are woman generally shallow?

[PlatoPacks23]

obviously this is a gross generalization, but the more attractive girls I have met and gotten to know are generally... just like all about "happy emotions" and going to raves/music concerts with shallow music that makes them feel good, and are not necessarily as inquisitive and in-depth about things.

Now of course I find some over time that do go more into this, but in general I've found the opposite to be true.

is this a case of the chicken or the egg? Aka, they are seen as attractive and then just do things that "pump up their emotions" bc that's how it goes? Or what?

I don't mean to generalize but trying to wrap my head around it more

 

[PlatoPacks23]

They tend to have sensor (living in the present moment vs deep thought) and feeling (emotion and values driven vs logic and information driven) traits.

was also going to bring that up! they seem to just be very "Fleeting" with their emotions.. like they just forget things that happened a few days ago or even a few hours ago and are just about what happened "currently" in the present.

what do we do about this as men then? it feels like a much easier way to live as an attractive girl who is just swayed by the latest shiny object..

 

[Bingo-Player]

what do we do about this as men then? it feels like a much easier way to live as an attractive girl who is just swayed by the latest shiny object..

Because it is ,

Men have to understand how the world works or they are enslaved by both other men and women

Women in contrast (depending on how attractive they are) are allowed to pretty much do as they please they don't really have to worry about much other than being a bit more prettier / attractive than the next girl

Obviously age and mother nature eventually have their revenge without mercy so unless women are in committed settled relationships they become bitter and insane as they next generation of attractive women comes through and steals the spotlight

But the smart ones know they don't really need to worry about this until late 20's / early 30's so they have virtually 10-15 years where by they can literally do as they please

Need cash !?! quick photo of my pu$$y on only fans will make me 10k

Need more !?! quickly pop over to rich sugar daddy house give him a sloppy BJ brush my teeth BAM !! new audi on the drive

Having hard time in work !?! sleep with the boss / owner BAM no more hard time other than in my pu$$y wooo

This ****@ry goes on and on unfortunately.....

 

[patb]

They tend to have sensor (living in the present moment vs deep thought) and feeling (emotion and values driven vs logic and information driven) traits.

So do the type of men that thrive in this environment. The latter qualities are in serious danger of extinction.

 

[PlatoPacks23]

So do the type of men that thrive in this environment. The latter qualities are in serious danger of extinction.

so it's better as a man to be emotional and values driven? how do you cultivate that better?

 

[patb]

so it's better as a man to be emotional and values driven? how do you cultivate that better?

The only bandaid I've found is substance abuse.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

so it's better as a man to be emotional and values driven? how do you cultivate that better?

You can cultivate your spirituality. You don't want to be too emotional though

 

[LTG71]

I would say women are dopamine addicts. Everything they do is for that hit. Probably why they get bored with stable guys and like the excitement of “bad boys”. Majority of their thoughts and decisions are generally superficial and done to invoke some kind of dopamine reward. Women waste fortunes on make-up, nails, clothes and other frivolous purchases to find “feel good” vibes. Men do this too, but more on big ticket items like motorcycles, golf clubs, guns, bikes, boats, etc. Idk, the sh!t women focus on seems pointless. I could care less about nail color or fake eye lashes. I’d rather spend my energy on things that are rewarding and improve a skill. This is yet another aspect that makes us different.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

No more than men are generally shallow. Both can be for different reasons but at the end of the day if it's upon first meeting it usually will be due to looks for both sexes.

 

[SW15]

I would say that women are generally more shallow because they can be. They have more options and can filter based on very little.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Women are amazing to their friends, shallow to randoms and strangers. Part of being shallow is trying to be / act like they think they're supposed to.

See both men and women have these ideals of what they think it means to be a man/women, a cool guy, a cool gal, etc. They're trying to fit a scheme/ foster a personality. If you watch movies and sh.it women grew up on, itll make sense. They know that the hot girls are usually shallow, the mean girls are considered cool to other women, acting quiet and somber can portray being nice/a good girl. etc

You don't really understand women till you seen them enact their different masks for diff purposes.