Someone explain to me why Incels are so heavily involved in discussions about game/dating/sex.

[corrector]

1/3 swims catastrophically high. For some reason. Unlike back, say 10-15 years agp. None of my male friends or coworkers talk about sex. Not even innocent stuff like ‘she’s hot’. I still do. But I’m really the odd man out.

How do your coworkers feel about you getting all of the action at work?

 

[Hamurabimbi]

How do your coworkers feel about you getting all of the action at work?

I wouldn’t say I get ‘AlL of the action at work’. But I understand your question.

I think most of my coworkers are surprised that work sex happens at all. Or that their female coworkers have, on the job, said things to me like: ‘I want to take you home. Tie you up & spank you.’. Or. ‘Hi daddy. Can I sit on your lap.’. Etc…. Most are shocked: ‘ Really. someone here said that to you?!’.

Likewise the sex. For example. I told a coworker I got road head from a coworker in a company vehicle. Or some similar work sex activity. It was simply unbelievable that this could happen at work. Some of the older guys, who know work sex happens, get a bit jealous or they’re high-fiving me.

Needless to say. I’m pretty much circumspect about this stuff. But. As this has happened at pretty much every job I’ve had, over the past few decades. I’m pretty good at keeping the details to a minimum.

It may be a generational thing. The younger guys were brought up with Femanism, #me2 and mandatory corporate sexual harassment training.

 

[corrector]

I wouldn’t say I get ‘AlL of the action at work’. But I understand your question.

I think most of my coworkers are surprised that work sex happens at all. Or that their female coworkers have, on the job, said things to me like: ‘I want to take you home. Tie you up & spank you.’. Or. ‘Hi daddy. Can I sit on your lap.’. Etc…. Most are shocked: ‘ Really. someone here said that to you?!’.

Likewise the sex. For example. I told a coworker I got road head from a coworker in a company vehicle. Or some similar work sex activity. It was simply unbelievable that this could happen at work. Some of the older guys, who know work sex happens, get a bit jealous or they’re high-fiving me.

Needless to say. I’m pretty much circumspect about this stuff. But. As this has happened at pretty much every job I’ve had, over the past few decades. I’m pretty good at keeping the details to a minimum.

It may be a generational thing. The younger guys were brought up with Femanism, #me2 and mandatory corporate sexual harassment training.

The other coworkers are incels? They must feel bad that most of the female attention at work is directed at you while they are invisible and just drooling. Its not generational. You are the chick magnet.

What makes you different from the other guys? I know some guys have this wierd bubble that women just open their legs or mouth (not sure about anal) easy with.

 

[MatureDJ]

It's like most of these dudes are convinced that something about themselves they cannot change will forever stop them from getting laid and doing well with women. Most have even accepted their fate. So it is confirmed that these guys admit they will never be able to get attractive women or do well in the game. Fine, we get it.

Here is where I get lost.

Why not just move on?

Like dude, you suck with women, why not just move on from game/dating/sex entirely and go do something else that is productive with your life? Like why not just become a videogame addict FFS? Why not take up farming or gardening or a useful life skill? Why continue to talk about game, dating, and sex when you know you will never have it?

Why not just move on from it all entirely and go dedicate your life to something unrelated to it?

And do not give me that BS that every man DESERVES a woman, that is nonsense. As a man, you do not deserve $hit.

You are not entitled to love or intimacy from a woman if you do not bring what she wants (whatever that may be based on the times we are in) to the table.

So why not just give up entirely and dedicate your life to something else?

Why not just butt out of all of these discussions and all of these things centering around game, sex, and dating and just go focus on something else entirely?

Because they are angry that it's OVER for them. In case you haven't noticed, sexuality is a very major part of the human condition. And unless they "rope" instead of just "cope", they do have other interests; just because they post to the incels.is forum or make YouTube videos doesn't mean that that is the only thing they do outside of the lowest rungs of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. I am sure a lot of them play video games, etc. But evolution has made it such that men are always looking for sex, and so it's something that can be turned off by only the most dedicated (e.g., stoics, monks, etc.).

Just like someone learning "Game", they seek a sexuality meme that gets them poon - a common meme with them is enforced monogamy, and indeed, their male ancestors had succeeded when the monogamy meme was the social norm. They do think that societies that equitably distribute poon are vibrant, and conversely don't care to support a society in which poon is not available to all (or at least all that do the things that society tells them do like get a job, etc.). They feel themselves to be dispossessed, which is a powerful, destructive emotion, and they don't feel like focusing on anything, and if they did focus, it would be as an agent of chaos.

