Low Quality Women or None

[jaymbrs]

Which option would you rather have? Seems like these are the most common options to choose from for many men. I was once leaning towards none but a friend of mine has convinced me that having low quality women around can be a positive for occasionally getting laid. And lets be honest, plates are plates because they're not top tier options.

 

[CornbreadFed]

None by far because you are still wasting time and risking everything on some girl you don’t give af about. Nothing is the worst than being out in public with your low quality girl and seeing some dude you know you are higher in smv with a much hotter girl and going “WTF am I doing wrong” lol. Just take a break from women with the clear purpose of developing yourself so you can attract better women.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Low quality women introduce unnecessary drama and stress into your life and will suck your life force out of you if you let them. I would stay away. It will eventually effect you negatively. Additionally you then have to worry about them getting pregnant on top of that and being stuck dealing with them for a long time.

The time you are wasting with them you could be working towards getting better woman or working on yourself to enable you to get better women.

IMHO, guys who only find low quality women are a reflection of themselves looking in the mirror. Water finds it's level and real recognizes real. This should be a sign you need to work on bettering yourself...

 

[CornbreadFed]

Low quality women introduce unnecessary drama and stress into your life and will suck your life force out of you if you let them. I would stay away. It will eventually effect you negatively. Additionally you then have to worry about them getting pregnant on top of that and being stuck dealing with them for a long time.

The time you are wasting with them you could be working towards getting better woman or working on yourself to enable you to get better women.

IMHO, guys who only find low quality women are a reflection of themselves looking in the mirror. Water finds it's level and real recognizes real.

Then you go on sosuave making a topic about her showing mixed signals, but you explicitly say she’s a 9 or 10

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Then you go on sosuave making a topic about her showing mixed signals, but you explicitly say she’s a 9 or 10

What too many guys fail to realize is her looks have no bearing on her quality.

 

[AureliusMaximus]

No thanks to this...

I'll pass..

 

[characternote]

time to better yourself. Are you taking showers?

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

Which option would you rather have? Seems like these are the most common options to choose from for many men. I was once leaning towards none but a friend of mine has convinced me that having low quality women around can be a positive for occasionally getting laid. And lets be honest, plates are plates because they're not top tier options.

One of my friends, back in the day, was all about low quality. He'd say they all have their uses, hidden talents. One line in particular that stuck with me: "She could be really good at eating ass and you would have missed out on that"

 

[AureliusMaximus]

time to better yourself. Are you taking showers?

Ha ha...

 

[CornbreadFed]

One of my friends, back in the day, was all about low quality. He'd say they all have their uses, hidden talents. One line in particular that stuck with me: "She could be really good at eating ass and you would have missed out on that"

Every guy I know that said pvssy is pvssy has been screwed over eventually

 

[jaymbrs]

Fair points. But it's cyclical in my opinion. You take that time off to better yourself then you realize you just want to get laid. Maybe you land a high quality woman but by this point you'll make an exception for a low quality one just to get laid. I'd say there's nothing wrong with that.

 

[Macadellic]

Friends that married high quality women that built a home and have kids are jealous of my freedom.

I have also been in right in front of him in his house and have heard the disrespectful tone the wives use when communicating.

I have also been at venues standing in line to use the gentleman’s room and chat up strangers.

These married men that I have never met tell me
“Stay single”

Ans I’m super confused because they have high quality women.

I have also been running errands, grocery shopping, etc. and married men with kids just stare at me.

Motherf/cker why are you staring you are the one that found a good wife if anything I should be staring at you to figure out wtf you have that I don’t.

 

[SW15]

Every guy I know that said pvssy is pvssy has been screwed over eventually

Most men will choose low quality women over no women at all because they are thirsty and need to get their penises wet. Even with MGTOW growing, this is still the case. Also, most men who are MGTOW are MGTOW because the collective of women rejected them.

 

[pipeman84]

Friends that married high quality women that built a home and have kids are jealous of my freedom.

I have also been in right in front of him in his house and have heard the disrespectful tone the wives use when communicating.

I have also been at venues standing in line to use the gentleman’s room and chat up strangers.

These married men that I have never met tell me
“Stay single”

Ans I’m super confused because they have high quality women.

I have also been running errands, grocery shopping, etc. and married men with kids just stare at me.

Motherf/cker why are you staring you are the one that found a good wife if anything I should be staring at you to figure out wtf you have that I don’t.

The contradictions in your post are glaring. C'mon man. What's your definition of a 'high quality woman'?

 

[Gamisch]

First off, what defines low quality? Thats a personal take. Some will say its about looks, some will say its about character.

