‘What’s the worst that can happen if you approach, Bro?’

[Hamurabimbi]

 

[CornbreadFed]

 

[corrector]

...and you really made a post on another thread about guys like me dismissing advice and saying that they are chad/chadlites and then you post this. You are contradicting yourself.

 

[CornbreadFed]

...and you really made a post on another thread about guys like me dismissing advice and saying that they are chad/chadlites and then you post this. You are contradicting yourself.

I am pro OLD for the average man, I do not think cold approaching works for every man.

 

[corrector]

I am pro OLD for the average man, I do not think cold approaching works for every man.

Agreed that the downside is there is no impact in real life which is an acceptable risk even if the result is nill. With cold-approaches you can get worst results than nill. If you are risk averse and just use OLD during "dead-time" (ie time spend waiting in line, etc...) then it should cost nothing risk-wise.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I am pro OLD for the average man, I do not think cold approaching works for every man.

It works for every man who has the balls to do it, which you obviously don't; thus your pansy ass Online Dating thread where you are encouraging guys to be as insecure as you are.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I am pro OLD for the average man, I do not think cold approaching works for every man.

It depends whom you are approaching

Lets not forget most people greatly overestimate where they lie on the market value scale ( men especially)

If you're a 37 year old guy that is 5ft 7 and blading with a pot belly chances are that 26 year old baddie in the gym isn't going to entertain you

The 37 year old chick with 2 other mens children and a council house probably would be more than happy too

Its all relative.

 

[CornbreadFed]

It works for every man who has the balls to do it, which you obviously don't; thus your pansy ass Online Dating thread where you are encouraging guys to be as insecure as you are.

then why isn’t every man doing it? Obviously the results do not outweigh the cons.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

then why isn’t every man doing it?

Because as I said, every man doesn't have the BALLS TO DO IT.

Obviously the results do not outweigh the cons.

Let's unpack that^.

Im about to use you to help prove my point.

Let's look at this logically.

So, you are a OLD advocate, correct?

Question: have you ever smashed a chick that you met via online, particularly online dating?

Yes or no?

 

[CornbreadFed]

Because as I said, every man doesn't have the BALLS TO DO IT.



Let's unpack that^.

Im about to use you to help prove my point.

Let's look at this logically.

So, you are a OLD advocate, correct?

Question: have you ever smashed a chick that you met via online, particularly online dating?

Yes or no?

Any person will do anything if the pros outweighed the cons. Cold Approaching is just a waste and time and energy for most guys hence why they do not do it.

To answer your question, yes and I have met every single one of my partners from OLD.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Any person will do anything if the pros outweighed the cons.

Please enlighten me on what are the cons of cold approaching.

Cold Approaching is just a waste and time and energy for most guys hence why they do not do it.

How is cold approaching a waste of time and energy for most guys?

To answer your question, yes and I have met every single one of my partners from OLD.

You just made my point.

Fell right into the trap, and you didn't even see it coming.

So basically, what that means is; those same women that you smashed from OLD, you would have been able to smash from cold approaching.

When you message a stranger of a woman on a dating site, that is nothing but a virtual cold approach.

It is the same concept, but different medium.

Basically, you OLD dudes are nothing but a bunch of chickenhawks.

You are chickens when it comes to approaching an attractive woman you see at Starbucks.

But you turn into hawks if you see the same woman on an online dating site.

Then all of a sudden you are Mr. Don Juan with balls of steel.

 

[CornbreadFed]

Please enlighten me on what are the cons of cold approaching.

Highest rejection risks and it is upfront and personal.

Doesn't screen the girl for toxicity or red flags unlike warm approach and OLD. You don't know who this girl is and you are asking her out.

Gives you the lowest available options if you do not live in a popular tourist city like Miami, Los Angeles, or New York City.

Caters to people that want to spend their weekends at bars or drinking establishments.

Doesn't eliminate pointless rejections such as racial preferences, actually single, height preferences, personality/vibe preferences, and etc.

 

[CornbreadFed]

You just made my point.

Fell right into the trap, and you didn't even see it coming.

So basically, what that means is; those same women that you smashed from OLD, you would have been able to smash from cold approaching.

When you message a stranger of a woman on a dating site, that is nothing but a virtual cold approach.

It is the same concept, but different medium.