 

[MatureDJ]

You got shadowbanned on dating apps and have recently tried unsuccesfully on Seeking Arrangements (ie which you've given up on game if you went there as going pay4play is "giving up") and now you are making up this post. You are seriously hemmoraging rep points.

You replied to my post about other posters kicking you further when you are down and now you make a thread trying to do the same thing.

It's OVER for ShadowBannedCels.

 

[MatureDJ]

I'm an incel 35, but not looking for sex. I'm looking for conversations with women, particularly free conversations with women.

I'm also an employment-cel, meaning all the jobs I had are minimum wage or part-time.

So, on these forums, I do research on White people. How do White couples 1st meet, did he pursue her or did she pursue him, do women ever ask guys out, or ask guys for their #, or give guys their # without the guy asking, etc. When shirtless men are jogging and pass women, do women turn around to look back, etc.

So, no women in my life, and no Republicans in my life, how does 1 get into their friend-zone.

Technically an employment-cel is a NEETCel (Not in Employment, Education, or Training).

Are you asking how to FriendZoneMax as a way to get poon? The proper term for this is SocialCircleMaxxing, and it's quite hard to force oneself into a good one.

This is a guy that has tried SocialCircleMaxxing.

 

[DreamAgain]

Social circle is a great way to get introduced to people not in your immediate social circle. You don't generally want to date in your immediate social circle, things get very awkward if it goes wrong, which it likely will, and now you've ruined your social circle.

 

[SW15]

Social circle is a great way to get introduced to people not in your immediate social circle. You don't generally want to date in your immediate social circle, things get very awkward if it goes wrong, which it likely will, and now you've ruined your social circle.

Social circle introductions are the best option for a normie range guy. Most men are normie range.

There are many men out there that don't have a social circle capable of producing introductions. My social circle has been like that for a long time, which is why I have had to rely on other methods. Over the years, I've approached strangers and used tech-based methods. When comparing tech-based to approaching strangers in real life, the latter option (real life approaching) is often the better option. However, it can feel like making the least bad choice of 2 bad choices. Approaching strangers in real life is an unpleasant experience to some degree.

A lot of men who receive social circle introductions end up staying in the social circle formed LTR for too long. There are a number of reasons for this. Most men are beta males and beta males tend to operate with a scarcity mindset. This is why many betas who had the good fortune to receive a social circle introduction stay in that relationship too long.

For men with social circles, the problem with the social circle method eventually becomes sustainability as social circles get pissed at men who continually exchange girlfriends, even if the relationships are semi-long (1-4 years). The behavior described in the last sentence is serial monogamy, so it is accurate to say that social circles get pissed off at serial monogamists. It is important to remember that social circles generally have a blue pill viewpoint on romantic relationships. A man might be able to pull 2 LTRs from a social circle without marrying one. After 2 instances, he will have typically bled the social circle dry. This is known as "poisoning the well".

 

[CornbreadFed]

Social circle introductions are the best option for a normie range guy. Most men are normie range.

There are many men out there that don't have a social circle capable of producing introductions. My social circle has been like that for a long time, which is why I have had to rely on other methods. Over the years, I've approached strangers and used tech-based methods. When comparing tech-based to approaching strangers in real life, the latter option (real life approaching) is often the better option. However, it can feel like making the least bad choice of 2 bad choices. Approaching strangers in real life is an unpleasant experience to some degree.

A lot of men who receive social circle introductions end up staying in the social circle formed LTR for too long. There are a number of reasons for this. Most men are beta males and beta males tend to operate with a scarcity mindset. This is why many betas who had the good fortune to receive a social circle introduction stay in that relationship too long.

For men with social circles, the problem with the social circle method eventually becomes sustainability as social circles get pissed at men who continually exchange girlfriends, even if the relationships are semi-long (1-4 years). The behavior described in the last sentence is serial monogamy, so it is accurate to say that social circles get pissed off at serial monogamists. It is important to remember that social circles generally have a blue pill viewpoint on romantic relationships. A man might be able to pull 2 LTRs from a social circle without marrying one. After 2 instances, he will have typically bled the social circle dry. This is known as "poisoning the well".

They can still fail at social circles. I know plenty of normie guys in social circles that are just end up being the butt end of jokes and people will only refer them to low tier women. Lack of game/self-awareness is going to plague wherever you go.

 

[corrector]

They can still fail at social circles. I know plenty of normie guys in social circles that are just end up being the butt end of jokes and people will only refer them to low tier women. Lack of game/self-awareness is going to plague wherever you go.

