Men need to read and re-read this 20 times until it sinks in...

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A woman who is very interested in you will do ALMOST ANYTHING to spend time with and see you. Read the quote again and again until it sinks in.

"Irina doesn't mind traveling to see him. She is very excited about the relationship."

Stop accepting scraps from the table from disinterested women and focus on finding a woman who acts like THIS around you.

If a woman flakes on you, makes it seem like you have to jump through hoops to see her, gives you "maybe" as an answer when asking if she is free, etc, it's because SHE ISNT THAT INTERESTED!

 
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A woman who is very interested in you will do ALMOST ANYTHING to spend time with and see you. Read the quote again and again until it sinks in.

"Irina doesn't mind traveling to see him. She is very excited about the relationship."

Stop accepting scraps from the table from disinterested women and focus on finding a woman who acts like THIS around you.

If a woman flakes on you, makes it seem like you have to jump through hoops to see her, gives you "maybe" as an answer when asking if she is free, etc, it's because SHE ISNT THAT INTERESTED!

Yup..harsh reality and a bitter pill to swallow.

The most difficult part isnt when she acts like this ,but when she pullls back.

You see, now she's done some effort and thus created some wiggle room on her " mental bank account" she has in YOUR heart. So when she "flakes once" , is tired ect ect, you as a man will tend to forgive her. Once twice 12 times. Especially if she keeps this "mental bank account " on a tight balance( i.o.w she might make 7 mistakes and do 2 things right for you ect).

This is why its ao difficult to walk away. She'll do everything do keep you hooked. Unfortunately women seldom are straight and say" hey I don't like your white socks in combination with your green boxer. " or whatever BS they think about ,(mainly ignited by another man in the picture!!!)

The question is how long will Irina travel and how long does it takes before Irina pulls back? How will the protagonist act vt that time?
 
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Yup..harsh reality and a bitter pill to swallow.

The most difficult part isnt when she acts like this ,but when she pullls back.

You see, now she's done some effort and thus created some wiggle room on her " mental bank account" she has in YOUR heart. So when she "flakes once" , is tired ect ect, you as a man will tend to forgive her. Once twice 12 times. Especially if she keeps this "mental bank account " on a tight balance( i.o.w she might make 7 mistakes and do 2 things right for you ect).

This is why its ao difficult to walk away. She'll do everything do keep you hooked. Unfortunately women seldom are straight and say" hey I don't like your white1 socks in combination with your green boxer. " or whatever BS they think about.

The question is how long will Irina travel and how does it taked before Irina pulls back?
Unlikely she will. It's Tom Brady, the GOAT QB of all time and a dude who is rich
 

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A woman who is very interested in you will do ALMOST ANYTHING to spend time with and see you. Read the quote again and again until it sinks in.

"Irina doesn't mind traveling to see him. She is very excited about the relationship."

Stop accepting scraps from the table from disinterested women and focus on finding a woman who acts like THIS around you.

If a woman flakes on you, makes it seem like you have to jump through hoops to see her, gives you "maybe" as an answer when asking if she is free, etc, it's because SHE ISNT THAT INTERESTED!

Agree with this but with a caveat. A woman will only act like this around you if a) she is ugly and desperate or b) you are a high value male. In other words, if you're an average dude, you will never have a supermodel acting like this around you.
 

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In other words, if you're an average dude, you will never have a supermodel acting like this around you.
Average to slightly above average men will find it difficult to find average to slightly above average women who will demonstrate this level of interest.
 

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Unlikely she will. It's Tom Brady, the GOAT QB of all time and a dude who is rich
Oke its Tom Brady.

Still i agree because a man doesn't have to be tom Brady to make a woman do this. To keep her doing this is another thing.

But , if Tom teached us anything its that even his fame wasn't enough to keep a woman.

A Woman ALWAYS gets bored. Why dont we fecking dive deep and disgust that shyte in depth?

If all men would fully comprehend this, less men will do crazy shyte loke living together, wve ltrs with tons of trust.

WOMEN GET BORED. We dont. WE are cool with hb6,5 who "travels for us" for years. She isn't satisfied with a hb7,5 when another hb7 (less smv) gives her a little bit of attention .
 

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That is 90% true BUT NOT ALWAYS. A girl that friendzoned me hard ALWAYS wanted to hangout after. She’d never cancel plans or flake or if she did she’d make it up to you. She kept in constant contact and was always making plans to do stuff. She wasn’t the least bit interested in dating me either.
 

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Oke its Tom Brady.

Still i agree because a man doesn't have to be tom Brady to make a woman do this. To keep her doing this is another thing.

But , if Tom teached us anything its that even his fame wasn't enough to keep a woman.

A Woman ALWAYS gets bored. Why dont we fecking dive deep and disgust that shyte in depth?

