article: Fed-up single woman, 32, furious over 'atrocious' dating scene: 'I get ghosted by so many men, do better!'

[EyeBRollin]

She´s probably been pumped & ghosted a lot. Its her fault.

Been ran through by chads. She has 40 regular guys in her inbox though!

 

[BillyPilgrim]

Anyone else notice the Mom Arms on this broad yet?

 

[BadBoy89]

I'm sick of having guys chase me, pursue me, want something, tell me all these amazing things, and make me think they're interested - and then as soon as I get close to them, slightly let my walls down and be vulnerable, they retract,' she said.

'How is this still happening at my age?? Do better guys! Please! Because I'm so so sick of this.'

We will do better: Take away the tattoos. Get back your virginity. Sign away your legal rights, Reverse clock to when you were 27.

And we will chase you and commit like never before.

 

[Robert28]

Those two pics are the same woman? If so no wonder she’s getting ghosted. Dudes expecting a hottie and a meth addict shows up!

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

"Um, sweetie...you're not entitled to men! Maybe if you showered and respected men you wouldn't have this issue!"

That's how it works, right?

 

[Robert28]

Well then she needs to do better herself at not blowing off guys who aren't model looking dudes.

Why is she having this issue? Because she is competing with top tier guys who have tons of women interested in them so they have no need to commit because they can just fvck an endless supply of hotties who look past everything and only go for looks.

A guy she would happily get to know and date via social circle who would be really interested in going out with her and would likely be far more compatible, she is not even answering his message on OLD.

That's her problem. She needs to improve her c0ck picking.

You know she’s never going to come to this realization though.

 

[Robert28]

"Um, sweetie...you're not entitled to men! Maybe if you showered and respected men you wouldn't have this issue!"

That's how it works, right?

If she would shower, hit the gym, just “bE hErSeLf”, and be more COnFiDeNt she wouldn’t have these problems LOL!

 

[CheekyMonkey101]

If she would shower, hit the gym, just “bE hErSeLf”, and be more COnFiDeNt she wouldn’t have these problems LOL!

Exactly. It's that easy...

But in all seriousness, it does make me laugh how this would be the standard response if a man was doing this.

 

[Robert28]

Exactly. It's that easy...

But in all seriousness, it does make me laugh how this would be the standard response if a man was doing this.

They’ll never see the irony lol

 

[Bokanovsky]

“I have been made to feel so bad by guys for communicating my basic needs, putting personal boundaries in place. I've had them gaslight me for doing this. I've had them then ghost me for doing this,” she continued.

Translated into standard English: “Guys won’t put up with my sh!t and stop reaching out once they realize how much of a nutjob I am.”

 

[Solomon]

I know plenty of men that would simp for her. She is a Wisconsin 7.5 bur in LA 5

 

[Fruitbat]

“Kim claims she's been ghosted, gaslit, manipulated and has also dealt with liars.”

so what you were doing as standard 18-27

'I have been made to feel so bad by guys for communicating my basic needs, putting personal boundaries in place. I've had them gaslight me for doing this. I've had them then ghost me for doing this,' she continued.

It’s a dating app. WTF does “communicating my basic needs” mean on tinder? My guess is she’s come off bossy and demanding when she’s no longer really in the league to dictate.

Gaslighting is men telling you you’re coming off bossy and demanding. You’re calling it “gaslighting” because you’ve never once stopped to think perhaps you are the one that needs to change, she thinks her view is de facto truth and anyone disagreeing is merely attempting to warp reality.
Ghosting is just men thinking “fk that high maintenance byatch”

I'm sick of having guys chase me, pursue me, want something, tell me all these amazing things, and make me think they're interested - and then as soon as I get close to them, slightly let my walls down and be vulnerable, they retract,

They WERE interested until they got to know you. “Letting your walls down and be vulnerable”I would assume just means whinging about things. Not fun, it’s called baggage.

How is this still happening at my age?? Do better guys

I wonder if she ever considered what the guys basic needs are?
As for the age, there’s your answer. Men won’t put up with your self centred crap when you’re no longer smokikg

I’d add she would have been immediately nexted on the basis of tattoos for me anyway. They are disgusting on women. I wouldn’t even hire a prostitute with tattoos

 

[SW15]

Hey @SW15, so what happened with her 500 options you say women have on OLD?

None of us have seen the insides of her swipe app profiles. If she's using 1-2 apps, she likely has hundreds of men in her queues and plenty of messages that haven't been responded to within the in-app messaging function.

Well then she needs to do better herself at not blowing off guys who aren't model looking dudes.