Yeah, real beta blue pill boomer advice. Besides the fact they are mainly sausage fests that scare women away and the few that do show up are usually taken (if they are attractive).

 

[CornbreadFed]

Yeah, real beta blue pill boomer advice. Besides the fact they are mainly sausage fests that scare women away and the few that do show up are usually taken (if they are attractive).

I know plenty of guys that act 100% more confident or themselves when around their friends vs the complete opposite when taken outside their circle. It is possible that this is a major factor in them getting a girl in a social circle. Just because you have a penis doesn't mean you social circle is going to serve you pvssy on a platter. You don't even have to be goofy either, if the alpha of the circle fundamentally disagrees with you then he will cvck block you from pvssy as well.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

The other coworkers are incels? They must feel bad that most of the female attention at work is directed at you while they are invisible and just drooling. Its not generational. You are the chick magnet.

What makes you different from the other guys? I know some guys have this wierd bubble that women just open their legs or mouth (not sure about anal) easy with.

No. Most if my coworkers are not incels.
maybe 2% are. There are other guys st work who het play as well. I

 

[corrector]

No. Most if my coworkers are not incels.
maybe 2% are. There are other guys st work who het play as well. I

Okay, then I guess is generational then like you said earlier.

 

[corrector]

if the alpha of the circle fundamentally disagrees with you then he will cvck block you from pvssy as well.

If the alpha of the circle is some chad/chadlite guy and you are average/below average then you'll be invisible to the women there as they will only notice him socially, whether he agrees with you or not. How many people on here have even meet anyone through their social circle? People like @SW15 has never met anyone that went anywhere using a social circle, but he likes to advise it all the time. It's one of the worst ways to meet anyone.

 

[CornbreadFed]

If the alpha of the circle is some chad/chadlite guy and you are average/below average then you'll be invisible to the women there as they will only notice him socially, whether he agrees with you or not. How many people on here have even meet anyone through their social circle? People like @SW15 has never met anyone that went anywhere using a social circle, but he likes to advise it all the time. It's one of the worst ways to meet anyone.

I have been offered the chances to meet women through social circle, but most didn't meet my standards or they lost interest in me. The only good one I got, I did end up losing my virginity to her and her sister.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

Okay, then I guess is generational then like you said earlier.

I would say there is s small minority of men at work who have the opportunity for work sex. Some of the younger guys. Who might have the opportunity have preemptivly pulled themselves out. Probably d/t #me2, Femminism etc. The older guys, when presented with the opportunity, are less skittish. And, as work sex has been available, consequence free for decades, it is nothing unusual for me.

 

[Hamurabimbi]

What makes you different from the other guys? I know some guys have this wierd bubble that women just open their legs or mouth (not sure about anal) easy with.

Maybe two things. Being attractive. And. more importantly. As I’ve mentioned elsewhere. I’ve been told I look like a ‘pervy pornstar’. Another girl told me: ‘You look like you fvck a lot’. I think my Dad said it best. I showed him my Tinder photo. He laughed and said. ‘You look like you’re telling girls “Get over here on your knees. bvtch!”’.

 

[zekko]

It's like most of these dudes are convinced that something about themselves they cannot change will forever stop them from getting laid and doing well with women. Most have even accepted their fate. So it is confirmed that these guys admit they will never be able to get attractive women or do well in the game. Fine, we get it.

Here is where I get lost.

Why not just move on?

Because they're preoccupied with it.

 

[corrector]

I would say there is s small minority of men at work who have the opportunity for work sex. Some of the younger guys. Who might have the opportunity have preemptivly pulled themselves out. Probably d/t #me2, Femminism etc. The older guys, when presented with the opportunity, are less skittish. And, as work sex has been available, consequence free for decades, it is nothing unusual for me.

What about the women? Is there like an office slvt or some real conquests? I know that @eli77 had mentioned that he had the opportunity for office sex with a lady that slept with almost everyone in his office except him but he passed. Or are most women actually like that? What are the races of women who do this?

The way you are phrasing it, it sounds like some office slvts that are presenting guys with opportunity.

 

[corrector]

Maybe two things. Being attractive. And. more importantly. As I’ve mentioned elsewhere. I’ve been told I look like a ‘pervy pornstar’. Another girl told me: ‘You look like you fvck a lot’. I think my Dad said it best. I showed him my Tinder photo. He laughed and said. ‘You look like you’re telling girls “Get over here on your knees. bvtch!”’.

Why do you keep saying that you are not a chad then? Is it just because your height is less than 6 feet?