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Thebestthereeveris

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I was once a afc as most people here were. I became a don juan through massive action and doing things other people wont. I became exceptional. However due to weed and drugs i fell off and went on a 7 year no cold approach dry spell. I relied solely on dating apps and my six pack to get laid and it made me weaker undoubtedly. IM going back out into the field, night clubs day game mall all that. I am also working on myself fitness and financial wise. I am going back in the field hardcore and I will update my progress here. I want to get back to the level I was and even BEYOND that. I am ready to be a LEGEND.
 

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If you have a six pack and low body fat, you can get laid with either swipe apps or nightlife approaching.
 

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If you have a six pack and low body fat, you can get laid with either swipe apps or nightlife approaching.
If you are muscular maybe. If you are simply scrawny and have abs due to no bodyfat, unlikely.
 

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If you have a six pack and low body fat, you can get laid with either swipe apps or nightlife approaching.
Is it that easy for gymrats these days on apps? I obviously don’t use them because I’m married, but I’m curious if things are that easy. I remember about fifteen years ago hardly any women gave a flying f— about a muscle and we gymrats were like outcasts. Even my IFBB pro bodybuilder friend says the same.

I remember in 2009 a woman from Match.com I spoke to promptly ended our phone conversation when I said I was interested in one day doing a bodybuilding show (which I did, and won). Haha.
 

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If you are muscular maybe. If you are simply scrawny and have abs due to no bodyfat, unlikely.
I had been envisioning a muscular guy when I wrote the sentence I wrote. What you wrote is true for a scrawny person without big muscles.

Is it that easy for gymrats these days on apps? I obviously don’t use them because I’m married, but I’m curious if things are that easy. I remember about fifteen years ago hardly any women gave a flying f— about a muscle and we gymrats were like outcasts. Even my IFBB pro bodybuilder friend says the same.

I remember in 2009 a woman from Match.com I spoke to promptly ended our phone conversation when I said I was interested in one day doing a bodybuilding show (which I did, and won). Haha.
There's a difference between fit/muscular guys who don't look like they compete in IFBB type shows and bodybuilder competitors.

Big muscles are a sign of a Top 10% guy.

Dating apps are easy for Top 10% guys, who are typically 6'0"+ fit guys, often with big muscles.

I got off the apps because I'm not a Top 10% guy.
 

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Continued from above. I do get more attention now when out and about and at work than I did back then, but that could also be because of my aloofness because I don’t care.
 

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I had been envisioning a muscular guy when I wrote the sentence I wrote. What you wrote is true for a scrawny person without big muscles.



There's a difference between fit/muscular guys who don't look like they compete in IFBB type shows and bodybuilder competitors.

Big muscles are a sign of a Top 10% guy.

Dating apps are easy for Top 10% guys, who are typically 6'0"+ fit guys, often with big muscles.

I got off the apps because I'm not a Top 10% guy.
I don't know very many muscular guys that smoke weed...it kinda works against the body in terms of building muscle.
 

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Is it that easy for gymrats these days on apps? I obviously don’t use them because I’m married, but I’m curious if things are that easy. I remember about fifteen years ago hardly any women gave a flying f— about a muscle and we gymrats were like outcasts. Even my IFBB pro bodybuilder friend says the same.

I remember in 2009 a woman from Match.com I spoke to promptly ended our phone conversation when I said I was interested in one day doing a bodybuilding show (which I did, and won). Haha.
It's easy for any dude who has a nice physique and decent looks. I mean sht, I'm not here to toot my own horn but I think to sum it up in two words, unlimited pu55y. Being that im picky and dont settle for average or below average, when I say unlimited pu55y, imt alking hot chicks.. I'll settle for like a 7 once in a while but why lower my standards when I dont have to. Dudes used to bust my balls/talk sht because they hated that milfs would hit on me and i wouldn't go for them.. This still happens, but even more nowadays. I've literally had hot ass milfs tell me some wild stuff, blatantly come onto me with sht that if you told a woman the same level of sexual sht you'd prob get the cops called on you.
 

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It's easy for any dude who has a nice physique and decent looks. I mean sht, I'm not here to toot my own horn but I think to sum it up in two words, unlimited pu55y. Being that im picky and dont settle for average or below average, when I say unlimited pu55y, imt alking hot chicks.. I'll settle for like a 7 once in a while but why lower my standards when I dont have to. Dudes used to bust my balls/talk sht because they hated that milfs would hit on me and i wouldn't go for them.. This still happens, but even more nowadays. I've literally had hot ass milfs tell me some wild stuff, blatantly come onto me with sht that if you told a woman the same level of sexual sht you'd prob get the cops called on you.
I see. As I said, I actually get more attention these days when out and about but I’m not in social venues as much as when I was younger.

Did you ever compete in bodybuilding?
 

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I see. As I said, I actually get more attention these days when out and about but I’m not in social venues as much as when I was younger.

Did you ever compete in bodybuilding?
I feel that. and nope. I've thought about it many times but I never had the discipline for it or time to dedicate towards it until now. For a while I didn't even have a proper routine.. I just lived day by day.. woke up at different times, ate at different times, etc. I might do a show next year though. I definitely know exactly how to bulk/cut/recomp/all that stuff now.. though I would probably do a natural competition.. dont plan on taking any gear or know enough about it to really take advantage. I do have friends who do but why mess up my body with that stuff when I didn't need it this far along? Just how I look at it.
 
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