Why is she having this issue? Because she is competing with top tier guys who have tons of women interested in them so they have no need to commit because they can just fvck an endless supply of hotties who look past everything and only go for looks.

A guy she would happily get to know and date via social circle who would be really interested in going out with her and would likely be far more compatible, she is not even answering his message on OLD.

That's her problem. She needs to improve her c0ck picking.

I know plenty of men that would simp for her. She is a Wisconsin 7.5 bur in LA 5

She has plenty of options. She's likely only focusing on a small part of those options. She's chasing tingles with top tier men, the so-called 'Chads'.

Even with all of her tattoos, there are plenty of men who would be interested in her for something longer term. My sense is that she's leaving their messages on read within the apps or ignoring them in real life.

 

[Bigpapa]

I know plenty of men that would simp for her. She is a Wisconsin 7.5 bur in LA 5

LA without being a magnet for aspiring actresses/models/pornstars would be extremely overrated

but in most cases, these girls are quite difficult to reach unless you go to where they go or are part of the industry

to actually get what LA has best to offer, for sure money plays a bit higher role than in other cities

the downside of it is that it is very unlikely to find a girl from this “circle” that is actually worth dating. For sure a lot of fun to be there, but then that”s it

 

[BackInTheGame78]

None of us have seen the insides of her swipe app profiles. If she's using 1-2 apps, she likely has hundreds of men in her queues and plenty of messages that haven't been responded to within the in-app messaging function.





She has plenty of options. She's likely only focusing on a small part of those options. She's chasing tingles with top tier men, the so-called 'Chads'.

Even with all of her tattoos, there are plenty of men who would be interested in her for something longer term. My sense is that she's leaving their messages on read within the apps or ignoring them in real life.

"Even with tattoos"?

I prefer tattoos...much higher percentage chance they are open to anal and other freaky things in the bedroom.

 

[SW15]

"Even with tattoos"?

I prefer tattoos...much higher percentage chance they are open to anal and other freaky things in the bedroom.

There's a difference between a woman with 1-2 tattoos and the woman in the original post. The Australian woman in the original post has the majority of her arms tattooed.

Yes, your comment about tattooed women being open to freakier things in the bedroom is true.

A woman with many tattoos is more likely to be recreational use only than someone with zero tattoos or 1-2 smaller and more discreet ones.

I think the woman in the original post is finding out that a lot of the men she wants are classifying her as recreational use only.

 

[I_have_BDE]

Fed-up single woman furious over 'atrocious' dating scene

A single woman has detailed how 'atrocious' and 'grim' the dating scene is in Australia - and she's not the only one.

www.dailymail.co.uk

my opinion: I too would ghost any harridan, especially one that has so many sailor tats on her arms, and has a smoker's low-pitch vocal chords.

She's not even on my radar! Full of skanky tats and looks like a skank.

 

[tksniper]

Those kinds of women actually have 100 average guys in their read messages. She’s just mad the top tier men only see her as a fun time.

Women’s problems are different than mens Problems. Mens problems is they can’t get laid period. Women’s problems are they can’t secure the top 10% men. Their worlds are delusional and out of touch with reality. And the media feeds it. In other words, the word is insane. Get yours and forget the rest.

No point psychoanalyzing insanity. Complete waste of time and energy. You could have used that same energy to learn how to make more money, approach more women, get more fit, etc.

Protect your energy men. Don’t waste your time paying attention to NPCs. 90% of the world are NPCs and maybe 10% are worth knowing.

 

[Solomon]

Well then she needs to do better herself at not blowing off guys who aren't model looking dudes.

Why is she having this issue? Because she is competing with top tier guys who have tons of women interested in them so they have no need to commit because they can just fvck an endless supply of hotties who look past everything and only go for looks.

A guy she would happily get to know and date via social circle who would be really interested in going out with her and would likely be far more compatible, she is not even answering his message on OLD.

That's her problem. She needs to improve her c0ck picking.

This is the problem with most women.
I remember once my buddy telling me a story, overhearing 2 girls in a restaurant talking about how they get constantly ghosted on tinder. My buddy interjected himself in the convo and he quickly concluded the girls were going for guys out of there league (they were 6 and 7 according to my buddy who has tougher standards than me)

Most women even in 2023 meet men through social circle the ones that don't end up on the OLD and nightlife cawk carousel and they refuse to "settle" for anything less than a Chad or Tyrone lite. A lot of these women refuse to budge on mens looks. I know some women who would rather deal with a pretty broke guy than a guy who is average looking but rich.

We truly live in a superifical era