Girl I'm Seeing Got Aggressive With Me

[powersize]

As a guy who went on a vacation with a girl I had troubles with recently - i can tell you better cancel it even if you cannot get your money back. We went on 3 day city break where at the end of second day she spent all evening at the hotel in her phone and went sleep straight after. Worthless to say - no sex over this 3 days. I knew we are done at that moment - so next morning we did not speak a word on our all way home. Money are just money - better save your menthal health.

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

OP, I’m not scrolling back but you told us days ago you’d canceled the trip. Have you not?

 

[soulforge]

Few days in and radio silence. I bet @soulforge and hot Ukrainian whomen are back at it again.

(Hypothetical)update;

She is nice and calm now. Really loves him and she looks forward to having a great bonding experience. Still offers to meet her fam . Was on her period thats why she was a little edgy.

Dont worry guys. Everything is cool now. Please dont insult GF on behalf of OP.

Lol you guys. I already cancelled the holiday and the bich absolutely went crazy.

I had c0vid last two weeks, so been under the weather.

Anyway she crazy... Pure masculine energy!

She was the type of girl that would argue like a man, over the most minor thing.

I mean like she would refuse to say thank you, or please, because two weeks ago I didn't say please or thank you.

She would literally bring up EVERYTHING from the past and use it against me as a weapon.

If she spoke to me in a somewhat rude manner, and I called her out on it, doesn't say thank you or please, she would then go back in time and say, oh you didn't say please or thank you. And us that against me.

In the end it was fukin tiresome being around her.. masculine energy, constant walking on eggshells... Fuk this bich!

She is hot 24 year old Russian girl, but the attitude and disrespect is not worth it.

I called it a day about the holiday and she went nuts. Even now still getting messages from her trying to make me look the bad guy.

I just ignore her messages.. Man life was better before I meat this 304

 

[Pierce Manhammer]

Just block her everywhere and move on. The less you see and hear from her that easier it’ll be.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This is a nice bonus to a healthy relationship if that's what you want. But a man should be able to get great sex and eat like a king when he's single. Only you can decide what's best for you but per your earlier post, well I don't have energy for outbursts and aggression. I personally don't subscribe to the "you have to handle her" philosophy, for me it's too accommodating of bullshyt from a girl. She can get bent for all I care. Having been with different types IME there are some that don't deserve me handling them at all.

How is being with an alcoholic who has enough drama for 5 Jerry Springer episodes(RIP) healthy?

Just shows some people's standards are pretty much anything that will suck their c0ck or show them attention.

 

[Giovanni SouthSide]

Some of the factors of the forum already pulled your ear and put you up on game with some tough love.

Last time a bitxh tried to tell me something way less offensive than a “shut the fvck up” I tossed her out of of my crib at 5am. No pity. How she get home ? I don’t know I snapped a bowl and hit the sheets right after.
Once a female says something she can’t take back, I take ownership of the dynamic real quick and I’m serving walking papers.
I don’t let disrespectful sh1t slide and still respect myself it’s not in my pedigree

Being able to walk away without any arguments or explanations is the only thing that will put a woman in her place, like I have said before.

But I understand. Only a handful of us have the heart to walk away from a hot disrespectful chick and keep walking.

 

[Millard Fillmore]

How is being with an alcoholic who has enough drama for 5 Jerry Springer episodes(RIP) healthy?

Just shows some people's standards are pretty much anything that will suck their c0ck or show them attention.

No. I was speaking hypothetically that great sex + cooked meals are a plus to a healthy relationship, i.e. not his. They should not be reasons for tolerating toxic behavior. Read the whole post bro.

 

[Murk]

Lol you guys. I already cancelled the holiday and the bich absolutely went crazy.

I had c0vid last two weeks, so been under the weather.

Anyway she crazy... Pure masculine energy!

She was the type of girl that would argue like a man, over the most minor thing.

I mean like she would refuse to say thank you, or please, because two weeks ago I didn't say please or thank you.

She would literally bring up EVERYTHING from the past and use it against me as a weapon.

If she spoke to me in a somewhat rude manner, and I called her out on it, doesn't say thank you or please, she would then go back in time and say, oh you didn't say please or thank you. And us that against me.

In the end it was fukin tiresome being around her.. masculine energy, constant walking on eggshells... Fuk this bich!

She is hot 24 year old Russian girl, but the attitude and disrespect is not worth it.

I called it a day about the holiday and she went nuts. Even now still getting messages from her trying to make me look the bad guy.

