Adjusting From Hot Chicks To Average Chicks!

[soulforge]

Experienced DJs, ever gone from an absolute hottie in an LTR to temporarily dealing with average girls after her?

I don't expect to be dealing with average girls permanently, as I'm pretty sure another attractive one will come along at some point down the line, however I still need to get my dik wet from time to time lol.

How did you deal with this type of adjustment?

Did you simply refuse to lower your standards and go without sex for a long period of time, or did you have to smash some less desirable ones, till another attractive one came along.

I just registered on some online dating few days ago, and godamn 95% of those chicks are old as hell or fukin obese. It's damn depressing to the point where I rather go monk mode.

 

[I_have_BDE]

Experienced DJs, ever gone from an absolute hottie in an LTR to temporarily dealing with average girls after her?

I don't expect to be dealing with average girls permanently, as I'm pretty sure another attractive one will come along at some point down the line, however I still need to get my dik wet from time to time lol.

How did you deal with this type of adjustment?

Did you simply refuse to lower your standards and go without sex for a long period of time, or did you have to smash some less desirable ones, till another attractive one came along.

I just registered on some online dating few days ago, and godamn 95% of those chicks are old as hell or fukin obese. It's damn depressing to the point where I rather go monk mode.

Not quite that bad in the states on OLD. I'd say 10 percent of the OLD chicks are cute, that's it. Not all obese but other factors like tats, peircings on the skinny ones disqualify them. Why do you think since Covid quality has gone way down on OLD? I'm see a lot of forum users saying since covid has been over that the quality is trash on OLD. Before Covid OLD was NOT how you described it. Much more "ok" women were using it.

 

[soulforge]

Not quite that bad in the states on OLD. I'd say 10 percent of the OLD chicks are cute, that's it. Not all obese but other factors like tats, peircings on the skinny ones disqualify them. Why do you think since Covid quality has gone way down on OLD? I'm see a lot of forum users saying since covid has been over that the quality is trash on OLD. Before Covid OLD was NOT how you described it. Much more "ok" women were using it.

In the UK it's pretty damn depressing. I mean the chicks in the UK are pretty damn average in the first place, and since the body positivity movement encourages girls to embrace their obesity, these girls are getting fatter by the minute.

It could be since COVID, girls are getting out and about more, instead of depending on apps to meet guys.

 

[member160292]

OP got lucky with his oneitus and now back on the playing field. Spin plates and don’t let it affect you bro

 

[Bokanovsky]

Better to have a dry spell than lower your standards, IMO.

 

[The Duke]

Better to be disciplined and go without.

It's still the same bull schitt with lower return on investment. If I'm going to wait tables, you can bet it won't be a chain, it will be a nice steak restaurant.

Your next girl needs to be good looking and have a good brain.

 

[soulforge]

Better to be disciplined and go without.

It's still the same bull schitt with lower return on investment. If I'm going to wait tables, you can bet it won't be a chain, it will be a nice steak restaurant.

Your next girl needs to be good looking and have a good brain.

This is also a golden opportunity to focus on other things, fitness, money, etc instead of putting that energy into less than desirable girls.

 

[Murk]

In my experience, it can work but your eye will always wander, you will always be looking out for the hotties.

I've realised it's not very fair to string along average girls and waste their time. I do believe you can fall for an average chick who ticks all the other boxes and you can grow to love her and be happy.

 

[soulforge]

In my experience, it can work but your eye will always wander, you will always be looking out for the hotties.

I've realised it's not very fair to string along average girls and waste their time. I do believe you can fall for an average chick who ticks all the other boxes and you can grow to love her and be happy.

I have done this before. Settled for an average girl. Had a great relationship, no drama, sweet and loving.... However... The eyes began wandering and didn't think long term I would be happy with a below average sex life.

I actually don't mind staying single and smashing different girls over a long period of time.

 

[MatureDJ]

My recommendation is to EscortCelMax until you get another attractive chick.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I wrapped things up with an solid 8 .5 back in January , went on a couple of dates with some very sub par options but shut them all down after the first date as I knew I was selling myself short

Literally went 5 months without sex , then bagged a 7.5 on a random night out during may who became a bit of a fvck buddy

not as hot as the girl from last year but no man on a dry spell would be turning down emptying his balls in her

that has kept me going

I don't really see myself wanting to adjust to lower quality women again

Your only young once and will only have access to beautiful sexy pu$$y once go for the best you can possibly get

too many men just take anything they can get and later hate themselves for it

 

[soulforge]

I wrapped things up with an solid 8 .5 back in January , went on a couple of dates with some very sub par options but shut them all down after the first date as I knew I was selling myself short

Literally went 5 months without sex , then bagged a 7.5 on a random night out during may who became a bit of a fvck buddy

not as hot as the girl from last year but no man on a dry spell would be turning down emptying his balls in her

that has kept me going

I don't really see myself wanting to adjust to lower quality women again

Your only young once and will only have access to beautiful sexy pu$$y once go for the best you can possibly get

too many men just take anything they can get and later hate themselves for it

Yeh I mean I'm kinda at a place right now where I don't mind holding off sex, as I have quite a few other things going on, work/fitness/property wise.

