To reiterate the point that
@SW15 mentioned, no, longevity doesn't count for anything. Many blue pilled men stay in bad marriages for years, decades....sometimes their entire LIVES. Number of years a relationship go, by itself, doesn't indicate the health of the relationship.
I think the problem with marriage is that many women see getting the ring as the finish line. Once they have the ring and have signed the marriage contract, their true nature comes out. We preach screening appropriately on here to lessen the chances of these surprises, but in reality it can be impossible to know how a woman will change after marriage, and especially after a child is born. Relationships that were good where the woman respected the man as the leader can drastically change overnight (literally) in these circumstances and there isn't much a man can sometimes do about it, even if he is 100% red pilled and has laid the proper foundation for his frame in said relationship. It is why so many men are so against marriage now. There is very little payoff and a huge risk.
The only way I think it makes sense is if you are wanting kids. And only then with the right women who also wants kids and has almost the same exact values you do.
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