I was talking with my mom about a 39yrs old woman who married her husband at around the age of 31. The main talking points were 1. an article she wrote when she was 28 talking among other things about her exes and that she's on good terms with all of them. 2. the fact that on her IG (it's a professional page, no bikini photos) description she doesn't mention she's married ... she mentions she's a dog mom, believer, animal lover etc
I was arguing 1. the husband is a chump (has the looks of it) ... what kind of self respecting guy would marry a woman who has several exes? I was talking PG of course, but the message I was trying to convey was that it's not believable that she found 'true love' when she hit 31 ... how many exes does she have to go trough till 'I love you' losses its meaning? It's an obvious case of settling (the guy has a good job). My mom was disagreeing, she said that she sees no problem that the woman had exes.
2. I said this is a strong argument that the guy is a chump ... what kind of masculine man lets her woman put in the IG description that she's a dog mom but doesn't mention she's a wife?! The expression 'dog mom' is bad enough ... to omit saying she's a wife it's unfathomable. My mom didn't see anything wrong with this.
I was like, OK mom, let's agree to disagree.