Girls Vs Boys Dating Strategy Vs Instagram

[BackInTheGame78]

We have generations of woman in many many societies, who are discouraged from being on Instagram/social media etc.. And the woman are not running around sport fvking everything and anything they see.

If we are to follow your logic of not setting boundaries, because your chick will find a way to cheat anyway...

Then why not marry a chick, have a child with her, then allow her to hit the bars/clubs drinking on the weekends.

Why not also let her dress like a 304

Why not let her travel with her hoe freinds and have hot summer girl parties.

Hmm I mean she will find a way to cheat anyway right if she really wants to?

All chicks have the potential to cheat l, however us men need to create an environment of damage limitation.

We need to protect them, from themselves!

You have it all backwards bro...

There are certain things that you screen for prior to getting married. You are simply doing it backwards.

You should be screening for this behavior prior to dating them, not trying to eliminate it once you start dating them. That won't work. Not to any worthwhile degree.

Most men do well screening for looks, but terrible screening for traits/behavior. IMHO for any long term relationship to work, traits/behavior screening is MORE important than looks screening.

If you don't want that behavior, then you find a woman who doesn't engage in that behavior. This is how you keep your life simple. By screening properly.

What you are showing is that you are terrible at screening women for what you want.

 

[EyeBRollin]

If her Instagram is private with less than 500 followers, she may keep it.

Men, listen carefully. Do not commit to a woman with a public instagram and more than 500 followers.

 

[CyrusTheGreat]

Guess what, she will just work harder at advertising herself in person.

Trying to stop women from seeking attention is a nonsensical strategy because they will simply shift to other methods to make up for it. Or simply do it behind your back and without your knowledge.

There is a reason why Preacher's daughters are typically run through by the entire town...it's because her Daddy won't let her do anything, so she secretly does everything.

Yes, that's why you don't make/force her do anything. You don't commit to her if she doesn't commit to you.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

If her Instagram is private with less than 500 followers, she may keep it.

Men, listen carefully. Do not commit to a woman with a public instagram and more than 500 followers.

This is part of screening properly. Most men only screen for looks then wonder why their relationships go sideways.

Just like The Kid LAROI said...

"So there you go...oh...
can't make a wife out of a ho..."

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Yes, that's why you don't make/force her do anything. You don't commit to her if she doesn't commit to you.

You simply don't date someone who engages in that behavior. Them claiming they are going to stop it will last only as long as their next attention seeking moment which isn't long.

Trust me, they will simply start a new one you have no idea about.

 

[soulforge]

I totally understand the importance of screening.. If she drinks heavily, party girl etc, other red flags, then it's best not to take a girl like that seriously in the first place.

However in these current times, even an all-round good chick will have an Instagram and will keep her options open.

There are certain things you will need or have to tell her to drop at some point or another.