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This might be a really stupid post, but i just want other experiences and perspectives...

Does anyone have experience talking with religious, conservative non-western women? I am communicating with one right now but we wont be able to meet for a while, living in different countries. I feel somewhat puzzled of how to talk to her, since my experience is almost only with western women. And that is to get to sex ASAP so they dont get bored and move on to the next d1ck, with very little communication of actual substance. So i suppose my question is, can you actually talk about real subjects and non-dopamine, non-sexual stuff or will these women get bored too in your experience?
 
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And that is to get to sex ASAP so they dont get bored and move on to the next d1ck, with very little communication of actual substance
How do you even know one would get bored of you without this happening quickly? My wife and I waited five months until doing it. She obviously did not get bored of me.
 

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How do you even know one would get bored of you without this happening quickly? My wife and I waited five months until doing it. She obviously did not get bored of me.
With the advancement of years I found that many people under, say, 30 years old have the attention span of a gnat.

They don't read novels (except for the popular ones that can be discussed at the water cooler) and are generally more impatient and easily distracted.

And because they are no longer used to extended conversations, they need their info in tidbits. You have to break text up or the sheer block of writing makes them blank out.

And many, many of them are bored or get bored easily. Most people born before or at the beginning of the Internet Age rarely get bored.
 

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With the advancement of years I found that many people under, say, 30 years old have the attention span of a gnat.

They don't read novels (except for the popular ones that can be discussed at the water cooler) and are generally more impatient and easily distracted.

And because they are no longer used to extended conversations, they need their info in tidbits. You have to break text up or the sheer block of writing makes them blank out.

And many, many of them are bored or get bored easily. Most people born before or at the beginning of the Internet Age rarely get bored.
This is true, but if most young women are like that, and I were to be a single guy in the current day, I’d avoid those like that, even if they’re common.

I’m not a court jester or entertainer.
 

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Focus on girls who live closer for now.
 

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I forgot to ask, if you want to do this, why not find a woman who lives in your own city, not in another country?
Im not after sex ASAP so it's fine with me, and the kind of woman im interested in doesnt exist where i am.

How do you even know one would get bored of you without this happening quickly? My wife and I waited five months until doing it. She obviously did not get bored of me.
Indeed, i dont know either way. Which is why im asking for other experiences and perspectives ;)

Focus on girls who live closer for now.
I wouldve liked to, but i want someone from my own people and they dont exist where i am, and im not really interested in making an effort to have casual sex.
 

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This is true, but if most young women are like that, and I were to be a single guy in the current day, I’d avoid those like that, even if they’re common.
Women tend to adjust more easily and are less impatient than male students in my workshops. And my younger lovers adore that I have them leave their phones in the hallway - part of the reason they are with me is because of the calm atmosphere of my lair.

I’m not a court jester or entertainer.
I leave the entertaining to my lovers. I like them to dance for me. Or reading to me to train their voices. (most of them are models or creative artists).
 

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So i suppose my question is, can you actually talk about real subjects and non-dopamine, non-sexual stuff or will these women get bored too in your experience?
Just a be a bit more low key. Talk about normal things, but normal things that sort of low key demonstrate your status and ambition.

Use the regular tactics, scarcity, don't talk too long, don't be needy, create mystery, don't text too much, etc. That stuff works on everybody.
 

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So i suppose my question is, can you actually talk about real subjects and non-dopamine, non-sexual stuff or will these women get bored too in your experience?
I'm a novelist and I do a sh1tload of research, so I have tons of topics that I can discuss at the drop of a hat. Women use conversations in two (non-exclusive) ways: to manipulate others and to get information. Women are interested in our darker natures. I write suspense fiction novels about a female assassin and most of my fanmail and reviews are from women (so I suspect my readership is 75% female).
If you want to emote a woman, talk about dangerous topics like crime or interesting topics like psychology and social engineering. You can turn it in an 'us' activity by applying psychology together.

Example:
"I read an article some time ago where they switched the captions under two newspaper photos of a Police Detective and a Serial Killer and nobody suspected the switch until police officers who know the detective alerted him and the newspaper had to issue a rectification. I guess it's difficult to see on the outside if someone is a dangerous criminal."
Look furtively around the restaurant. "Who knows? Any of these people might be a criminal. Which one would you choose?"

I'm sure if you are interesting enough, you will be able to find topics to discuss.
 

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Women tend to adjust more easily and are less impatient than male students in my workshops. And my younger lovers adore that I have them leave their phones in the hallway - part of the reason they are with me is because of the calm atmosphere of my lair.
Your game plan is to take advantage of your students like a predator?

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I leave the entertaining to my lovers. I like them to dance for me. Or reading to me to train their voices. (most of them are models or creative artists).
The male or female students or both?
 

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Your game plan is to take advantage of your students like a predator?
The male or female students or both?
You seriously think I'm going to discuss anything with you ever again? Hahahahahahaha.
 
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