What Women Mean When They Say “I Don’t Need A Man”

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An article about women not needing a man.

Allegedly, It’s become a mantra of mainstream feminist ideology. For other women, it’s a coping mechanism or superficial slogan that doesn’t really mean what it says.


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Women say all sorts of schitt that doesn't make sense!
 

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Nearly every woman I talk to intimately says that they don't know where they are going. That they are anxious. That they are worried about the future. That they don't even know their bloody directions. What is the result of women's freedom? They get the prime opportunity to spend a lifetime on pharmaceutical pills while being eternally anxious.

The end result of feminism is to make women annoying and to make them question your every decision. That is "standing up for yourself", "girl power". Who wants a woman like that? No one!
 

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What they're really saying is "I can't get a man and keep him in my life, even if it meant to save my life"
 

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Nearly every woman I talk to intimately says that they don't know where they are going. That they are anxious. That they are worried about the future. That they don't even know their bloody directions. What is the result of women's freedom? They get the prime opportunity to spend a lifetime on pharmaceutical pills while being eternally anxious.

The end result of feminism is to make women annoying and to make them question your every decision. That is "standing up for yourself", "girl power". Who wants a woman like that? No one!
Imo it's more to make women unwitting tools of oppression
 

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Personally I have always believed based on the way it's used is that they don't need some bum ass dude who takes and takes but doesn't give much in return.

Most of these women have been in a relationship where they have been the ones working, paying the bills and cooking/cleaning while the guy basically sits around and doesn't do anything other than play video games, hang out with friends or smokes weed.

So basically it's them saying "I don't need to raise a child" as my boyfriend, I want a man who is going to have something worth offering in a relationship and she will wait to find it instead of going out with random bum ass dudes.
 

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I am convinced that most outspoken feminist are either sexually unsuccessful (or undesirable) with men and take their anger out on the opposite sex as result. That or they have had a handful of experiences with men and paint a broad picture of all men being inherently bad and evil through a distorted confirmation bias. We see the inverse in certain MRA circles. Both sexes are looking to place blame and not be accountable where it is necessary. That said, any girl that says "I don't need no man" is more often than not coping with her inability to get a man that ACTUALLY satisfies her standards. Even if those standards are not justified...

Personally I have always believed based on the way it's used is that they don't need some bum ass dude who takes and takes but doesn't give much in return. Most of these women have been in a relationship where they have been the ones working, paying the bills and cooking/cleaning while the guy basically sits around and doesn't do anything other than play video games, hang out with friends or smokes weed.So basically it's them saying "I don't need to raise a child" as my boyfriend, I want a man who is going to have something worth offering in a relationship and she will wait to find it instead of going out with random bum ass dudes.
I agree.

There are women I know who have dated complete losers and don't want to put in the time or investment in a new relationship. I would still think they should keep an open mind to quality guys and once a good one comes along they seem to magically drop that sentiment entirely. That said, that women better have something to offer in return more than just her body. She wants a quality guy and not a boy then she better be of some quality herself.

Both parties should mutually satisfy each others needs and bolster one another in the context of a relationship. When it is lopsided we get into this blaming of gender/identity politics nonsense which perpetuates throughout western media.
 

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Nearly every woman I talk to intimately says that they don't know where they are going. That they are anxious. That they are worried about the future. That they don't even know their bloody directions. What is the result of women's freedom? They get the prime opportunity to spend a lifetime on pharmaceutical pills while being eternally anxious.

The end result of feminism is to make women annoying and to make them question your every decision. That is "standing up for yourself", "girl power". Who wants a woman like that? No one!
How many men know where they are going? Half of the dudes under 30 still live in their parents basements for Christ's sake...

It's not a gender issue, it's endemic to society these days.
 

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How many men know where they are going? Half of the dudes under 30 still live in their parents basements for Christ's sake...

It's not a gender issue, it's endemic to society these days.
*Nobody* knows where they're going, given the complete clusterphuck the world is these days.
 

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Just another attempt to devalue men to make them feel better.
 

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You're talking about provisioning and just my take but when I hear women scream they don't NEED a man, they're not talking about financially, women can and are supporting themselves just fine these days.

They're talking about mentally/emotionally/spiritually. Many of these feminist types don't trust men, they don't respect men, and as such don't need them emotionally or otherwise; I have always thought there should be a WGTOW because I am seeing so much of this.

I don't even blame men for this because even IF a man was a total loser, living in mom's basement, no job, no path, SHE chose him. SHE chose to continue dating him.

I'm sorry I realize I am female but that's on HER. Not him.

It's her responsibility to choose better men, not to continue dating these loser men and later develop this "I DON'T NEED MEN," mindset.

I am sorry but that's just bullshyt.
Oh for sure she bears the blame for her poor decision making in dating someone like that in the first place...all I am saying is this is the type of thing you hear after they had their fill of those guys and "trying to fix them" or "make it work".

Call it learning from your own previous mistakes or whatever, but often times they only lasts for a period of time and then they go right back to dating the same type of dudes they swore they were done with.

The ones who actually do learn from their mistakes and won't accept those types of dudes anymore, I commend them.
 

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How many men know where they are going? Half of the dudes under 30 still live in their parents basements for Christ's sake...

It's not a gender issue, it's endemic to society these days.
I agree. Now men also say they don't need women. Somehow it became a strength to not need or want women.
 

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I agree. Now men also say they don't need women. Somehow it became a strength to not need or want women.
They try to convince others their complete lack of any sort of ambition in their life is a strength not a weakness. SMFH
 

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I am convinced that most outspoken feminist are either sexually unsuccessful (or undesirable) with men and take their anger out on the opposite sex as result. That or they have had a handful of experiences with men and paint a broad picture of all men being inherently bad and evil through a distorted confirmation bias.
No, they're aware that not all men are like that, but they aren't responding to that nice guy in her DMs that's for sure.
 

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what’s the difference between this and MGTOW?
 

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what’s the difference between this and MGTOW?
I would say the fact that women have a d*ck she can adopt at anytime.
 

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I was watching a TV show the other day and one of the girls, who earns her living with OnlyFans, said that she supports herself without needing a man.

I thought to myself: “but if she makes money from OnlyFans, then she depends on men to support herself, no?”

Hilarious!

They don't know what they say.
 

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A lot of times, women don't need an individual man. They have a bachelor's degree or higher to earn a solid living at some white collar job. They have sex toys to get an orgasm and some can even have sex with each other.

What women actually need is the collective of men.

Men do the following jobs that make women's lives easier.

  • Most STEM jobs, which allow women to have computers to make their white collar jobs easier and smartphones to make their personal lives easier.
  • Electricians, plumbers, HVAC workers, auto mechanics, aircraft mechanics, sanitation workers, construction workers, maintenance workers at apartment complexes or other rental properties. Women need all these men to live their pampered lives.
  • If a woman has an OnlyFans page, she depends on men for income. Strippers and breastaurant workers depend on men for their income too.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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