Basically, you OLD dudes are nothing but a bunch of chickenhawks.

You are chickens when it comes to approaching an attractive woman you see at Starbucks.

But you turn into hawks if you see the same woman on an online dating site.

Then all of a sudden you are Mr. Don Juan with balls of steel.

Huge Hell No-

1). This requires us to be at the same place at the same time to meet which is extremelyyyyy unlikely. Factor in that even if we were at the same place, she would have to be in a position to be approached and be single. On an App, none of this applies. To even add icing to the cake, I have smashed a girl from my small luxury downtown gym through OLD. We had no idea that we went to the same gym because she only went to classes at completely different times than I did.

2). It is not a virtual cold approach unless you are on POF or something. Have you not been on any of the smartphone apps?

 

[TheEveningChronograph]

Doesn't eliminate pointless rejections such as racial preferences, actually single, height preferences, personality/vibe preferences, and etc.

No, it only speeds things up which is far better than sitting behind a screen, d!ck in hand, having a pointless back-in-forth with some delusional feminist who has some arbitrary list of what she says she proclaims she wants vs. what she actually wants out on the streets, light of day.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Huge Hell No-

1). This requires us to be at the same place at the same time to meet which is extremelyyyyy unlikely.

Bro, pay attention to what I am saying.

Let's call any specific woman you meet online "Stacy".

If Stacy is attracted to your online pictures and receptive to your online messages, then it follows that if you were to encounter Stacy in person at Starbucks, then she will also be attracted to you and receptive to your verbal messages.

The point is, you will get the same result regardless of the method.

The only difference is, the anxiety of rejection in person is more overbearing than that of online, which is why you prefer online than in person.

When a chick ignore your messages, guess what...that is a REJECTION.

Factor in that even if we were at the same place, she would have to be in a position to be approached and be single.

Not necessarily.

Ever heard of this thing called cheating?

Women use OLD to cheat so just because she is online doesn't mean she is single.

On an App, none of this applies. To even add icing to the cake, I have smashed a girl from my small luxury downtown gym through OLD. We had no idea that we went to the same gym because she only went to classes at completely different times than I did.

And?

No one is saying OLD doesn't work.

It is, however, less superior than cold approaching.

2). It is not a virtual cold approach unless you are on POF or something. Have you not been on any of the smartphone apps?

Regardless of the app you use, there has to be mutual attraction and someone has to eventually make contact with the other person.

Wow, look at that.

Same thing with cold approach.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Highest rejection risks

There may be a higher chance of rejection, which also means there is a higher chance of successes.

and it is upfront and personal.

From experience, all of my rejections have been pleasant.

I'd rather get a "Sorry, but I am not looking for anyone at the moment" on a cold approach.

Than a...

*Crickets* (message is left on read).

But hey.

Doesn't screen the girl for toxicity or red flags unlike warm approach and OLD. You don't know who this girl is and you are asking her out.

Yeah and how many men have been set up by catfish accounts...women that lure men in online, and have them robbed or killed.

Those smartphone apps don't screen for that, do they?

Gives you the lowest available options if you do not live in a popular tourist city like Miami, Los Angeles, or New York City.

Not only is this^ simply false (bullsh!t), but even if it was true, that would also limit your OLD options.

Caters to people that want to spend their weekends at bars or drinking establishments.

So, none of those OLD women frequent bars or drinking establishments?

Doesn't eliminate pointless rejections such as racial preferences, actually single, height preferences, personality/vibe preferences, and etc.

Yeah, and all of those women that you don't match with, have already rejected you from the very moment they created their dating profiles and filtered their date preferences.

So in essence, you were rejected by hundreds of women from the moment you even signed up to the dating site.

Smh.

 

[CollegeMan22]

From experience, all of my rejections have been pleasant.

I'd rather get a "Sorry, but I am not looking for anyone at the moment" on a cold approach.

Than a...

*Crickets* (message is left on read).

But hey.

You have a great mentality, man. This has been my experience as well. Women are vastly more agreeable (in public) than men. They will just excuse themself with some joke reason or politely say no. I’ve been called forward before (Mode One let’s go ) but never creepy or strange or anything. If anything you gain respect through your balls.

