Harridan complains about dating: "is the bar that f---ing low"?

[MatureDJ]

 

[SW15]

Women in their 30s and 40s have problems dating. It's not difficult for women in their 30s and 40s to find dates. All they have to do is put up a profile on a swipe app and they'll have more options than a 25 year old woman who doesn't have an app profile or is active on social media. The problem for 30 and 40 something women is that they still demand a lot while their best asset (their looks) is fading away. Additionally, a lot of 30 and 40 something women are still ignoring non-top tier men while complaining "Where have all the good men gone?"

Additionally, that specific harridan who mentions a low bar also believes that she's entitled to date multiple men simultaneously and believes she is entitled to being spoiled as a quasi sugar baby by an older man.

There are even many childless women 35-44 who aren't overweight who have mediocre and uninspiring bodies once you get them naked and ready for sex.

There are some women in the 35-44 age range who still look good naked and would get commitments but that's less common in that age range. Even a 38 year old who looks very good naked still has signs of aging and likely doesn't look as good as a lot of 28 year olds simply because 28 year olds are younger.

 

[Solomon]

Women in their 30s and 40s have problems dating. It's not difficult for women in their 30s and 40s to find dates. All they have to do is put up a profile on a swipe app and they'll have more options than a 25 year old woman who doesn't have an app profile or is active on social media. The problem for 30 and 40 something women is that they still demand a lot while their best asset (their looks) is fading away. Additionally, a lot of 30 and 40 something women are still ignoring non-top tier men while complaining "Where have all the good men gone?"

Additionally, that specific harridan who mentions a low bar also believes that she's entitled to date multiple men simultaneously and believes she is entitled to being spoiled as a quasi sugar baby by an older man.

There are even many childless women 35-44 who aren't overweight who have mediocre and uninspiring bodies once you get them naked and ready for sex.

There are some women in the 35-44 age range who still look good naked and would get commitments but that's less common in that age range. Even a 38 year old who looks very good naked still has signs of aging and likely doesn't look as good as a lot of 28 year olds simply because 28 year olds are younger.

Yup women in their 30sand 40s are starting to realize they are not getting the same attention nor quality of guys in their 20s
Sure they can get pumped and dumped by Chad but most men that are younger wanna be with women their age and don't want nothing serious
I know a lot of women in their 30s and late 30s that got ran through in their 20s and also 30s and yet still hoping an NFL/NBA player will save them (just because they have boned a few) lol

 

[The Duke]

Women have been lying to themselves since they were little girls and society has encouraged it.

When you have used your looks to carry you thru life, what do you expect when they fade? The struggle is real.

Women as a whole need to bring more to the table if they want to be relevant as they age. They also need to realize, just because
a guy wants to stick his dihk in you, does not mean he see's value in you.

It was empowering when I realized I should put women in different categories. 10% of them are good for nothing, 30% of them are good for sex only, 30% are good for dating, 20% are good for long term relationships, and 10% are good candidates for live-in/marriage material. A man needs to manage pu$$y properly.

 

[Solomon]

This video just confirms more, especially with the divorcee woman who was upset
The dating game changed from 20 heck even 10 years ago
You have a lot of women who are in their 30s and 40s who never used online dating apps
and now that they are single they are introduced to the harsh reality of modern dating
It's not like the early 2000s where a girl would ghost, yes ghosting and flaking existed but it was considered rude at one point
Now it's so common, typically i noticed women who are just divorce tend to get ran thru on dating apps in a short time
a lot of them become jaded very quickly or they ran through and want you to play the sucker

 

[retardedautist2020]

All they have to do is put up a profile on a swipe app and they'll have more options than a 25 year old woman who doesn't have an app profile or is active on social media.

What are options

 

[Gamisch]

Its amazing how older women don't even know how to properly lure a man in.

The type of DJ these women want would rather take things slow, but these women are in a hurry. They are jaded due tons of bad experiences and their scarcity only enforces this negative loop.

Don't forget these women will also pick a (aspiring) alpha type of dude. Men with multiple options. They are programmed to be the center of attention, while nowadays they'll have to wait in line and simply be available when asked upon. Being easy going is the way to win a man, but these women are crazy and jaded and unable to be patient .

The generation of house keeping women has died out. 50 y.o women are now also serial daters, so be prepared to see much more videos like this.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

They claim the bar is low, yet they pass over guys who don't look "hot" that meet many of their other criteria.

However if they met these guys in their social circle, there is a high probability they would start dating at some point since looks become less important the longer a woman knows you and the more time they spend with you.

