked up to her and said..

Me: See that lady right there. She is PACKING. I'm about to get on her.

:cool:

I walked over to the front entrance and waited for the senior lady to exit the store with her cart.

When she walked out, I followed her from behind.

Me: Excuse me, Miss.

Her: Yes?

Me: Are you single?

Her: I am.

Me: Would you mind if I gave you my number?

I can't remember verbatim what was said after that, but I told her I wanted to give her my number so I can tell her something.

She asked why can't I tell her now?

I said because I didn't want her to take offense and blow up on me in public.

She assured me that she wasn't that kind of person.

So me and her jokingly played around with her coaxing me to tell her what I had to say, and me maintaining NOT telling her out here (we are now at her car in the parking lot of the store).

So after her coaxing me enough, I told her.

Me: Ok, let me tell you in your ear.

*Puts my arm around her and whispers in her ear*

Me: I want to suck your breasts.

Her: Oh...

Long story short, she had to go back in the store for something.

I followed her inside and asked for her phone, and put my number in her phone.

While we were in the aisles inside the store, I put my arm around her and semi-groped them titties until she stopped me, because she "shopped in here all the time".
......

I thought she had played me, since she didn't hit me up the same day/night.

But when I woke up the following morning..this is what I saw, from Mary..

MX.jpg


"U always so straight", is what she asked.

Mode One (X) is all about being STRAIGHT.

"I'm flattered+hesitant".

Never mind the hesitant business, she said she is FLATTERED.

I told her I want to suck her breasts, and she found it flattering.

But how would I have known this if I did not have the confidence/balls to approach?

And it sounds like we will be linking up tomorrow..and I plan on closing the deal.

Mode Oneeeeee.

X.
 

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Just left her place.

We established a fuk buddy relationship.

Titties were every thing I imagined they would be.

1/3.
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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We established a fuk buddy relationship.
So you cashed-in your youth to get a 74 year old. What happens when you are in your 70s and women your age cohort aren't interested and are going for young guys instead? After all if they can get a young 20/30 year old guy why would they settle for another 70 year old? Really great field report. I guess at least you aren't paying for it so I guess it's better than that, but to actually brag about this?
 

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This is her.

Body is BANGING.

And guess how old she is?

74.
I know you're someone who gives advice on game and cold approach on this forum, and is often tagged in threads asking for advice from the experts on here who hold you in high regards. With that in mind, I wouldn't expect anything less!

Play on, player! Only 74, too?? Get it!
 

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So you cashed-in your youth to get a 74 year old. What happens when you are in your 70s and women your age cohort aren't interested and are going for young guys instead? After all if they can get a young 20/30 year old guy why would they settle for another 70 year old? Really great field report. I guess at least you aren't paying for it so I guess it's better than that, but to actually brag about this?
Brag is a strong word.

Please don't mistake me for bragging.

I'm just reporting what I snagged.

Remember, I was attracted to her BEFORE I knew what her age is.

Also, she is a sweet, kind older woman who cooks and specializes in pastries.

She is going to make me a cheesecake soon lol.

I was over her place for a good 6-7 hours and in between physical actions, we vibed well intellectually.

Another thing is this, you guys shouldn't knock senior women..and you should expand your age horizons.

Some of the most sweet, intellectually stimulating conversations you will ever have will be with a senior woman.

Not all seniors are the old, wrinkled, can-barely-walk depictions you have in your mind.

Some of them are in good health and cognitively proficient.

Some of them are retired, bored, and lonely..and would love for the opportunity to share the company of a younger man.

Most of them have the old school mentality of longing to take care of a man in more ways than one.

They will invite you over and you can bust nuts all kinds of nuts in their houses...and they won't mind at all.
.....

Im telling you, man.

The wife, who is soon to be 58 herself, likes to play bingo. Sometimes, I go play bingo with her.

Any of the various bingo joints, are filled with senior men and women.

As I observed over the course of years, those senior women are some of the most kind, homely, well-dressed, easy-going women you will ever meet.

Most of them (along with the wife) have been playing bingo for YEARS and know the wife.

The wife introduced me to some of them as they greeted her, and they showered me with perfume-laced hugs and sweet pleasantries.

And some of them are funny, too.

I said all that to say this; give it (them) a try.

Prepare to be amazed.
 
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