 

[CornbreadFed]

No, it only speeds things up which is far better than sitting behind a screen, d!ck in hand, having a pointless back-in-forth with some delusional feminist who has some arbitrary list of what she says she proclaims she wants vs. what she actually wants out on the streets, light of day.

So every girl cold approached is some innocent non feminist angel with a 100% success rate. I’ve cold approached women too and y’all are in complete denial and cope about it.

 

[Gamisch]

There may be a higher chance of rejection, which also means there is a higher chance of successes.



From experience, all of my rejections have been pleasant.

I'd rather get a "Sorry, but I am not looking for anyone at the moment" on a cold approach.

Than a...

*Crickets* (message is left on read).

But hey.



Yeah and how many men have been set up by catfish accounts...women that lure men in online, and have them robbed or killed.

Those smartphone apps don't screen for that, do they?



Not only is this^ simply false (bullsh!t), but even if it was true, that would also limit your OLD options.





So, none of those OLD women frequent bars or drinking establishments?



Yeah, and all of those women that you don't match with, have already rejected you from the very moment they created their dating profiles and filtered their date preferences.

So in essence, you were rejected by hundreds of women from the moment you even signed up to the dating site.

Smh.

Absolutely. The riskier the job the higher the pay. Facts.

The problem with @CornbreadFed is that he doesn't have any authority to speak because he (admits which is big, I admit) never did cold approach. And I say that from a rather positive and motivational perspective than a cynical one. Because for all we know he would KILL it with cold approach. So take that as a motivational push in the back.

But Venom is right. Most dudes getting thousands of rejections via OLD. And the funny thing after some time , some way somehow you actually feel these rejections as well. Because you might've seen let's say 20 women you'd like, yet none of them swiped on you apparently (I'm being modest by saying 20,might as well be 200). We all know that feeling....thats the moment when you delete the app feeling even more lost, only to return not knowing you are shadowbanned haha. Shadowbanned is the latest cope why men get no matches and shyte, but more about that in another thread.

The same woman who swipes left might've gave her number in real life.Or I should say; that type of woman. Feck fairytales about "The One", and that meeting her on OLD is "meants to be". If she swipes right on you she likes your TYPE. If the next dude looks like you ge also gets a right swipe..

On top off all this, cold approach also means YOU decide which woman you'll talk to. On OLD most (I said most not all), men get to speak to the bottom of the barrel, or at least women they actually feel mweh about. But due the lack of anything else..they'll engage. That's why a 56 y.o woman without teeth nowadays has the nerves to swipe right on a 25 y.o 7-ish dude. Wont be her first and definitely not her last..

Hence why most dudes will testify that their better lays came from C approach.

 

[CornbreadFed]

There may be a higher chance of rejection, which also means there is a higher chance of successes.

That makes zero sense

From experience, all of my rejections have been pleasant.

I'd rather get a "Sorry, but I am not looking for anyone at the moment" on a cold approach.

Than a...

*Crickets* (message is left on read).

But hey.

Who is saying she won't leave you on read when you text her to actually hangout? Unless you are just straight up fvck closing random girls upon approach.

Yeah and how many men have been set up by catfish accounts...women that lure men in online, and have them robbed or killed.

Those smartphone apps don't screen for that, do they?

It is pretty easy to differentiate between a genuine profile and catfish profile. The only guys that complain about getting catfished on OLD are guys that suck on OLD and have to apply the hopium strategy to fat girls because of scarcity. Plus, cold approaching is much more dangerous than OLD because you haven't vetted the girl at all. How do you know her beta male insecure boyfriend open carrying isn't around the corner? How do you know if this girl you just cold approached isn't crazy or a criminal? The other day I went to the store, saw a girl that caught my eye while shopping. While I was walking back to my truck, I noticed she was walking close to me and her car was some beat up Nissan Rogue with trash in the back parked at a handicap spot illegally. There's no way in hell I would've guessed that was her vehicle based on her appearance.

So, none of those OLD women frequent bars or drinking establishments?

There's some that do, but my current and past relationships from OLD did not.

Yeah, and all of those women that you don't match with, have already rejected you from the very moment they created their dating profiles and filtered their date preferences.

So in essence, you were rejected by hundreds of women from the moment you even signed up to the dating site.

Smh.

Why would I care? I don't remember 99% of the profiles I swipe right on anyway. This is incel/blackpill thinking tbh.