Where are these lonely single men at?

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I have seen some hotties at my gym that look like they would likely post sexy pics on Instagram or OnlyFans. My gym is more on par with an LA Fitness.

What do you define is a boss babe? The attractive women with more corporate type jobs? A lot of those women are married.

I would imagine Equinox to be mainly married women, slightly older (30s/40s minimum).
I define a boss babe a female that desires to make money/status hustle BS, but will also use her thottiness to attract attention, but not as bad as a only fans/stripper. They tend to either be on social media platforms, youtube, healthcare, or corporate type power jobs.

These girls are good examples:

Pokimane - YouTube

(5) Vanessa Lau - YouTube
 

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I define a boss babe a female that desires to make money/status hustle BS, but will also use her thottiness to attract attention, but not as bad as a only fans/stripper. They tend to either be on social media platforms, youtube, healthcare, or corporate type power jobs.

These girls are good examples:

Pokimane - YouTube

(5) Vanessa Lau - YouTube
Shay Rowbottom (her biggest social network is LinkedIn) would be an example of a "boss babe".


She was even mentioned on a SoSuave forum post 2 years ago.


Healthcare sales reps (both pharma and medical device) tend to be attractive women. Those companies look to hire attractive women, even 30s/40s attractive women, for those roles.
 

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Shay Rowbottom (her biggest social network is LinkedIn) would be an example of that.


She was even mentioned on a SoSuave forum post 2 years ago.
Yes she is definitely a boss babe. I know one personally that has a youtube channel and she has a showoff toy boyfriend. These girls are looking for men to be their slaves and make them look better to the public.
 

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Yes she is definitely a boss babe. I know one personally that has a youtube channel and she has a showoff toy boyfriend. These girls are looking for men to be their slaves and make them look better to the public.
My gym has more Instagram thots and possible OnlyFans girls than "boss babes", though the "boss babes" that would go to my gym would be lower profile ones. There are women at my gym who have decent corporate jobs.

My gym has a surplus of men in the free weights/barbells area. The cardio areas and fitness classes have more women than men.
 

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A lot of the single, lonely men take themselves out of the game. You won't see them in the places that are frequented by women (with the intention of meeting men). It is overwhelmingly painful for them to stand around and watch, feeling that they are left out.

The really severe cases will often lead a very humdrum existence.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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A lot of the single, lonely men take themselves out of the game. You won't see them in the places that are frequented by women (with the intention of meeting men). It is overwhelmingly painful for them to stand around and watch, feeling that they are left out.

The really severe cases will often lead a very humdrum existence.
MGTOW is growing. However, MGTOW is crap. If a man goes MGTOW, it is only because he has endured constant rejection from women. Women don't care when men go MGTOW. These men going MGTOW were already invisible and irrelevant to them.

A life without women and sex is not a pleasant life.
 

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Most guys I see outside in public are in relationships and whenever I go out to drink in the younger crowd bar areas, there's a lot of single women. I have been hearing about this lonely single man epidemic, but I am not seeing it at all.
Despite all the hype, the number of single men and women is roughly identical. You don't need a PhD in mathematics to understand why. The difference is that women appear to be more content with remaining single for an extended period of time than men. In the past, it was the opposite.
 

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Which such venues are these? I'm not currently aware of any such places where women show up with the intention of meeting men. (As a counterexample, where I've been, nightlife is for getting drunk with one's existing circles, not for meeting a new person.)
Do you really feel that the enormous time women spend on putting themselves together (hair, makeup, right outfit etc) is for a different reason other than attracting men/getting attention from them?

Women are always "on". We often joke about how women will fix themselves up just to go to drugstore to buy chapstick or something. They do this in the event they come across a worthy guy.

If you ask them directly sure they will say it's not the case, they supposedly dress up for other women or some other reason. They've been putting one over guys with that one for a long time. Nothing more than a manipulation tactic to look strong and secure, as if they don't need attention or validation.


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Long and short of it is you can meet women anywhere. Some places of course will appear more acceptable (nightclub).
 
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Despite all the hype, the number of single men and women is roughly identical. You don't need a PhD in mathematics to understand why. The difference is that women appear to be more content with remaining single for an extended period of time than men. In the past, it was the opposite.
Why So Many Young Men Are Single and Sexless

 

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This is like going to a brothel and asking where are all the men who can't get laid because everybody appears to be doing pretty well. I would imagine most lonely single men don't even bother to leave the house most of the time and have given up completely. They aren't out living it up with the hip crowd at the local brewery.
 

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Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Most guys I see outside in public are in relationships and whenever I go out to drink in the younger crowd bar areas, there's a lot of single women. I have been hearing about this lonely single man epidemic, but I am not seeing it at all.
Where are you?
 

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After I end my relationship, I developed the habit of going to pubs or quieter bars on weekdays. I like it, it's comfortable, and there are usually women there alone.
The thing about a pub is that even if it is failed evening in picking up a chick, it is still something that is not at all painful, and can be interesting in its own right just shooting the sheet with other blokes. Who the h3ll can say that about a loud nightclub?
 

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This is like going to a brothel and asking where are all the men who can't get laid because everybody appears to be doing pretty well. I would imagine most lonely single men don't even bother to leave the house most of the time and have given up completely. They aren't out living it up with the hip crowd at the local brewery.
It's OVER for GivenUpCompletelyCels.
 

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It all depends on the venue. Country dance bars, karaoke bars, and upscale lounges will almost always have slightly more women.
I must admit that during the Country renaissance era of the early '90s, I had a few chicks pick up on me at the local honky tonk. o_O Maybe my boots gave me an extra inch or two. :rolleyes:
 

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What kind of a woman goes to a quiet pub alone on a weekday? The only kind that I can envision doing this is a middle-aged alcoholic.
At least here in Brazil, usually, divorced MILFs who are starving for d!cks.
 

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Long and short of it is you can meet women anywhere. Some places of course will appear more acceptable (nightclub).
You can technically "meet" them anywhere yes, the probability of them actually wanting men to approach them, however, is another story .
 

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I define a boss babe a female that desires to make money/status hustle BS, but will also use her thottiness to attract attention, but not as bad as a only fans/stripper. They tend to either be on social media platforms, youtube, healthcare, or corporate type power jobs.

These girls are good examples:

Pokimane - YouTube
A million views for her last video? :rolleyes:
 
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