Did my first cold approach since Covid started

[CornbreadFed]

There’s this girl I’ve had my eyes on at my apartment and today I walked by her and she smiled at me so I was like why not! I said, “hey I think you are cute, what’s your Instagram?” She said okay and started talking but she had a thick Spanish accent, either South American or Spaniard cause she looked white lol. I was immediately turned off by it so I said thanks and walked away. I have zero intentions on hitting her up, but I DID IT! Are y’all not entertained!!! @We_ArE_VeNOM / @Bingo-Player

 

[corrector]

I just opened an instagram account. This post has inspired me. This could be a new way of trying to find onlyfan pages from real women in public in a discreet way (ie a link would likely be posted on their instagram if they are also on onlyfans). Keep up the approaches!

 

[Bingo-Player]

There’s this girl I’ve had my eyes on at my apartment and today I walked by her and she smiled at me so I was like why not! I said, “hey I think you are cute, what’s your Instagram?” She said okay and started talking but she had a thick Spanish accent, either South American or Spaniard cause she looked white lol. I was immediately turned off by it so I said thanks and walked away. I have zero intentions on hitting her up, but I DID IT! Are y’all not entertained!!! @We_ArE_VeNOM / @Bingo-Player

Well done , now go do some more and find girls with better accents

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

There’s this girl I’ve had my eyes on at my apartment and today I walked by her and she smiled at me so I was like why not! I said, “hey I think you are cute, what’s your Instagram?” She said okay and started talking but she had a thick Spanish accent, either South American or Spaniard cause she looked white lol. I was immediately turned off by it so I said thanks and walked away. I have zero intentions on hitting her up, but I DID IT! Are y’all not entertained!!! @We_ArE_VeNOM / @Bingo-Player

I'm actually proud of you, sir.

Now admit it...didn't it feel good?

Here is my challenge to you..

Approach at LEAST one woman per day.

Can you do that?

 

[CornbreadFed]

I'm actually proud of you, sir.

Now admit it...didn't it feel good?

Here is my challenge to you..

Approach at LEAST one woman per day.

Can you do that?

I have a GF and I am trying to stay faithful

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I have a GF and I am trying to stay faithful

 

[corrector]

I have a GF and I am trying to stay faithful

Then why are you on here?

 

[SW15]

Approach at LEAST one woman per day.

Roosh had a principle about this that he wrote about in May 2013. He believed it was wise for seducers to do at least one daily approach.

One Approach A Day

 

[Dr.Suave]

I was immediately turned off by it

Her accent turned you off? Most accents turn me on. To each his own, I guess.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Then why are you on here?

Plenty of guys in LTRs and marriages that frequent this sub. This type of advice is also underrepresented in male dating advice too.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Her accent turned you off? Most accents turn me on. To each his own, I guess.

Idk it was heavy, now that I think of it, I think it was some eastern european accent.

 

[TheEveningChronograph]

2/10. Recommend.

 

[SW15]

Plenty of guys in LTRs and marriages that frequent this sub. This type of advice is also underrepresented in male dating advice too.

I think the presence of men in LTRs and marriages enhances the forum.

 

[corrector]

Plenty of guys in LTRs and marriages that frequent this sub. This type of advice is also underrepresented in male dating advice too.

It's not just that, you said you want to remain faithful to your gf. If you want to remain faithful to your gf then you should tell her you are on this site and explain you are just trying to improve your social skills and if its okay with her then you are being honest and that's cool.
It just comes across that if you seriously start cold-approaching/OLD, that you are either looking to get more options and eventually dump her or cheat on her. Either that, or you know somewhere in your gut, there is something "off" with her and it's going to be a "constructive dump".

FYI, I was on this alias since 2009 and I can tell you that when I had that ex-gf or ex-wife, I would't touch a site like this with a ten-foot pole because sites like this usually sabotage good things. When you are really happy with someone, a place like this doesn't even enter your headspace. But to each their own.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It's not just that, you said you want to remain faithful to your gf. If you want to remain faithful to your gf then you should tell her you are on this site and explain you are just trying to improve your social skills and if its okay with her then you are being honest and that's cool.
It just comes across that if you seriously start cold-approaching/OLD, that you are either looking to get more options and eventually dump her or cheat on her. Either that, or you know somewhere in your gut, there is something "off" with her and it's going to be a "constructive dump".

FYI, I was on this alias since 2009 and I can tell you that when I had that ex-gf or ex-wife, I would't touch a site like this with a ten-foot pole because sites like this usually sabotage good things. When you are really happy with someone, a place like this doesn't even enter your headspace. But to each their own.

I have no desire to be single again. Yes, I do miss certain aspects but overall I don’t miss it all. I am not messaging that girl and I just did it just get some validation that I am still desirable. Outside that, there’s still interesting content and discussions on this site that I cannot get with my close peers and colleagues.

 

[SW15]

I have no desire to be single again. Yes, I do miss certain aspects but overall I don’t miss it all. I am not messaging that girl and I just did it just get some validation that I am still desirable. Outside that, there’s still interesting content and discussions on this site that I cannot get with my close peers and colleagues.

You'll likely be unattached again at some point in life. Most relationships don't last.

 

[Dr.Suave]

You'll likely be unattached again at some point in life. Most relationships don't last.

I guess op and me are in a similar boat. Let hope for the best and prepare for the worst.

 

[CornbreadFed]

You'll likely be unattached again at some point in life. Most relationships don't last.

still beats being hopelessly single forever lol. Now marriage is a different story because I can up and leave a relationship without the government getting involved.

 

[SW15]

still beats being hopelessly single forever lol. Now marriage is a different story because I can up and leave a relationship without the government getting involved.

Non-marital LTRs can be good things. Avoid cohabitation.

 

[corrector]

I just did it just get some validation that I am still desirable.

You have a gf and you are saying still need some validation and are still desirable? You being desirable to her the only opinion that should matter. Unless she's talking to other guys or has other guy friends and you are feel insecure and reacting to this by wanting to talk to other girls. You have an hb3 gf? What's the deal here?