I just ignore her messages.. Man life was better before I meat this 304

Bro I really hope you end it, she sounds disrespectful as sh1t I’m not even sure how I would react to this childish nonsense. These problems arise when you don’t nip them in the bud asap, first time it happens you let her know this ain’t it, when you let one thing slide you’re finished.

Imagine a girl saying she won’t say please or thank you because 2 weeks ago I didn’t say it… bro you’re 40 what kind of convo is that lol

 

[soulforge]

Thanks for the advice guys. And just to let you know, it was the first time that she told me to Shvt the fvk up.. It's never happened before.. My response to it was, leaving her house first thing in the morning without a word... When she woke up, I was gone.

I think this girl is overall a brat, has no sense of respect, is argumentative, has mood swings etc.
I canceled the holiday with her and she turned on the tears etc. I deleted her off my Facebook last week and got 12 missed calls from her.

honestly man only 6 months of dating her was a fukin headache.. She would argue like a kid over the slightest thing.

imagine raising a child with a woman like this.. Imagine buying property with a woman like this.. Imagine 20 years of back and forth arguments etc.. Absolute a mind fuk.

This chick would not even use manners and say please thank you, when you call her on it, she reminds you that you failed to say thank you 3 months ago. WTF has the world come to

 

[lgbs2004]

I always thought russian girls were crazy, even though I haven't met any here in my country. But from what I hear from Americans, they're nuts.

If that's the case, I think your relationship with her was already a tragedy foretold.

 

[soulforge]

I always thought russian girls were crazy, even though I haven't met any here in my country. But from what I hear from Americans, they're nuts.

If that's the case, I think your relationship with her was already a tragedy foretold.

They are NUTS. They also drink alot.. I mean loads of alcohol.

Also don't ever expect one to apologize for her bad behaviour, she will just pretend/act like it never happened.

Accountability is something they know nothing about. And I don't mean Russian women... I mean the vast majority of Western Chicks

 

[BackInTheGame78]

They are NUTS. They also drink alot.. I mean loads of alcohol.

Also don't ever expect one to apologize for her bad behaviour, she will just pretend/act like it never happened.

Accountability is something they know nothing about. And I don't mean Russian women... I mean the vast majority of Western Chicks

Probably because they are used to being slapped and beaten by their men when they get drunk in Russia which is often, so their own drinking is likely a coping mechanism for it.

 

[soulforge]

Probably because they are used to being slapped and beaten by their men when they get drunk in Russia which is often, so their own drinking is likely a coping mechanism for it.

Those Russian men ain't playing.. Us Western men probably too weak for them and not agressive enough

 

[soulforge]

Bro I really hope you end it, she sounds disrespectful as sh1t I’m not even sure how I would react to this childish nonsense. These problems arise when you don’t nip them in the bud asap, first time it happens you let her know this ain’t it, when you let one thing slide you’re finished.

Imagine a girl saying she won’t say please or thank you because 2 weeks ago I didn’t say it… bro you’re 40 what kind of convo is that lol

I agree with you on what you say, however man trust me, the first time she stepped over the line, I did nip it in the bud, I actually kicked her out of my house at 2am in the morning.

The problem with this chick is, she becomes apologetic after the fact, promises that she will never do it again, then two weeks later after a period of good behaviour, she would go back to making things very difficult.

She just isn't an easy girl to get along with. Too much masculinity and not enough femininity.

I made mistakes by not vetting enough, and giving her the LTR status too easy. She should have been kept in the fuk zone.

However I developed feelings for her, and this breakup isn't easy.

The only way to get past this for me, is too keep ignoring her, Even though she is still texting me.

 

[Solomon]

OP get you a slim thick (petite) Asian girl, and they will treat you like a king

Thank me later

 

[ThisIsSparta]

A russian women told me once to stay away from russian women. She said they are very demanding, aggressive and used to deal with alcoholic husbands.

It is said that alcoholism is very common in Russia due to the destruction of traditional families in the Soviet Union which still has its influences on society up to now. In some ways Russians have been woke 100 years before the west and it still shows even when their society is coming around to the better.

Experienced men will tell you that eastern european women are a handful to deal with.


Funny as it is, a black colleague from Sierra Leone told me he doesnt like black women for the allmost same reasons.....said that black women are allways fighting their men over dominance in the relationship.

@Solomon
That asian approach might not be the worst in this time and age....

 

[CornbreadFed]

OP get you a slim thick (petite) Asian girl, and they will treat you like a king

Thank me later

I feel like southeast Asians and Filipinas are underrepresented because of the fetish for Japanese women. I’ve been to Japan and their women can be bvtchy and are shaped liked teenage boys.