If a hottie came along, sure I would hit it, but definitely not going out of my way to smash unattractive chicks.

 

[Gamisch]

Experienced DJs, ever gone from an absolute hottie in an LTR to temporarily dealing with average girls after her?

I don't expect to be dealing with average girls permanently, as I'm pretty sure another attractive one will come along at some point down the line, however I still need to get my dik wet from time to time lol.

How did you deal with this type of adjustment?

Did you simply refuse to lower your standards and go without sex for a long period of time, or did you have to smash some less desirable ones, till another attractive one came along.

I just registered on some online dating few days ago, and godamn 95% of those chicks are old as hell or fukin obese. It's damn depressing to the point where I rather go monk mode.

Well hottie = LTR and average = no strings attached. To put it blandly and in simple terms.

One rule( I picked somewhere ,if it's from here credit to the original poster!) is that you should ALSO be hypergamous as a man, and ALWAYS strive to get an upgrade from your previous woman. At very, very,least a somewhat equal one.

I have done this before. Settled for an average girl. Had a great relationship, no drama, sweet and loving.... However... The eyes began wandering and didn't think long term I would be happy with a below average sex life.

I actually don't mind staying single and smashing different girls over a long period of time.

You wouldn't be the first man to have a average looking woman at home, while fecking a dimepiece left and right.

Yes ,dark traits..

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

As has been said repeatedly it is a hard pill to swallow. I let go of a smoking hot plate earlier this year, she would put most any woman to shame if she walked into a room done up. She wasn’t the best lover I’ve had, but her physical beauty and ridiculously hot body made every stroke sheer heaven nonetheless.

I did continue to see my harem 7.5-8.25’s even while seeing her but she garnered most of my time. She validated the living hell out of me.

Then a women easily as beautiful in a different way came into my life 3 months later and still is my main plate. She is a head turner too but in a different way. One was 3/4 Irish and 1/4 Asian the other is full blooded Italian, sex is also better with the latter.

It truly is amazing the way beauty can mold our reactions to women and what we are willing to do for it. But just because I lost a near 9 doesn’t mean I’m not banging women a little less perfect.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I don't really see the difficulty in getting a 7 - 8.5 anyway they are literally everywhere these days

If anything I think there's probably an over supply of 7's and 8's within the marketplace , I think social media has raised the bar on female aesthetics and a lot of 6's have done everything they possibly can to get into them 7 & 8 brackets

Sometimes you have to wait a couple of months and be patient but eventually a baddie will come along and hop on your d1ck

I went through a phase in 2021 after a breakup of smashing a few 5's and 6's and even a 4

It's not something I would ever put myself through again

 

[soulforge]

So smashed a couple of 6s over the last two weeks.

It felt good for about an hour, then as I kinda expected, that feeling of self disgust came over me lol

Man 9 months of fvking a hot 24 year old blonde.. I think I best go monk mode to till I land a hottie that I actually fancy.

 

[SW15]

It's a tough adjustment to do. Your brain and penis are accustomed to getting turned on by a woman who is an 8+, so it's tougher to go back down to around the 5-6 range after that.

 

[soulforge]

It's a tough adjustment to do. Your brain and penis are accustomed to getting turned on by a woman who is an 8+, so it's tougher to go back down to around the 5-6 range after that.

Yeh honestly it's abit of a mind fuk... Worst thing is, it makes you miss your ex more.. And I don't like that feeling.

 

[DreamAgain]

It's a tough adjustment to do. Your brain and penis are accustomed to getting turned on by a woman who is an 8+, so it's tougher to go back down to around the 5-6 range after that.

This is the same problem with girls getting pumped and dumped by chad. They from then on only want that 8+ guy, and won't settle for average guys anymore.

 

[soulforge]

This is the same problem with girls getting pumped and dumped by chad. They from then on only want that 8+ guy, and won't settle for average guys anymore.

Yeh that's why you see them permanently on dating apps