They are short circuiting their potential happiness with their unrealistic "checklists" of "Must Haves" while they offer little to nothing of value in return.

 

[SW15]

You have a lot of women who are in their 30s and 40s who never used online dating apps
and now that they are single they are introduced to the harsh reality of modern dating

Who are these women? Women who were single 10 years ago were using swipe apps and/or dating websites. They were common by 2013. Most women under 40 now have used either a dating website or a dating app at some point in their lives. Unless a woman under 40 right now met someone in high school or college, they've been exposed to dating websites and dating apps.

 

[CollegeMan22]

Damn, the women telling their fellow girls not to be “pick me girls” is rough. They’re literally telling women to play even more games with us. To not accede to our requests and demands. To keep up the myth of “girl power”. “Girl power” equals stupid, needless arguments when women should simply follow the lead of their man. Social media is destroying women.

 

[FlirtLife]

For women who seem lost in their 40s, I think they need an SMV graph with a big arrow pointing to their age: "You are here"

SMV Ratios & Attachment

Since I produced the SMP graph last year I have had more than a few earnest readers and irritated critics call me to the carpet about the variables involved in estimating even a rough sketch of the…

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[Pierce Manhammer]

It simply makes their options greater because they’re actually easy and pissed off that they are getting pumped and dumped.

It’s like the 40 year old woman who has a beautiful head of hair being told by her girlfriends “Yeah you should cut it all off you’ll look amazing.”

Same deal.

Damn, the women telling their fellow girls not to be “pick me girls” is rough. They’re literally telling women to play even more games with us. To not accede to our requests and demands. To keep up the myth of “girl power”. “Girl power” equals stupid, needless arguments when women should simply follow the lead of their man. Social media is destroying women.

 

[SW15]

For women who seem lost in their 40s, I think they need an SMV graph with a big arrow pointing to their age: "You are here"

SMV Ratios & Attachment

Since I produced the SMP graph last year I have had more than a few earnest readers and irritated critics call me to the carpet about the variables involved in estimating even a rough sketch of the…

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That chart is a nice theoretical model but doesn't hold up well in the real world.

If it were true, then you wouldn't see a bunch of 30s-40s men acting like pusssy beggars. The typical guy is his 30s-40s is a pusssy beggar for mediocre women close to his own age.

If men's SMVs peak at 36 and women's SMVs peak at 23, then someone could make the point that 36 year old men would be pairing off with 23 year old women. Who is the typical 36 year old male dating? Some post peak 33-35 year old.

A typical 35-40 year old woman can have 1,000 men expressing themselves as options for her on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble. Name a 35-40 year old man that has a queue of 1,000 matches in his swipe app profiles.

 

[RangerMIke]

Women want great men, then destroy them. Seriously... it is better to be alone than to be used.

They want men that are ambitious, driven, good looking, fun, with lots of social proof that they care about. Then they get these dudes in relationships, then then emotional manipulation starts... Ambitious driven men are not going to have the time for her that she needs. Good looking men fun men with social proof, gets too much attention from other women, and women do not like the competition.

If you are ambitious, she will nag the cr@p out of you to spend more time with her.
If you are good looking, she will nag the cr@p of you for spending time in the gym or money on clothes.
If you are fun and social, she will start being a b1tch to your friends and associates to drive them off.

Then, if she is successful, she has turned her man into something she is no longer attracted to... that's when the nagging and torture steps up... because in her mind it's your fault for morphing into something she no longer wants to fvck. It is HIS FAULT, he let her change him... never let a chick change you, because if you do you are not being the man she wants... Women, if left to their own desires, will sabotage themselves. A man, in a relationship, needs to be who he is, and he should allow his chick to dance around chasing butterflies, BUT STOP HER if she is about to dance off a cliff. When you put you foot down, you run the risk of losing her... YOU MUST be okay with this, you can not allow your emotions to supersede rational decision making.

Men have finally figured this out and as soon as we get a whiff of a this cr@p, we are GONE. I really do feel sorry for these women, but they have themselves to blame... good looking women with good attitudes, whose personal life isn't a steaming pile of cr@p, don't have any trouble finding and keeping quality men...

 

[pipeman84]

A typical 35-40 year old woman can have 1,000 men expressing themselves as options for her on Tinder/Hinge/Bumble. Name a 35-40 year old man that has a queue of 1,000 matches in his swipe app profiles.