Either way, every man will have his reasons to define a womam as "low quality "( one man's trash ,the next man's treasure).

Lets have a look at some pros and cons;

- a dryspell. Another vague terminology. Some men will go crazy after a week without poosy, while another dude can go a year without and be fine. There's no steady time frame, or a medically proven time frame that says:" x amount of time without poosy is bad."

-if the dryspell lasts 4 seasons,one might conclude that he needs to lower his standards. Will you wait to buy a car untill you can afford your dream car, or are you satisfied with something that takes you from A to B?

- the reality check- sometimes you'll see a man with a woman, and you be like" I would NEVER take her as my gf!". But little you know about this man's happiness and possible stress-free life. Maybe he has a woman thats high quality, but her looks aren't top level. She cools cleans, is educated, treats him and his kids like royalty..vs a good looking dramatic witch thats sucks the life out of a man. Again, what define top quality?

Personally I think it's situational and you should look at it case by case. Some men MUST go for lower quality in order to get their groove back, while other men should decline it because it stops them from going after what they really want/can get..

 

[Macadellic]

The contradictions in your post are glaring. C'mon man. What's your definition of a 'high quality woman'?

Two of my friends married sweet kind caring virgins that submitted to the man’s leadership.

Fast forward 15 years of marriage with children and these women have a subtle tone of anger at times and I have even seen and heard these women yell at their husband over not wearing a helmet to go on a bike ride.

No matter the definition of a high quality woman
These women change

Have a beer with a married man during your travels that you just met and will never see again.

The high quality woman changes over time.

 

[pipeman84]

These married men that I have never met tell me
“Stay single”

Ans I’m super confused because they have high quality women.

Here's where I got the idea you're very loose with the 'high quality woman' term.

Two of my friends married sweet kind caring virgins that submitted to the man’s leadership.

Fast forward 15 years of marriage with children and these women have a subtle tone of anger at times and I have even seen and heard these women yell at their husband over not wearing a helmet to go on a bike ride.

OK, now you're getting more specific. Actually I have a good friend who married his high-school sweetheart and from what he told me they had their share of marital trouble, getting very close to divorce.
Yeah, I know she was a virgin and from our interactions she seemed like a nice girl. But I can't say I know her well enough to qualify her as 'high quality woman'.

That's the first half of the story. The other half is the guy himself ... if he mistreated and neglected his woman for years (what do you expect from a guy in his 20s? he still has the mind of a boy and a body run by testosterone ... bad combination) is it surprising she's unhappy? She wasn't really yelling about the helmet, that's just a symptom of the issues they have in their relationship.

 

[Macadellic]

Here's where I got the idea you're very loose with the 'high quality woman' term.


OK, now you're getting more specific. Actually I have a good friend who married his high-school sweetheart and from what he told me they had their share of marital trouble, getting very close to divorce.
Yeah, I know she was a virgin and from our interactions she seemed like a nice girl. But I can't say I know her well enough to qualify her as 'high quality woman'.

That's the first half of the story. The other half is the guy himself ... if he mistreated and neglected his woman for years (what do you expect from a guy in his 20s? he still has the mind of a boy and a body run by testosterone ... bad combination) is it surprising she's unhappy? She wasn't really yelling about the helmet, that's just a symptom of the issues they have in their relationship.

My two great friends I grew up with are stand up men. Neither one of them have cheated or neglected them in anyway. They both work hard to provide in every way. They both do not sit on the couch when they get home from work. I can go on.

If you give a description of what a high quality women is I’m sure their wives will check a high percentage of the boxes.

What I’m getting at is that the hormones of a woman changes with age and birthing children.

 

[pipeman84]

My two great friends I grew up with are stand up men. Neither one of them have cheated or neglected them in anyway. They both work hard to provide in every way. They both do not sit on the couch when they get home from work. I can go on.

It's the same with my friend. No cheating, no womanizing, built a business, kept himself in shape. From the outside, the perfect catch for a woman. But since I got interested in this relationship stuff and I discussed it with him, we both realized he wasn't the leader he was supposed to be in the relationship. Not surprising when you add together lack of good examples/education, the pervasive bluepill environment and young age. So even if the woman was high quality, there still would've been problems.

 

[Macadellic]

we both realized he wasn't the leader he was supposed to be in the relationship. Not surprising when you add together lack of good examples/education, the pervasive bluepill environment and young age. So even if the woman was high quality, there still would've been problems.

Both of my friends have have great fathers that provided a great example. Both friends have multiple degrees so are educated. Both are masculine, the type that have stood up to break up fights in public then shake hands with the bouncers.

I have heard from them both that the hardest thing they have ever done is get married and be a husband.

And they both married great women.