If all men would fully comprehend this, less men will do crazy shyte loke living together, wve ltrs with tons of trust.

WOMEN GET BORED. We dont. WE are cool with hb6,5 who "travels for us" for years. She isn't satisfied with a hb7,5 when another hb7 (less smv) gives her a little bit of attention .
That's exactly the problem. Men become comfortable, gain 50 lbs, stop taking care of themselves and stop being the fun, exciting guy she dated and fell in love with and start being the guy that sits on the couch all day, drinks beer and plays video games.

Relationships take work. There isn't an easy button. If you want that, it doesn't exist so stop looking for one.

Most men don't do any work on the relationship after a certain point and that's when the slow decline starts and picks up speed once the woman stops putting the work in after a point where she gets tired of dragging the guy along in it.

Like it or not that's the truth.
 

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I have been saying that for years, which is it bothers me to constantly hear guys here being p**sy whipped.

Only invest in women that invest back in you. Pursue women that see your worth and value your resources.

The caveat of that is you have to solidify your masculinity, your worth, your resources, etc first. That is at the core the issue of why men put up with the wrong people in the first place.
 

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Average to slightly above average men will find it difficult to find average to slightly above average women who will demonstrate this level of interest.
I can count on one hand and have fingers left over how many times I’ve experienced this level of interest so you’re absolutely right.
 

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They also so need to read a bunch of other great books 10-20 times
I mean, you can buy a womam the world, just the fact she gives you p00sy will tell her she done plenty for you.

Imo you can read it a billion million times, and create another weakness where a woman makes use from. Because as I said, you'll let your guard down and trust her. Yet its means nothing to HER, merely to you as a man its meaningfull.

As long as SHE benefits somehow somewat, she'll be there. Not for you but for herself.
 

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That's exactly the problem. Men become comfortable, gain 50 lbs, stop taking care of themselves and stop being the fun, exciting guy she dated and fell in love with and start being the guy that sits on the couch all day, drinks beer and plays video games.

Relationships take work. There isn't an easy button. If you want that, it doesn't exist so stop looking for one.

Most men don't do any work on the relationship after a certain point and that's when the slow decline starts and picks up speed once the woman stops putting the work in after a point where she gets tired of dragging the guy along in it.

Like it or not that's the truth.
You have to get to the relationship first lol a lot of men get dumped before it goes anywhere close to that level.
 

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You have to get to the relationship first lol a lot of men get dumped before it goes anywhere close to that level.
If a man is being constantly dumped after 3 or 4 months that says a lot about him and most of it isn't good so he has a lot of work to do.
 

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A woman who is very interested in you will do ALMOST ANYTHING to spend time with and see you. Read the quote again and again until it sinks in.
100%. Too bad you illustrated this with a single mom. :rolleyes:
WOMEN GET BORED. We dont.
I disagree. Men are more visual and don't need to be in love/develop an emotional connection to have satisfactory sex and reach orgasm, so I'd say it's clearly the men who get bored. That's why for a relationship to last a woman needs more than just being 'hot'.
 

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If a man is being constantly dumped after 3 or 4 months that says a lot about him and most of it isn't good so he has a lot of work to do.
I had a string where I was getting dumped after a month. Constantly. Turns out it wasn’t me, it was the women because I ended up meeting someone who made it super easy and I was still the same person. That lasted for over a year. It’s not always the man but I agree to never stop improving on yourself. Too bad women don’t heed the same advice. Most women out there have no business dating at all.
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I had a string where I was getting dumped after a month. Constantly. Turns out it wasn’t me, it was the women because I ended up meeting someone who made it super easy and I was still the same person. That lasted for over a year. It’s not always the man but I agree to never stop improving on yourself. Too bad women don’t heed the same advice. Most women out there have no business dating at all.
That doesn't necessarily mean it wasn't you, perhaps you just met someone who was willing to overlook things the other women weren't.

I'm never a big believer in blaming anyone else for issues you are dealing with in your life because it starts to become a slippery slope where eventually a person has no responsibility for anything because it's always someone else's fault.
 

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If a man is being constantly dumped after 3 or 4 months that says a lot about him and most of it isn't good so he has a lot of work to do.
I agree with this.

You are either within the top 20 of men or you belong to the other 80. Eventually it comes down what she believes you are.

Thats why I keep saying its important to learn the motive behind her pursuing you.

You wanna read her at the first interactions already.
 

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If a man is being constantly dumped after 3 or 4 months that says a lot about him and most of it isn't good so he has a lot of work to do.
There's that saying, men do the picking but women do the choosing.
So if the guy gets dumped after 3-4 months and they had sex, it says a lot about her too. If they didn't, then yeah, most probably it's him that's the problem.
 

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Do men not know this?

If a women doesn't make it extremely easy to date her, next her immediately.
 

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