You're presenting something that makes it look like women have all the power in the dating market, but in reality it's not true. To realize how worthless those 1k matches really are, picture this: a guy signing up on an app that deals with requests for money for various personal reasons. So you sign up, you put in your profile you're making 200k+/year and you'll soon have 1,000 'likes'. How satisfying would that be for you? Strangers giving you likes hoping you'll 'match' their request for money so they can fund some vain personal projects (boob job, liposuction, trip abroad etc)

It's the same thing with that 35yrs old woman getting 1k likes from guys hoping to get access to her pvssy. There is no real power or personal satisfaction in that. It's all a mirage. In reality she still has no boyfriend and if she believes her own press and starts dating guys from the 1k queue, the truth will soon dawn on her that the abundance of virtual options is just as good as an abundance of monopoly money.

 

[SW15]

You're presenting something that makes it look like women have all the power in the dating market, but in reality it's not true.

It's the same thing with that 35yrs old woman getting 1k likes from guys hoping to get access to her pvssy. There is no real power or personal satisfaction in that. It's all a mirage. In reality she still has no boyfriend and if she believes her own press and starts dating guys from the 1k queue, the truth will soon dawn on her that the abundance of virtual options is just as good as an abundance of monopoly money.

In 2014, Roosh wrote an article about The Wall being softer than most men think it is.

The Wall Is Softer Than We Think

Those 1,000 matches a 35 year old woman has are not worthless. Because she has so many options, there are actually some decent options within those 1,000 matches.

Most women now operate from an abundance mindset. They can see their 1,000 options at any given time on a swipe app or in her Instagram inbox. Most men still operate from a scarcity mindset.

There are plenty of men who will commit to a childless 35 year old woman if she isn't fat. Even 35 year old single moms with children under 10 can still have a decent quantity of options.

 

[tightgrp]

Women want great men, then destroy them.

Samson and Delilah. An ancient story. Nothing will change because it has always been this way. Decide in what ways you can trust a woman but never share with her anything she can use to undermine or destroy you.

 

[tightgrp]

They are all so entitled. We all know why. In a weak society that apologizes for and shames the character of a man, there will always be too many symps and, as a result, a plethora of entitled women.

 

[pipeman84]

Those 1,000 matches a 35 year old woman has are not worthless. Because she has so many options, there are actually some decent options within those 1,000 matches.

Yeah, but how is she gonna find them if they're no. 85,147, 245 and 574? That's how they end up bitter, jaded serial daters ... believing their own press that virtual options are equivalent to real options.

Most women now operate from an abundance mindset. They can see their 1,000 options at any given time on a swipe app or in her Instagram inbox.

One can believe they're abundant all day long looking at their virtual money account with +1$M in it. But when reality hits (bills, expenses) one realizes that abundance is imaginary. It's the same with those 1,000 options ... how many of them can she really connect with and give her a committed relationship and orgasms?

I think taking videos from 'empowered' women and swipe apps statistics at face value and Youtubers that keep harping on how bad is it for guys in the dating world and how good women have it is a disservice for clueless guys out there.

 

[RangerMIke]

Samson and Delilah. An ancient story. Nothing will change because it has always been this way. Decide in what ways you can trust a woman but never share with her anything she can use to undermine or destroy you.

I was raised both as a Jew (my mother's side) and Roman Catholic (dad's people), my weekends as a kid were Temple with my material grandmother on Saturday, and Mass with my grandfather on Sunday. The rabbis I knew as a child never taught the old testament as FACT, but rather moral lessons learned from the stories, catholic priests only looked at the old testament with relevance when it comes of prophecy, so all my interpretation of the old testament is from a Jewish perspective.

I'm not slamming anyone's personal belief, the way I look at it is whatever helps you get by go for it, as long as you don't start trying to cram personal belief down the neck of others. But there are a number of protestant faiths that take what is written in the bible as literal truth which IMO is absurd (again no disrespect intended just my belief with could be arguably wrong), and when you do this, you tend to ignore the truth about human and self destructive behavior.

The old testament is FILLED with references of men, not being men, and stories of caution to avoid the emotional machinations of women. Adam and Eve, Lott and his wife, Samson and Delilah, David and Bathsheba, the first written history of female testing was Solomon and Sheba, tests which he passed.. the Koran actually takes this story a bit further indicating that Sheba was actually ugly under her dress and he figured out a way to see if what was being said was true, which according to Muslim tradition she was indeed ugly... and it was because she was REALLY ugly, the reason how Solomon passed these tests... suggesting that if she had been beautiful, Solomon may have been blinded and failed... I think there is truth in this... a woman, if she is beautiful, can make the wisest man in the world behave like a fool.